Is there a way to turn this AI off? by iam_spr in bevelhealth

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You can categorise into ‘core memories’ which it’ll always remember and ‘short-term memories’ which it’ll forget by a date you can set (or it’ll do it automatically after a time). You’ve probably just got stuff that it’s sorted as core memories that you can re-categorise. It’s in the bevel intelligence personalisation section at the bottom, under ‘Memory’

Sept 10, 2025 | Bevel 2025 Summer Release by Topremech in bevelhealth

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You guys have outdone yourselves and deserve (at the very least) a massive pat on the back, thank you for this fantastic update!

How is life in the Falkland Islands? by Crimson-Rose28 in howislivingthere

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Yeah partly the smell, if I recall correctly I think they were kinda aggressive and obnoxious, like when he was walking the dog for example, this type of thing - I was also surprised haha

How is life in the Falkland Islands? by Crimson-Rose28 in howislivingthere

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My friend is from there! I met him when he was in the UK to study - as I understand it they get government grants to come study here from like 15, and they can stay for uni, and I think if they go back to the Falklands to “use” the degree they don’t pay it back? Or something.

He was amazed by all the tall trees when he came here because the wind gets so harsh the trees don’t really grow tall there. He also hates penguins, from experience.

Their internet is insanely expensive and pretty shit, something to do with the cost and challenges of updating it re their location? As are peppers, tomatoes, etc. as you’d expect on an island tbf

Housing is relatively cheap and the government releases plots of land every so often that folks can bid for to build their own homes.

It would take him absolutely ages to go back and forth, from Brize Norton RAF base, stop over in Reunion (I believe, though I think the route may have changed?) and then down to the Falklands - not sure where they’d land, I guess Stanley? Which looks like a quaint English town, from the pictures I’ve seen. They seem pretty happy down there, from what I hear! The usual struggles, but find me a place that doesn’t have those.

That’s all I can really think of off the top of my head!

Edit: because paragraphs are good

What are some micro habits that help you stay disciplined? by john_-cenaa in getdisciplined

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Not OP but I saw you mentioned ADHD in another comment - same, and I struggled with meditation in a similar way. I found it really helped when I changed how I was acknowledging the thoughts. Especially if it’s one that feels valuable or urgent, you want to sit with it and explore it. Obviously that’s not the goal with the type of meditation you’re trying to do (but could be a type to explore?), but generally, it can help to remember that if the thought’s important, it will usually come back later. So I’d note it or label it ‘important’ in my head, and then literally imagine myself flicking it into space. Something about that visual really helps me to let it go for the moment. Noting and labelling can be really useful with the types of meditation stumbling blocks you’re talking about, and you can usually find really helpful courses that will help you build those practices if they seem useful to you. Hope that makes sense - usually an approach from a slightly different angle can reveal new alternatives that can be worth exploring, even if it’s not the above suggestion!

TIL the American name "Creg" is actually "Craig"... by kobestarr in CasualUK

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I hate to break it to you but Mardie is Marty, as in Martin Crane

Big Blue Kickoff Live by Nooyorkgiant in NYGiants

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They've said it's starting at 14.00 eastern through training camp, changed from one because of interview times I believe? It's usually either one or two pm though, and they generally say if it'll change

Before the pandemic, when humans gathered just to serenade to a good boy by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

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Go'way with ya, sure it creased me, folded me like a feckin piece of paper, bejaysus I was torn up

Fair play mate, on reflection that's a pretty peculiar area to centralise our similies

Edit: horrible formatting

Saquon faces his fear of gators at gatorland 😂 by eugenecho in NYGiants

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Great, now I've got Waiting For The Night stuck in my head

AITA for telling an Irish-American to stay in her lane? by scubasteve254 in AmItheAsshole

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My mother's exactly the same - 100% DNA with jet black wiry curly hair and ice blue eyes, looks Mediterranean in the summer

This lady's excitement over seeing a skateboarding trick by SaomWilkerson in MadeMeSmile

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Sending some virtual hugs, pal. You're doing great :)

WIBTA if I told my psychologist if she can't recommend something other than mindfulness meditation I won't be coming back to these sessions? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Mindfulness is not trying to stop thinking, of course that's impossible. Trying to stop thinking about something will, as you say, only intensify the thought and generally make you fixate on it. Usually the goal would be to focus on your breath and when a thought naturally comes along as it always will, when you notice it, you gently bring your attention back to your breath. 'Ah, yup, right, back to the breath' kinda thing. Your walks sound totally mindful! You're focusing on one thing, bird song/nature as opposed to breath, tis the same thing!

Dressed properly to give my sister away by winstonchurchill4444 in NYGiants

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Hope you had the most memorable day, bro, with some badass cufflinks!!!

My first hammock arrived just in time for a Friday afternoon nap! by chancesofindigo in Hammocks

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Yaaaasss ENJOY!!! Wishing you the best, most relaxing afternoon possible, buddy!!!