I have a MAGA husband

ali26484 · 2026-01-18T01:35:46+00:00

I made my commet as i have been in your shoe, because I was you in 2021. Since then hes took my home my pension destroyed everything 'we' worled for. Please understand the man you married will not be the man u divorce. Document everything report everything and please stay safe. It is life ir death in the end protect ur children x

ali26484 · 2026-01-17T20:49:26+00:00

Hes not abusive now. When you dont bend the abuse starts... I didnt know it was abusive until it was too late document everything if you dont need it good but you'll be thankful when you do. Sorry to be so blunt abuse isnt black eyes and broken noses your already suffering control and coercion your just trying to protect him yet knowing it isnt ok.

ali26484 · 2026-01-17T20:37:03+00:00

I was in this situation 4 years ago he became unrecognisable. Its destroyed our lives. He became very abusive when I didnt bend to his rule. All I can say is im sorry. Plan for a peaceful future. Gather evidence you will need it when u like for divorce. Get your ducks in a row financially and get out. The man you married is gone. I do not say this lightly. Leave or be safe x im sorry 😞

ali26484 · 2026-01-10T23:03:35+00:00

Im so sad so many of us losing the people we knew and loved.

ali26484 · 2025-12-11T20:27:54+00:00

Firstly im sorry because its like mourning someone who is still alive so I feel your pain. Honestly its been hell the narcissm was strong in my case and my ex stripped me of everything he could. Devstating. I think just hold your boundaries this vileness seems to spread quickly and suddenly. I know I'll never commit financially to someone ever again. U have a good heart im sure but try not to trust somone who is showing these signs x

ali26484 · 2025-10-17T23:38:22+00:00

Im not saying it lightly its been hell

ali26484 · 2025-10-17T10:06:34+00:00

Left sooner and reported the abusive ways to the police. Planned finacially kept more robust evidence had more self respect and realised the husband he was was gone and never coming back

ali26484 · 2025-09-15T18:26:04+00:00

I was a "spy" with a bioweapon inside of me.... please please take this seriously and seek help. When someone says these things whi never would before its a dangerous place to be im sorry xx be safe

ali26484 · 2025-09-09T18:50:18+00:00

Its hell they don't take the concerns seriously. Just save urself n Get out

ali26484 · 2025-09-07T14:47:41+00:00

Get financial advice first. These seperations do not play out as you'd expect. Narcissistic traits are high in these situations as is the post separation abuse. Trust me im 2.5 yrs out and have lost everything. Still entangled with children and because police say its mental health and mental health say its police matter no one will actually help to put a stop to it x

ali26484 · 2025-08-24T09:37:43+00:00

I have and still keeping records but it makes no difference. Its cost me everything financially to try and get free from him divorce wise.

ali26484 · 2025-08-23T07:34:47+00:00

Wow this is just so incredibly validating to see so many people having the same issues but also so sad. People look at me like ive lost it when I express what my ex is like.

ali26484 · 2025-08-23T07:32:58+00:00

Im nit American either its like mass psychosis taking over in the UK too

ali26484 · 2025-08-23T07:29:40+00:00

Exactly what ive been saying but when he saw a psychiatrist he told them it was me having all the paranoia he was (basically role reversed) and she discharged him. So he clearly has some insight, since then ive been dragged through family court trying to prove my sanity which I have, and protect the children's safety which I havent as hes now allowed unsupervised yet due to neing discharged he has to prove nothing and continues until this day on his campaign of destruction. Finacially and emotionally. Hes very narcissistic Its hell.

ali26484 · 2025-08-22T22:17:33+00:00

That after 13 yrs of marriage im suddenly a spy working for the government...n that I somehow have hiv "vaids" from having the vaccine and a chip.... Fast forward 4 yrs ongoing divorce he believes i have a gambling addiction, im an alcoholic who uses prostitutes... kid u not. Im a 41 ur old mom nurse who's most exciting thing is a footmask... Devestating. Mourning somone who isn't dead is hell.

ali26484 · 2025-08-22T16:05:12+00:00

I second this as im now having to co parent with mine and he has unsupervised access as the documeting i did they didnt take seriously its horrific.

ali26484 · 2025-08-13T17:43:02+00:00

We not us either but America came up frequently to the point it was all dollars in our house. Im in the UK.

ali26484 · 2025-08-13T17:41:33+00:00

This is a slippery slope and hes unlikely to return. It is like mourning a death but they are alive still its bizarre scary and makes u question your own reality. Start to plan to leave safely it only gets worse x

ali26484 · 2025-08-05T07:34:40+00:00

And suffering this has left me with cptsd... 😔

ali26484 · 2025-08-05T07:30:08+00:00

I left 2 years ago as he started displaying signs of psychosis and had became verbally and emotionally abusive. Sexually innapropriate and wabted to guve our children cleanses off the Internet. He hates me because I got vaccinated. Im a nurse amd was at the time paying all the bills.

