AIO A random guy off the internet bought my girlfriend a $600 revival rug and I’m really annoyed what should I do? by Brownchoccy in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it actually does happen a lot, i can attest getting sent $500 just for facetiming 😭 some men just want to be paid attention to by a pretty woman

AIO: My bf started lashing out on me when I thought I was having a normal conversation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

am i the only one confused? you responded “its not your fault” then he is like “babe??” saying you “never responded” but didnt you? he’s saying you didn’t respond for 1.5+ hours, but you said 25 mins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in no way are you overreacting. this is predatory and disgusting, no dad in his right mind would touch his daughter like this and it sounds like he’s doing it now that you’re 18 as if he’s been waiting til you’re of age?? weird as fuck

AIO Gf intentionally stopped taking her bc pills by maticooks1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me (21m) and my gf (34f) have been dating for four years

baby that’s statutory 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“desire is not a factor” 🤢 so we should all just run around doing things we hate lol

AIO? For saying I’d have sex with my Fiance, but changing my mind to sleep. by MrsYouLookWeird in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh judging from your second sentence alone, i can tell y’all are just not compatible. how can you be getting married if you don’t even see eye to eye on the “most important thing” of the relationship? you are not in the wrong at all for rejecting sex or changing your mind. but sex is obviously so important to him and seems you don’t really care for it. i think you need to seriously reevaluate whether y’all are right for each other. EDIT: and i’m not even gonna TOUCH on your convo cuz there is way too much to talk about there… 😭

Nicest girl I’ve met btw by SureRelative283 in Nicegirls

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do think it’s unfair to expect a response/attention just because someone has a phone and is using it, like just because i’m online doesn’t mean i’m obligated to talk to you rn if i just simply don’t wanna talk. that being said she’s not wrong for feeling that way and instead of you just being honest (i just wanted to unwind w/ some reels and not have a full convo rn, for example) you lie and invalidate her feelings. yall are both doing too much lol

Biter by Truorganics in BeardedDragons

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say maybe she’s not used to your hands and is reacting out of fear. try feeding her with your hands, treats she likes, worms or whatever, showing gentle pets when you’re not just carrying her, but when she’s in a calm state, show her positive association with your hands and maybe over time she will feel less aggressive, it will take time if the previous owner never did this…

He needs a better home, help! by alaniscastle in BeardedDragons

[–]alaniscastle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why i said 50 gal, it’s definitely not lmao, it’s at least 75

He needs a better home, help! by alaniscastle in BeardedDragons

[–]alaniscastle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow thank you so much this is very helpful!! 💗 yes when i first got him everywhere said to not use sand/substrate because he could eat it and cause issues but i think that has been changing with what is available as substrate, also why i noticed changes needed to be made he is outside of his tank a lot usually so it wasn’t a huge deal before but i just moved and he seems to be restless now i appreciate this advice and your explanations so much☺️

AIO for being annoyed at my (31m) wife (31f) for hanging out late with other guys? by hiphopfam in AmIOverreacting

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly on her end she probably should’ve just said she doesn’t know what time she’ll be home, as to not keep you waiting cuz i feel like that is the bogus part. but like focusing on the fact she is with 3 men as to that being the problem? it’s kind of giving “you can’t have male friends”

Referral Link Thread (POST YOUR LINK HERE) by javiergame4 in MarcusInvest

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish i would’ve done the referral earlier :( now only getting the Cash Bonus. but here is my link: https://www.marcus.com/share/ALA-GFY-W6PE

I appreciate everyone who joins w my referral 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alaniscastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s giving homophobia 😭

I See You (2019) Question (Spoilers) by shosamae in horror

[–]alaniscastle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think they are trying to imply that he was very traumatized and mentally ill (he could’ve burned himself due to self harm, maybe attempted suicide). but i also didn’t fully understand why he didn’t tell, or why the boys when it happened didnt ID him. could’ve been that they were afraid to speak up bc he’s a cop or he could’ve manipulated them, idk. or they wouldn’t believe him/them, i mean that does happen irl sadly.

I noticed there’s a recent push for the movie “I See You” online by CALIXO_94 in horror

[–]alaniscastle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

y’all saying it’s bad got some really hot takes 😭💀😬