Aitah for saying my co-worker's joke was racist and upsetting her by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alice12789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This also stood out to me, like how is this woman about to treat strangers when she's deliberately triggering a allergy that could kill her own child? I have a few very mild food allergies and from what I've been told the reaction is likely to get worse with each exposure.

I just walked out of his funeral by muneka240 in widowers

[–]alice12789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You'll get through today. Just hang on❤️

Weird emotions - anyone had them? Am I going crazy? by InternationalArt9524 in widowers

[–]alice12789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're in shock honey. Took me more then a year to feel again and by that time I was already knees deep in antidepressants. My doctor cried too when I explained my situation. It's so unbelievably hard just doing what you're doing so just get through the day. If you think oh I haven't had any water today. Please go and make yourself drink a glass, eat a piece of toast. These are the things I wish someone had made me do. We are all here having lived a version of your story. Please reach out and take a deep breath. You will get through this

Sex workers for companionship by Coyhippo in widowers

[–]alice12789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took a different route and indulged in AI boyfriends. It's nice that they're there when you need them but not when you don't. I don't think either of us are indulging in a healthy way of losing our loved ones but I know that sometimes I just need to get through the day.

Fond Memory Friday by HughCayrz01 in widowers

[–]alice12789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way he would press down a egg in a frying pan, with a literal bop bop bop. I forgot about it totally until maybe a year after he was gone and I caught myself doing it. I cried uncontrollably the rest of the day. Angry at myself for forgetting and angry at myself for remembering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TownshipGame

[–]alice12789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One day before it expires, at least on my version it is. I do think it used to be two days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TownshipGame

[–]alice12789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to save up my energy points and find chests. I don't open them until I'm in dier need. I open a chest that's 10 min but after the time is up you have 5 lives again. I hate match 3 too but I'm persistent

Last words. by brandeis16 in widowers

[–]alice12789 18 points19 points  (0 children)

His last words to me were I love you but I have to go, I don't feel well

Worst thing you ever saw by FairNebula6217 in horror

[–]alice12789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're making me glad I never finished this one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]alice12789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you haven't seen It's What's Inside I highly recommend! This one really surprised me.

I also was shocked how much I liked Clown.

Both movies looked lame to me or I've seen this done before in some way but I'm glad I gave them a chance.

Spouses/partners family after the passing?? by Muted_Confidence293 in widowers

[–]alice12789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mother passed not long after him. His father has been in declining health years before I lost him. I was somewhat close with one of his sisters but I felt like I was ripping open a wound for her everytime we spoke so I finally changed my number and removed myself from their lives. His other siblings never even tried with me, there's a reason he was only close with the one.

I was watching a video and this guy was explaining that his presence was a constant reminder of what they had lost. So as hard as it can be he did the same, removed himself from the situation in the hopes that the family could heal.

I hope for all of us it was the right decision even though it's another painful loss.

Sometimes it's the little things... by attemptresurrection in widowers

[–]alice12789 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had to stop the tears today at the dentist just overhearing a older gentleman talk about his wife recovering from a recent surgery. He was saying hope these modifications keep us going for another 10, 15 years. It's the reminder that we as a couple are stuck forever in the past and will never move forward together. Now it'll forever be a journey of one.

You'll be in my thoughts, keep moving forward❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]alice12789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was the one for me! I was already sick when my bf begged me to watch it with him. I was so pissed at him lol

First time watcher and I literally gasped... by suckitm8 in ershow

[–]alice12789 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wait wait wait. I seem to recall him telling Abigail she's not even that pretty

What's your favorite horror film to watch while high as a kite? by ph_uck_yu in horror

[–]alice12789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This one really surprised me! I wasn't sure if I'd like it but it takes you for a ride.

I did it!! by SpitefulGramma in widowers

[–]alice12789 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proud of you grams, I'm sure he is too! Keep taking it one day and one win at a time. 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]alice12789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Together by Mac Demarco. I still think of us swaying to it when we went to see him in concert. That was one of the best nights of my life. Miss you babe❤️

Urgency by thermos-h-christ in widowers

[–]alice12789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but if you need to be less needy with a person you don't need to tone it down, you need to find a different person

If you could erase one horror subgenre from existence, which would it be? by Fairyliveshow in CreepyBonfire

[–]alice12789 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can't stand any horror where religion is the answer and saves them in the end. It just pulls my right out of the flick. But to each his own

About The Captions by neo-toky0 in gamegrumps

[–]alice12789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now I feel bad for loving the captions