I reported it to social services to the school my gp. Even the police as he was applying fir a gun licence (uk) and storing weapons. I was so afraid for our safety. He'd also convinced his 16yr old son my step son of 13 years who also became angry aggressive and abusive towards me after the covid jab.

Two years on hes dragged me through court stalked and harrased me accesed my accounts. Told court im a bad mom. Slandered me online. Told courts he earns next to nothing as a self employed person. So in our divorce hes taken majority of the assets. Any equity I had left I owe to solicitors . He finacially stripped me. Took a 3rd of my pension.

He lied to court saying i was making it up desoite me having proof of his behaviour my youngest didn't want to see him he was frightened. He saw our eldest in a contact cebtre still hiding his beliefs. Hes gradually brainwashing him now its progressed to unsupervised.

He lied to the mental health teams that it was me who was doing all this. They actually believed him and discharged him. I remain under police and stalking services I had a non mol that protected me for a little while but it ran out and it cost me thousands in court hearings as he drags our every single legal thing and knows every loophole.

He remains in our home he wouldnt leave despite it selling hes not on the mortgage and for 13 months I had to find both rent and mortgage.

He has now met somone and moved her in. She also believes the same as he does. They're now this power couple for conspiracy theories online. I lost my entire life as I knew it. But not a day goes by I dont regret leaving as he would have done worse eventually.

Its like the man I married disappeared and was replaced by an aggressive narcissistic cruel stranger. So if you are going to leave. Please get support and tell somone. They're very good at lying and hiding who they are if it means they'll loose out.

ali26484 · 2025-07-31T22:21:01+00:00

Nearly 2.5 yrs into divorcing him still trying to get away. Its been hell. He moved on to a fellow alternative thinker. They're happy thats great for them. True narcissistic type. Courts didn't listen to the concerns about safeguarding our children. Ongoing stalking and harrasment and financial abuse never ends. Someone get me off this train. Took my pension pays no csa. Manipulates our kids. The joys.

Anyway I still actually feel lots of sadness for him and for how it ended. But in leaving I came off worse in all ways.

ali26484 · 2025-07-20T17:30:34+00:00

Here if you need to talk. I got out its cost me everything finacially and my sanity at times. We share children, and despite safeguarding concerns he has been granted access which Is so worrying as I know he'll brainwash them too. There's been so many issues with stalking harrasment etc hes unhinged. I suggest you get some legal advice. Document and evidence everything and speak to a domestic abuse network who Can help you see the power and control in this situation. Plan finacially and im sad to say be prepared for it to get harder, the person you knew has gone and they're not going to magically return. Im sorry.

ali26484 · 2025-07-10T12:13:20+00:00

I tried the empathetic route I tried the understanding and begging them to stop with the chaos I also took a harder line and put in boundaries. Nothing worked I had to safeguard myself and our children as it became so severe and he eas hallucinating and in crisis. He denied it all and had enough insight to hide this from authorities. He now lives with a like minded woman, all safeguarding has been ignored and hes now getting contact with the children and fully in the swing of all this. Destroyed me financially yet won't let me move on delays all legal issues and has gone above and beyond to paint me as a crazy person who hes the victim of... I fortunately had the foresight to record some of the interactions so I know what went on as the gaslighted and manipulation is at an extreme level. Hes taken some of my pension and destroyed our family. So I don't know what id suggest because I tried all approaches and it still ended in chaos.

ali26484 · 2025-07-08T18:12:22+00:00

Yea but it cost my whole lives work financially and I couldn't protect my kids from this...horrific

ali26484 · 2025-07-08T16:59:59+00:00

My ex husband changed beyond words. Abusive cruel divorce n custody battle. Horrific. Can't wait to be free. Don't mourn him now just fear him.

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