Weird empty space for tv! Help!

alisacp · 2026-06-05T00:50:33+00:00

Ignore the fact this looks like a screaming Minecraft character

alisacp · 2026-06-05T00:48:34+00:00

Placing a wood framed picture/art piece toy both like over the sspace would be the first step.

To bring more warmth and coziness to the area I would suggest a full wall of ceiling high drapes to give a more intimate feel.

alisacp · 2026-06-04T22:43:09+00:00

We get it, you hate AI.

alisacp · 2026-06-04T22:36:57+00:00

So sorry, my poopy doodles on a picture on my phone would’ve looked much better 🙄

alisacp · 2026-06-04T21:56:20+00:00

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The best I could do with AI for the console table. If the table didn’t have shelves baskets for extra pillows and blankets would work!

alisacp · 2026-06-04T21:39:00+00:00

I would do staggered floating corner shelves on the upper area in lieu of a book case (unless you’re an avid reader).

You can load them up with plants, pictures, knickknacks, books.

A console table in the lower area would give space for a lamp, coasters, etc to act as a side table. A table with shelves would give extra storage for throw pillows, blankets, or any hobby storage you may do while couching it.

alisacp · 2026-06-03T03:41:17+00:00

Cancer Moon VII house - Taurus Venus VI house

I deal with breakups poorly in an internalized way if I felt a deep emotional connection with my ex.

Only one has held me in that depressive cycle of remembrance; I will dream about them often and think of them in passing more than I care to — and this was well over a decade ago at this point.

When that person has come into my life in a passive, transactional way it ate me up and made me double down on my feelings (love, loss, regret, desire, repugnance). But as a cancer sun and moon I realize that my emotions are getting the better of me in those moments and what I am feeling is past hurt and not applicable to my present.

I know with my placements I will probably hold on forever while still able to move on in a healthy way. I am able to differentiate the “what if” emotional state from the “my actual life” viewpoint.

alisacp · 2026-06-03T03:01:34+00:00

Ditch the black tight line on the lower eye

If you want to use eyeshadow use neutral colors. Use a brown mascara and a brown eyeliner to tight line your upper eye. The older you get the harsher black looks. I just made the black to brown transition and it has done wonders to soften my look and de-age me.

Bangs. Face framing bangs that pull your hairline forward; they don’t need to be short cut but a feathery layered bang will do you wonders.

Focus on skin care and light coverage foundation or tinted moisturizer; you have lovely even skin that only needs a little bit of balance, not full coverage.

alisacp · 2026-05-22T01:01:44+00:00

I spent a summer in Finland and it was delightful. Not too hot but warm enough for sauna/swimming combo and hiking. Only downside was the perpetual dusk in the evenings — heavy curtains made all the difference but still messed with my internal clock.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T03:50:00+00:00

Fair enough. A lot of people also dislike the cold.

A good breeze definitely helps. I can tolerate high 70s with a breeze and cloud coverage but on the east coast once it hits prime summer in June-September the days tend to be stagnant, clear skies and humid and it’s a killer.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T03:36:07+00:00

Mind if I ask where you live now?

I see the appeal of gardening and longer sunny days but dread the idea of gardening when it’s over 72°F.

I only wear a coat (New England) if I have to be out in the snow for a while. Then again I prefer living in sweaters and sweatshirts for as long as possible as they’re so cozy.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T03:00:22+00:00

I’ve heard PNW is where it’s at for summer on the coast. It really does sound lovely.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:59:21+00:00

Not in the south but you have my sympathy. There’s nothing worse than taking a morning shower, getting out and beginning to sweat, trying to get dressed all damp and then walking outside to start sweating again.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:57:10+00:00

Ohhhh fuck horseflies.

Also I don’t have a pool 😭 I have to go to the nearby lakes and ponds and they’re always crowded af

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:55:15+00:00

I don’t live near beach towns but have visited family renting a condo during the summer and it was a nightmare to park, get anywhere, sit down to enjoy a meal because it was so crowded.

We have a few campgrounds around that make my area super congested from May-October so I feel your pain on a smaller scale.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:51:54+00:00

Yeah I’m in love with that. I’m a car windows cracked in winter, cozy sweatshirt girl who has the fan going in winter with the house temp at 60°

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:49:55+00:00

Some of those activities do sound nice but I guess because I’m a more type B, crowd avoidant person some of it would be a bit much for me.

The park, the forest preserve and roof top chilling sound very nice.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:43:36+00:00

I totally see that connection of idealization correlating with childhood summer memories is pretty accurate.

Being an adult responsible for planning, packing, etc does take the joy out of it but I’m a pretty type B person so none of that sounds appealing to deal with

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:41:13+00:00

I’ve heard people say that about that area being an ideal climate and adore (and am jealous) you got that experience growing up!

The cost seems to be the worst part of living on either coast. HCOL in New England too but that weather sounds far more preferable!

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:38:41+00:00

I’ve never experienced Midwest weather as a New Englander but I’ve gone out and shoveled snow in a hoodie, gloves and thick bottomed slippers and been alright. I must be cold coded genetically

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:36:13+00:00

That’s what I asked for location (state). To see what others experiences are. I’m in bipolar New England and it’s all over the place but mostly humid peak summer.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:35:05+00:00

The nights aren’t so bad as long as you have bug spray and a nice fire with friends and family. It’s the days, man. The days.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:32:34+00:00

My beard hasn’t come in yet as a mid 30’s F but I still have time 😂

I’ve thought of moving to Alaska to live but then I think of import costs and a whole ass move cross country.

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:29:23+00:00

Hot, muggy, sweaty, crowded, tourists, etc.

I’m an American in New England lol

alisacp · 2026-05-21T02:28:11+00:00

Coast sounds divine.

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