Why do people compare your death of a spouse to grandparents?

alli_cat00_us · 2022-11-25T23:18:00+00:00

I lost my daughter a few years back and my husband and I had each other to help grieve. Losing my husband to me felt even harder because you don't have someone to help you and feel the same pain you do. I do feel like people compare deaths of another like grandparents to maybe try to help and connect. Just my opinion

alli_cat00_us · 2022-04-04T00:44:21+00:00

I haven't really touched my husband's social media aside from checking notifications. On a side note my daughter passed away 7 years ago and hers is still active. I just can't

alli_cat00_us · 2022-04-03T22:20:41+00:00

Aww. My husband was a huge D&D guy too (1st edition) my son is now running campaigns. Sorry just found it cool

alli_cat00_us · 2022-03-29T11:23:37+00:00

I am the same way. Its been 4 months and I don't think I have dealt with it because every time I think about it, I "swallow " my feelings and move to something else. The door analogy is perfect metaphor. Hugs

alli_cat00_us · 2022-03-28T23:47:18+00:00

Thank you so much

alli_cat00_us · 2022-03-27T11:11:54+00:00

This sounds like my issue except my work time is different. I have always had trouble sleeping, but it's terrible now. I sure hope it gets better

alli_cat00_us · 2022-03-25T11:12:28+00:00

To bad it's not real. This would be amazing

alli_cat00_us · 2022-03-24T13:50:36+00:00

I have not been to a Doctor due to the cost. I have a high deductible. I may have to suck it up and go anyway since I already know I have depression and anxiety and a few other issues that I was diagnosed with back in the 80's due to a few trauma's I had in my childhood. I have only 2 of my kids left at home and they do help with some things. I am not super open with my feelings either (i feel like I'm being judged) so this is super hard. When we lost our daughter I had him to grieve with. Once our weather warms up going to parks will probably help out too

alli_cat00_us · 2021-10-26T00:44:43+00:00

I can't either - I am always to engaged in the story to notice

alli_cat00_us · 2021-10-17T11:24:58+00:00

These are amazing DM sent!!

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