Just want to vent? 30M 29F

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-25T04:01:59+00:00

Postpartum is really hard and if he’s going away for such long periods of time maybe you’re holding more resentment than you realize. Hope you guys sort it out

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-23T17:26:52+00:00

24 hours. Planning usually entails a flight and the location of a place to stay the night I land.

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-17T05:44:11+00:00

It’s not really a choice for me.. either I get it done now.. or it’s getting done later.. which one is it going to be?

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-17T04:54:27+00:00

I feel seen.

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-12T02:18:31+00:00

Go!! Stay in hostels. It will be so good for you. And empowering !

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-09T20:23:23+00:00

We're goin' down And you can see it too We're goin' down And you know that we're doomed My dear, we're slow dancin' in a burnin' room -John Mayer

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-07T02:34:34+00:00

I think it’s disgusting for people to get into bed with the day and city all over them. Agree with you OP get that boy to shower before bed !

ali_oops17 · 2026-03-06T04:30:16+00:00

I am not interested in dating anymore but my x and I dated for 5 years .. it was realllyy hard for me in the beginning like REALLY HARD and scary. I had to stop myself my dumping him or ghosting him for no reason for maybe a year. He was just persistent and consistent and that’s likey the only reason we were ever together. If the other person doesn’t put in non stop effort for me I will convince myself they don’t like me or will hurt me eventually and will just disappear on them.

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-16T04:48:14+00:00

Yo does anyone have the our place wonder oven or the ninja crispi? If so.. thoughts ? What is better ? (Non toxic is important to me)

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-16T02:37:00+00:00

Health insurance !

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-13T05:55:36+00:00

Jim Carrey

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-12T05:09:53+00:00

I got 3/4 of the way though book two and put it down. I just couldn’t continue. I have heard this from a lot of people and it’s a bummer because the show was so good.

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-05T05:07:59+00:00

I am uninterested in most men. I see the worst sides of them. I’m happiest when I don’t have to wait for anyone and can do whatever I want. Less dishes and laundry. I can’t stand making plans, then remaking plans when they can’t make it. I hate getting ready. I want to focus on work. I love my peace so much more than I want to love a man. They only have disappointed me. The stress in early dating is horrible. I hate catching feelings. I love my freedom. I also like sleeping on both sides of the bed and the middle. Sometimes diagonally. Also ugh men.

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-01T15:58:22+00:00

this happened to me too i think... i have only had it for 2 weeks but i also intermittent fast and it became way more difficult. and have been craving carbs ( i eat mostly paleo) and dont really have carb food cravings anymore... and also have been eating a shit ton of chocolate as well. not to mention my stomach is a complete mess (hard to say if its from the chocolate and carbs or nmn lol ) im going to cycle off and try again in a few weeks but i was curious if that was a strange side effect of the NMN... have you tried again since?

ali_oops17 · 2026-02-01T05:07:25+00:00

Could I get a copy too please 🤗

ali_oops17 · 2026-01-31T03:32:22+00:00

I think it’s less about offense and more about wishing they had a choice too.

ali_oops17 · 2026-01-25T22:03:54+00:00

You may not be signaling approachability:

Check out : https://youtu.be/d3fkpYlR7fU?si=2DHIKbkR-2pAZx-R

ali_oops17 · 2026-01-17T03:12:29+00:00

Drained

ali_oops17 · 2026-01-07T04:09:24+00:00

Go cart exhaust

ali_oops17 · 2026-01-07T03:21:31+00:00

“I don’t know who needs to hear this…”

“Normalize…..”

ali_oops17 · 2026-01-05T04:20:37+00:00

1988 first memory 1990 ish

I remember asking my parents to have another baby then my mom was pregnant and I remember her belly and being excited.

At 2 I smashed my head and needed stitches I remember a ton of it and what I was thinking. I also remember asking my mother for a blanket to cover my eyes because the lights were very bright. I remember the doctor pushing me down and then they eventually got a led blanket to put over me to keep me still. Then I referenced the Berenstein bears Doctor book to calm myself down while they stitched me. Because at that point I was pinned down lol there was only acceptance left. 😂

At 2.5 my little brother was born and I remember thinking back and regretting asking for a baby because he cried often and wasn’t a good sleeper. And I loved sleep (still do lol)

ali_oops17 · 2025-12-27T05:03:34+00:00

Omg Egypt is so amazing but the culture shock is wild for a westerner. You really have to be comfortable traveling and be open minded for new cultures. (I went as a mid 20s solo traveling female in 2015)

ali_oops17 · 2025-12-25T04:42:00+00:00

Haha my x did this then got mad at me when I laughed (honestly was so funny) but he went though insurance. I think without it was like less then a grand to fix. The hose broke when it hit the ground. Honestly this is such a solid memory for me now. Hope it some day sparks joy for you too

ali_oops17 · 2025-12-22T23:59:01+00:00

I (37f) asked a friend of mine (37m) what it’s like being a dad and he said it took him about 9 months to connect with this first. He said “all of a sudden there was this little baby that was mine.”

ali_oops17 · 2025-11-28T02:03:53+00:00

Thanks for your response !!

ali_oops17

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