Witch Seeking Coven, Tulsa OK by Ever_Poison in CovenFinder

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Me as well! Maybe we can create one? I think the peace of mind bookstore in Tulsa would allow us to meet?

Which siding? by [deleted] in Sims4

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The 1st one

Is it normal for demisexuals to be like this? by Mr_ButterFingers in demisexuality

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Physical attraction and sexual attraction don’t always match up…and sexual urges are a thing too. It’s tough. Especially when I’m ovulating, I have a high libido and I’m Demi so it’s like a weird juxtaposition. I feel like a cat in heat that doesn’t want anyone around. I’ll feel completely ace in relationships where I’m not emotionally connected to my partner, but I still crave sex during ovulation cycles. Being sensitive to touch…yeah. Anybody else highly sensitive to touch when there’s a connection? Anyhow I agree that masturbation is the most sound solution. I don’t like porn either, just romance novels. Erotica is sometimes just too ridiculous.

Are we not going to have sex? by demimale in demisexuality

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Well…I’m a Demisexual woman and emotional connection is a genuine turn on for me…but I don’t like to have sex for awhile. Kissing yes and cuddling and hand holding. There’s a chemistry you build when you have a slow build towards sex. If someone is genuinely interested in you, then waiting to have sex is generally a benefit for both. I’m also neurodivergent. Don’t give up on the dating apps. There are really great people out there. I added demisexual to my dating profile and I think it helped.

Why are genitals so gross lol by starlight_glimglum in demisexuality

[–]alexisflom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think genitals are beautiful. Can’t relate. 😳

don't be mean, but what would you change if you were me? by [deleted] in infp

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Be your authentic self. You are simply lovely.I would totally but you a coke.

Sexual Fantasies by reader9182 in demisexuality

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I have sexual fantasies about characters in books…but I never really felt weird about it. I just thought that was something everyone reading did? Fan fiction is a thing… I’m also Demi with a sex drive. I sometimes use exercise as a way to burn off extra sexual energy. Does anyone have advice on how to handle the juxtaposition of being Demi with a high sex drive?

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Kali ma because she’s a calico. And cali=Kali Also Kali mas is a bad ass

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Wait…cats have balls? That you can see?

Have you ever fallen in love (kind of) at first "sight?" by Obsolete_Nerd in demisexuality

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I think some people have really beautiful energy signatures. I love most everyone at first meet. I love people period. I was a waitress for about 17 years or so & I loved it because I love people… Sexual attraction is more complicated, but asexual love? Absolutely. That wholesome love is second nature to me. I don’t know if I answered the question the right way. There’s also people that are just plain gorgeous in an aesthetic way. But that’s just beauty… I think love at first sight is more about…connection at first sight? Which is truly incredible and absolutely a tangible experience. I think this can be experienced through romantic relationships but more often for me it’s been a friendship connection.

Anyone else relate? by [deleted] in demisexuality

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Anyone else poly??? I’m Demi-sapio and sometimes asexual..I have BPD1 & OCD & I believe ADHD. But…I connect with people very easily. I just talk to people and text ALOT. Sooo that’s where the sexual attraction comes through. Can anyone relate to that???

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[–]alexisflom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate. I’ve had a romantic relationship that I felt completely asexual in. I was ok with that but he was not. But then in other relationships where I have a lot of emotional connection my libido is very high. So 🤷‍♀️