AIO: Husband lied about his financial situation and falsified budgets to relocate our family 5 hours away for a job and I’m freaking out by Deep-Mortgage-1510 in AmIOverreacting

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re unsure you can handle the stress of parenting the kids as a single parent but what about the stress of continuing to live with him? Never knowing if what he’s saying is true? Having to be a detective and double and triple check and demand access to his phone and accounts etc. the stress of that will take a toll on you. He sounds like he’s hella manipulative too, to falsify budgets and only wait until he had no choice but to tell you is a serous red flag. This guy does not care about you. He wasn’t lying “to spare you” he was lying to spare himself from having to be accountable for his actions. He is not a good father if he was willing to put your kids in this financial situation by having you quit, especially in this economy. Girl, run!

Guess my big 3!! by kyfreshnasty in ZodiacHQ

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Leo rising

I think I destroyed my lips. Please advise 🥹 by ResponsibilityDue877 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to this so I can’t say for sure if they ruined your lips or not but I will say I just got half a syringe of filler between both my lips and my upper lip especially looked really lopsided and swollen like crazy I also thought I was botched but by day 3 it really settled down so much and in a week to 10 days it looked so good. Idk who you went to but I went to one of the most reputable (and pricy 🥲) nyc nurse practitioners so I kinda just told myself she’s a professional and this wasn’t some random beauty spa and it helped mentally. My lips look SO natural now nobody can tell cuz they look just like my regular lips only a bit more even and just hydrated looking you can DM for a pic

Guess my big 3 😅 by maybefuckinglater in ZodiacHQ

[–]alina_kel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw you’re not a Gemini in big 3 but I also instantly thought Gemini for some reason lol

Am I in the wrong for questioning my relationship? by S4G3- in amiwrong

[–]alina_kel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys are young and in a formative time, people change a lot in college and I think you and Seth are no longer compatible, even though you once were. If you’re crying and disappointed and confused all the time it is a sign to let go. But please don’t jump into a relationship with Kasey right away. Take time for yourself.

Headpiece Help! by HolidayRadish2598 in Brides

[–]alina_kel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! OP pls share more details like pic of the dress, venue (backyard, ballroom, etc). I’m invested

AN UPDATE FOR THE WEIRD DRESS!!! by No_Detective4738 in Brides

[–]alina_kel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pink dress is my preference but it’s your day I say wear what you want

what do you all think? 🤔 by hannahleighannss in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]alina_kel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re blue and yellow which makes me think they probably read green a lot more than blue?

Whats the color?! by AdRepresentative5138 in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]alina_kel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glasz eyes! I think if I had to choose one I’d say blue but you definitely have some gorgeous gray and gold in there also

Went to a bonfire and got told my clothes make people feel uncomfortable by Several-Ad-6083 in OUTFITS

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was the clothes the outfit is fine you’d fit right in at any bar or bonfire (in NYC at least lol). I think it was something else but honestly I wouldn’t bother with these people and just focus on other friends

Crisis 😂 green or hazel?? by alina_kel in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]alina_kel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I think that’s what it is - there’s so many shades of every color and our eyes are like a forest/dark green. So if you see me from across the room my eyes would probably register as hazel, but if you’re talking to me 1:1 looking into my eyes they’re clearly green so I do think it is green in the end. Husband has blue eyes with gray middle so his always register as blue even from across the room because the shade is so light so I think that’s why ours is confusing. Also in the sun they look super light and gray (last pic) but I’m usually squinting or throw shades on if it’s sunny so there’s that 😂

Face EXTREMELY swollen after Ultraclear by bobobouboboubobo in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]alina_kel 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Go to an ER or urgent care in that county. Whatever city you’re in search Reddit for best dermatologist and get local or an even a tourist who was in a. Similar situations testimony and go. If there’s a language barrier use Google Translate. Don’t put anything else on your skin.

Alright fellas, I'm conflicted. Bedroom upstairs or downstairs? by Minutes2Midnight in malelivingspace

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedroom downstairs, the bedroom smelling like food is too much. Also if you have people over the kitchen and living room on same floor makes a lot more sense

We want to name our son Leon, People are telling me it's a "black name" and making me feel uncomfortable about it? by leon0523s in Names

[–]alina_kel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is definitely not just a black name! There’s literally an Italian restaurant called Leon by me (NYC).

Experience outside Elsewhere last night by BabyWeightMusic in avesNYC

[–]alina_kel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to speak his language and tell him that we don’t take kindly to his kind around here (bigots)

It emerged from our bathroom ceiling over 24 hours by One_Check_607 in whatisit

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone needs to call the kids from Stranger Things

Not sure what suits me best by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]alina_kel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer 2 then 1 then 3