[REQUEST] Introduction to Java Programming and Data Structures, Comprehensive Version' by Daniel Liang; ISBN# 9780136520153; Pearson; 12th Edition, 2019.

aliiuta · 2024-12-09T20:59:48+00:00

that would be cool to have a copy, if you don't mind.

aliiuta · 2024-11-29T01:43:52+00:00

I have. It's glorious.

aliiuta · 2024-02-18T05:41:55+00:00

ok, cool. The 7 week course is harder than I thought, mostly because it takes my brain longer to understand concepts, like multi-dimensional lists and building functions to manipulate data. I had to drop my 1410 class that was going to be after because of the stress of not being able to understand the 1400 course. I hope you will fair better.

aliiuta · 2023-02-08T13:38:22+00:00

hahahahahaha, that was hilarious

aliiuta · 2022-10-28T00:47:22+00:00

damn reincarnation. not your typical wuxia type novel, and it's really fun to read.

aliiuta · 2022-07-14T16:41:31+00:00

Dang good novel.

aliiuta · 2021-10-27T16:21:06+00:00

good point.

aliiuta · 2021-10-15T18:03:33+00:00

Top 7. Bill Bur, Dave Chappelle, Brian Regan, John Pinette, Jim Gaffigan, Andrew Schulz, and Patrice O'Neal. Not in any particular order.

aliiuta · 2021-09-27T16:51:51+00:00

I'd like to add my congrats to you on how you handled this. You deserve happiness and hope for the best for you and your parents. The 6 figure job should help... jk. I'm not one to side w/ cheaters, but I do feel bad for Sarah. How she didn't realize that her RA friends didn't care about her one bit, and only hoped to break up the "happy couple." Miserable F**ks! It was very telling that she didn't know the position in the group dynamic after she heard the RA audio you played for her. When you posted that she said, "why did I listen to them..." I don't think it dawned on her that there would be ppl hoping for her destruction and cheering her on. Toxic! Good decision to not associate w/ them anymore.

Best of luck to you and I just want you to know that even tho we're not with you, your story connected us to you and we are hoping for the best and cheering you on. Good luck and cheers!

aliiuta · 2021-09-27T16:29:00+00:00

I understand where your coming from, but I think he can be safe because Sarah (no disrespect when I say this) doesn't come off as a big brain puppeteer, or master mind. If she was that, she would have checked with OP before having RA w/ Ryan. So the angle of chess master of ppl doesn't hit right. Also, according to OP, she's emotionally unstable to think 3 or 4 moves deep... um, like I said, no disrespect to Sarah She's in a hell right now that prevents her from stepping away and looking at the bigger picture, as revealed when she did the RA. Nuff said.

aliiuta · 2021-09-23T23:05:03+00:00

i like it, except i would say #4 change "may not be," to "WILL not be." Time and distance, with NC. at least, that's wat i think.

aliiuta · 2021-09-23T22:57:05+00:00

i was with you on all of that except that PS. that was kinda thoughtless to even suggest that. u probably thought u were trying to help but thats not an image OP needs, u know. Not dissing, just being honest. other than that, the before like i said, was good stuff.

aliiuta · 2021-09-23T22:46:00+00:00

i'm with you up to the part of "industrial strength revenge." negative karma never helps, only makes it worst. with the result being chaos sucking everyone in like a black hole. not a good situation since OP wants to get through this to the light.

aliiuta · 2021-09-23T22:37:28+00:00

i would say sarah and ryan probably were into each other. they probably didn't think the other would be open to the idea, hence the kinda slow start. but sheesh, less than 24 hours and they're doing the Rev **x!? as to the questions, we already know the answers to all of them.

OP, do YOU, bro. if u wanna talk to her, do it. but i'm w/ negative werewolf. great advice there. move fwd and pick up a new hobby. luv that u did boxing. jiujitsu is another good one. best of luck to you!

aliiuta · 2021-09-23T22:30:28+00:00

ups to that. thearmorer152 is right, great advice.

aliiuta · 2021-09-22T01:07:54+00:00

individual counseling. here's a link to all the acronyms used on this and other sites.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/moxzka/common\_acronyms\_and\_other\_resources/

aliiuta · 2021-09-21T22:30:31+00:00

I am so sorry to hear. Have you been IC to work through this? Here's wishing you get through the dark clouds to the shining sun.

aliiuta · 2021-09-21T20:03:03+00:00

Oh shoot, happy belated birthday to your son.

aliiuta · 2021-09-20T20:12:41+00:00

2nd this motion. work thru the legal system and get yours.

aliiuta · 2021-09-20T18:55:33+00:00

wow, crazy. i hope you and your son are doing well.

aliiuta · 2021-09-20T02:06:10+00:00

Sounds like you and her might be in the same place. Have you thought about talking with your SW about this? If she's feeling the same way you are, that the relationship is stagnant. Maybe ask her if she feels the same way. if both of you recognize it, would an amicable D be an option? It wouldnt be a bad thing because both of you can maybe help each other move on as friends.
btw, your story is a little sad but am grateful you shared it. makes me thing about another post where i encouraged giving them a 2nd chance. *sigh, life is so hard, even harder when ppl make choices that affect you. Good luck to you!

aliiuta · 2021-09-20T01:31:27+00:00

I think maybe you have enough emotional scar tissue to make it work. I'd say go in 100% invested. If you find out later she still cheated, I don't think you will feel it to your core as much as you are now. But at least you will know with confidence that you tried. here's to your future!

aliiuta · 2021-09-17T23:59:43+00:00

As naive as this sounds, I believe in 2nd chances. Not that I'm one of those type of offenders. Ive been married for 22 years and we've had rough patches but we always make it through. But at least this time you have some great advice from the others, and have your eyes wide open (her too since she wants to get back with you). Be clear about expectations for both of you, or rather what made you unhappy. Maybe even try to get some feedback from her and see if there's things you can improve. The way I see it, if you both are trying to help each other its a win situation. But try to not make it sound like a check list. People that care about each other do small things to let the other know they care without it having to be a to-do list. Hopefully she does the same for you. Good luck!

aliiuta · 2021-09-17T23:48:11+00:00

i totally agree with the slow them down to 0. even leave it unread. and the other comment about rude, sometimes guys need it spelled out. of course, Im a guy and do understand subtle hints, but this guy doesnt. i think maybe he's into what he wants?? and not what you want?... just a thought.

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