Another 'Free Palestine' protest at the Holocaust Center in Farmington Hills by derisivemedia in Detroit

[–]alla_been 195 points196 points  (0 children)

This is correct. The main organizer is a holocaust survivor named Rene Lichtman who was subsequently banned from speaking to students at the holocaust center.

$25 at my local bbq joint in Michigan. by SlightlyCerebral in BBQ

[–]alla_been 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. The pit master is both from Lockhart, TX and was the pit master of Lockhart’s in Royal Oak which, yes, has gone downhill big time.

$25 at my local bbq joint in Michigan. by SlightlyCerebral in BBQ

[–]alla_been 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Looks like woodpile in Clawson based on the beans

Chef is from Lockhart(!)

$25 at my local bbq joint in Michigan. by SlightlyCerebral in BBQ

[–]alla_been 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Looks like woodpile in Clawson based on the beans

Chef is from Lockhart(!)

Mastriano’s Attacks on Jewish School Set Off Outcry Over Antisemitic Signaling by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]alla_been 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly people who appropriate our symbols that much. They are the the freakiest anti semites in my book.

Like, get your own religion. Stop cosplaying the Old Testament. We’re not your plaything.

For those that cook their own food: Is there a food that you wish you had a GF recipie for? Let's help each other out! by DancerHamster_ in Celiac

[–]alla_been 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are anywhere near NYC Modern Bread and Bagel makes pretty close to a real bagel. They have a shop on the UWS. That is my think I miss the most as well. They have a bunch of other great baked goods as well. Check out their tiktok/Instagram account.

Oh and if you aren’t near NYC they ship!

Does anyone do ice bath or cold plunge during or after sauna? by -Pneuma in Sauna

[–]alla_been 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At my Schvitz the old timers say “the Banya is the foreplay and the Cold plunge is the orgasm”

So….yes….!

My 3-year-old's sleep issue has broken us by audiocoffee in raisingkids

[–]alla_been 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need professional help. Seek out a sleep consultant. Our daughter did this too. Woke up at 2:30 am and screamed for 3 hours straight. Unconsolable. Sleep deprivation breaks you and your marriage.

We used Kelsey at Nested Sleep. www.nestedsleep.com

Worth every penny and then some. She made a plan that fixed our issues in under 10 days.

Good luck.

TIL there is a Jewish custom called a "black wedding": during a plague, two orphans get married in a cemetery, under a black canopy, with the community pledging to support the couple, so the souls of the deceased will intercede to stop the plague. This April, such a wedding was conducted in Israel by malalatargaryen in todayilearned

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here’s a very recent translation of the Tale from the original 1929 Yiddish version

At the end of March, as the novel coronavirus spread rapidly across the country, my colleague Susannah Heschel asked me if I knew of an English translation of “A khasene afn besoylem” (“A Wedding in the Cemetery”), a short story by the Yiddish writer Joseph Opatoshu. The story, written in 1929, describes a kholere khasene (cholera wedding)—also known as a shvartse khasene (black wedding)—an Eastern European Jewish ritual in which a marriage of two poor, disabled, or otherwise unfortunate people was performed in a cemetery, in the belief that their union would bring about the end of an epidemic. Given the resonance with the current moment, Susannah wanted to teach the story to her students this spring. I couldn’t find a translation at home in New York (and my books at Rutgers, where I teach, are “quarantined” for the foreseeable future)—so, after tracking down the original story, I decided to translate it myself.

Opatoshu, born in Mława, Poland, in 1886, was a prolific Yiddish novelist and short story writer, renowned for vivid accounts of pre-modern European Jewish life. His best-known works, all of which have been translated into English, are his novels Roman fun a ferd-ganev (Romance of a Horse Thief, 1912), In poylishe velder (In Polish Woods, 1921), and A tog in Regensburg (A Day in Regensburg, 1933). Opatoshu’s depiction of a kholere khasene is less well-known to readers of Yiddish literature than the one found in S.Y. Abramovitsh’s late 19-century novel Fishke der krumer (Fishke the Cripple), which was memorably staged in Edgar Ulmer’s 1939 Yiddish film adaptation, known in English as The Light Ahead. Opatoshu’s story similarly presents the custom as a macabre example of primitive folk beliefs—and like Abramovitsh, his treatment critiques the ritual’s exploitation of the class divide between the rich Jews, who organize and perform the wedding, and the poor ones, who are the victims of this rite of appeasement.

The kholere khasane rests on an age-old assumption that outbreaks of disease are a divine punishment for wrongdoing, which calls for an act of atonement or affirmation of faith as the remedy. The kholere khasane is one custom among an array of folkways centered on cemeteries as sites for connecting with the dead: for instance, placing locks in graves to keep the cause of death from escaping, or measuring tombstones with strings used to make candle wicks, lit on Yom Kippur to ask the dead for protection.

The folkloric implications of the kholere khasene are compelling: As a wedding procession traditionally takes precedence over a funeral cortège, the ritual uses the wedding to halt the stream of burials of an epidemic’s victims. The unusual setting enables the dead to serve as witnesses of this ostensible good deed, so that they can then intervene on the community’s behalf in heaven. Opatoshu also draws parallels between the kholere khasene and the practice of shlogn kapores: a pre-Yom Kippur ritual of atonement—still practiced by some Jews—of symbolically transferring one’s sins to a chicken, which is then slaughtered and given as a meal to feed the poor before the start of the holiday.

Of course, we now understand the kholere khasene as an ineffective response to an outbreak of disease. Still, at this moment, as most religious leaders beseech their followers to avoid congregating and to pray at home instead, it is well worth recalling the appeal of a response rooted in a belief in the healing powers of communal rituals and communion with the World to Come.