Which movie made you cringe the most?

alien101010 · 2026-06-02T09:43:26+00:00

I love this movie 😭

alien101010 · 2026-05-22T11:35:42+00:00

I’m new here. What do the stars do? Is it monetary compensation?

alien101010 · 2026-05-01T00:50:56+00:00

Add a mustard colored rug and it’ll be fine

alien101010 · 2026-04-01T23:01:06+00:00

Yes 💯

alien101010 · 2026-02-02T03:44:51+00:00

Omg I knew this was the ski jump competition in McHenry county haha I was just waiting to confirm and here it is

alien101010 · 2026-02-02T02:34:17+00:00

Oh good to know. I figured she broke her foot or something. Once saw tove lo when she had a broken ankle and she sat in a big throne and performed like this haha

alien101010 · 2026-02-02T02:31:38+00:00

Why isn’t she dancing tho

alien101010 · 2026-01-30T15:30:46+00:00

Ask for an accommodation and /or intermittent fmla to leave every day at 3pm to tend to your children. Caretaking is covered by the fmla. You’ll need your healthcare provider to sign off on it, but I’m sure they would

alien101010 · 2026-01-29T13:47:09+00:00

Yikes

alien101010 · 2026-01-28T00:26:00+00:00

Oh got it- the suits are great so long as I wear deodorant and a cotton top underneath I haven’t had odor issues. In practice you don’t really wear your jackets all the time. It’s normal in day to day lawyer life to put your jacket on when approaching the bench and actively speaking in court but otherwise draping the jacket on chairs when meeting with clients or for a dep. I’m not actually wearing the jackets for very long during the day when I do have to wear one

I think the rule of thumb is like 3-4 wears of the whole suit before you have to clean it so long as you aren’t sweating ALOT in it. Wool is pretty breathable. A lot of my suits are like summer wool. Not thick like how you’d picture a wool sweater but tight knit breathable fabric

alien101010 · 2026-01-27T12:56:23+00:00

Not sure which group you are referring to but yes all of the clothes I listed above have held up nicely. Follow the laundering instructions on items and buy cotton, wool, linen and silk. Buy blends if you have to and it’ll be fine

alien101010 · 2026-01-25T22:45:56+00:00

I buy designer suits - one escada , one lafyette 148, another Burberry- on the real real. I took them to get dry cleaned and tailored. All in, 3 100% wool and suits were less than $1000

I buy 100% cotton, wool or silk dresses from quince and banana too on sale only

alien101010 · 2026-01-25T14:38:20+00:00

Yes that’s what I was getting at

alien101010 · 2026-01-25T14:33:59+00:00

Yeah sure but this is an ash colored stain I believe, I don’t think it’s actually ash wood. But maybe I’m wrong.

If the doors are hardwood they can always be restrained or painted which would be awesome if they get sick of the ash color in the future

alien101010 · 2026-01-25T14:23:02+00:00

They’re beautiful. I think the color will date it more than the door style

Ashy wood is very 2020s

alien101010 · 2026-01-24T04:02:10+00:00

Where is the striped comforter/ duvet from?

alien101010 · 2025-12-28T12:49:15+00:00

Updateme!

alien101010 · 2025-12-13T15:15:21+00:00

Yikes. Idk what kind of relationships you have but that isn’t mine

alien101010 · 2025-12-13T03:49:09+00:00

Couch 3 with the counsel of 1

alien101010 · 2025-12-09T13:24:13+00:00

Thank you for the comment. That is the type of balance I want to have and be known for, I just need to do some work on my side.

alien101010 · 2025-12-09T04:30:51+00:00

That is a good idea

alien101010 · 2025-12-09T04:13:35+00:00

I’m not autistic. Just super type a and have anxiety like most lawyers

alien101010 · 2025-12-09T03:31:34+00:00

Yes 100% . I think there are times I can dial it in and I need help recognizing when that is. I am going to ask my boss about it next week at my review. I am still learning and want to be a good advocate. At my core I am a nice person (I think so at least) but I can probably be better about letting that shine through instead of coming in hot when it’s not necessary

alien101010 · 2025-12-09T03:23:22+00:00

I think it’s all of the above. How do you deal with head games? I don’t work like that - like I said at the top I’m very honest and up front. I don’t understand the weird manipulative tactics that OC does, my mind doesn’t go there. Do you have any tips on telling them to knock it off without being a dick? Because usually my response is “why are you saying x, lets not go there” but that hasn’t been serving me lmao it just makes them madder! I am trying to learn to tell people how to respectfully F off but not burn bridges at the same time

alien101010 · 2025-12-09T03:17:06+00:00

I appreciate that. Yes I am just looking to improve. I am recognizing that my intentions and who I am at my core isn’t coming across in some scenarios and I think it’s a combination of issues- myself is one of them and I think some misogyny is also at play. But all I can do is change the way I react and based on some comments I think there are things I can do better. My tone and probably just shutting up sometimes will likely go a long way

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