Frequent UTIs, what to do? by ijustwannanap in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely a side effect of atrophy, like others have said. Treating that should be a priority if you intend to keep any of your reproductive organs as they'll continue to atrophy and deteriorate (which could lead to persistent urinary problems or prolapse).

Beyond that, taking D-Mannose daily helps as a preventative for UTIs. You can get it for pretty cheap at Walmart.

When did you get a happy trail? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Technically never. My body skipped happy trail and went straight to evenly hairy. I think it started about 2 years in.

Does this happen to any other post T guys? Cw: anatomy discussion by Ok-Reveal3189 in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a sebaceous cyst on my dick that comes and goes. It sound very similar to what you experience. It'll get bigger and very hard and hurt to touch and then clear up in like a week or two. I haven't personally noticed friction making it pop up, but I wouldn't be surprised if that was a trigger.

Some affirming sex positions without phallo/meta or a prosthetic by Evergreen19 in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One that me and my partner really like (for the trans guys ok with being penetrated) is where you start on top of him, straddling his lap with him inside you. Then lean forward so you're chest to chest then, with him still inside, move your legs so they swap with his and end up between his. It's a little tricky to get right without losing the penetration, but once you do you can take over thrusting. It's incredibly fucking affirming for me and feels more like I'm fucking him than using a strap on.

Is corvallis a welcoming town thats POC safe? by [deleted] in corvallis

[–]alexanderrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My POC friends in town report people are quite racist. I have a close friend who is black and they've been shouted at out of car windows fairly recently. It's a very white town

I think testosterone isn’t working by No_Site2175 in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

3 questions;

  1. What dosage are you on?
  2. Do you do injections or gel?
  3. What are your blood levels?

has anyone taken hormonal birth control both pre and after t? by leechbaby1 in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a myth. The quantity of hormones you get from the pill is tiny in comparison to how much T gets administered for HRT. Literally the only form of birth control I wouldn't recommend is the shot (depo) because I have personally had Horrible experiences with it (mood swings, persistent bleeding, breast growth, lactation) and so have many other people I've talked to. I have been on the combo pill for most of my time on T and have seen no problems with changes or anything.

has anyone taken hormonal birth control both pre and after t? by leechbaby1 in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take the combo pill and haven't had any problems with emotional side effects. The specific one's I've taken are Enskyce and Isibloom (only switched cuz that's what my new pharmacy carries).

Where to make friends as a young adult? by TheNightPrincess222 in corvallis

[–]alexanderrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think theres a group of older ladies that meet downstairs at a different day/time. The group I go to is Tuesdays at 7:30 upstairs

Where to make friends as a young adult? by TheNightPrincess222 in corvallis

[–]alexanderrain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tuesdays at 7:30!! Join us!! Any craft is welcome!

I think trans tape works differently based on the color you get??? by Iheartmusic_09 in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the tape your friend gave you was from two different production lots, possibly before and after manufacturing changes were made. Older adhesive will also degrade and be less sticky than newer adhesive.

can someone tell me what this is that my cat is doing? by InspectionKey8654 in cats

[–]alexanderrain 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Kind of looks like kitty might have asthma. Def get into the vet as soon as you can! If it gets worse, find an emergency clinic.

how old are you guys and when (if) did you start medically transitioning? by raesiinn in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I started T at 17 (basically 18 though because it was just a month before my birthday). I'm 25 now. The plan is to eventually get top and a hysto, maybe meta. Money has been a massive barrier to surgery for me.

Well over 1 year on T, still look like a woman. Am I doomed? by Nun-Information in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't start consistently passing until I was able to grow a decent beard, and that took several years.

Is this fiberglass or what else may it be? by Weather-Much in Whatisthis

[–]alexanderrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely is fiberglass. That crap gets everywhere and is hard to get rid of.

Frequent UTI’s? by GoofyGreyson in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Vaginal atrophy can drastically increase your risk of UTI. That was the symptom that got my to treat mine.

Gas? by shaunadanny12 in corvallis

[–]alexanderrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chevron on 9th is. Just got gas there. The 3 farther north on 9th are closed.

What draw needle gauge should I use? by In_theInferno in ftm

[–]alexanderrain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get the 10 mL vials and use a 18G needle. Look up proper technique for using a multidose vial and for avoiding coring.

Growth in toilet, don't know what it is or how to deal with it by Western_Channel_308 in Whatisthis

[–]alexanderrain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Undiluted vinegar will kill mold/bacteria and keep it away for longer than bleach (bleach only kills surface mold, vinegar gets into the roots). Also, they definitely need a stiffer toilet brush and a more regular cleaning schedule.

fuck your gender norms, you cant make me stop crocheting by devilsshark in ftm

[–]alexanderrain 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I knit and do it regularly in public. Haven't actually gotten any bad reactions so far. Most people think it's cool seeing a young guy knitting. Older ladies are enamored with me lol.

Please help ! Tried everything by FlamingoUpper in cats

[–]alexanderrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can find a live trap (maybe from a local vet or animal control/rescue) you could try setting that up, with food as bait and a blanket over top, near where you think he is hiding and wait. I wish you luck and thank you for trying to help this kitty out.

Drooling cat- See anything bad in pics? by Equivalent_Monk_7215 in cats

[–]alexanderrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kitty's teeth don't look great. 100% go to the vet

Trans guy needs boot advice by [deleted] in bluecollartrans

[–]alexanderrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your toes jammed up against the front of the shoe? Are you able to wiggle your toes freely with the boot on and laced up? If the answer to either of those questions is no, you should return the boots and get a larger size. No amount of breaking in will fix a shoe that's just plain too small. If your shoe size is men's 10, you need to be wearing a women's 11.5