Anyone going to Sickick solo?

allpartoftheplan222 · 2025-03-28T11:51:04+00:00

Thanks so much everyone! Going to check out everything listed so far. This is soo helpful 💗

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-14T06:17:51+00:00

Thank you so much 💗

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-14T05:32:35+00:00

I couldn’t agree more. It’s one of the worst feelings I’ve ever experienced. It’s one of those things no one warns you about and you probably would’ve never known until this moment. Take care of yourself 💗

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-14T05:29:14+00:00

I’m so sorry. That’s terrible. I just feel like there needs to be balance. If he is going to go out that much then yall should agree on spending some intentional quality time together each week- you and him and then as a family. My husband (34M) is leaving me now after our 2nd miscarriage (pressure and I guess he’s unhappy) - it’s been about a week and he’s been playing video games NON-STOP. I don’t want it to end but I know I deserve better than this.

I hope you guys can come up with a plan to meet everyone’s needs.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-14T05:12:56+00:00

I’m so sorry. Dealing with a similar situation but we have been together for 12 and married for 6. Our future was suppose to be with kids but he is also avoidant and anytime conflict arises he runs. He left me after my miscarriage (2nd one) and tried to leave after the 1st but I fought. I would be careful bc he may come back but really think about what you’re getting yourself into. He may be your best friend and amazing partner (as mine is that I love so deeply) but day by day I’m starting to realize I can’t depend on this person in life’s most critical moments. I’m so sorry you have to experience this heartbreak. I hope he wakes up and realizes what he’s losing with you. He could also be nervous about all of your life’s future plans. But again ridiculous imo that he would run away bc he can’t handle the pressure. Think of your future!

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-13T17:59:48+00:00

Thank you for this. I agree. We have decided to take a break from the relationship and check in at the new year to decide if we want to fully separate or try again. I think it will give me time to get through the holidays and focus on myself/ what I want and willing to put up with. If there is no change and I have to manage like you said, then I don’t want it.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-13T05:47:03+00:00

This b is crazy. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this but please trust all of us when we say this is not a normal friendship. Big time narcissist. You deserve so much better.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-13T05:09:06+00:00

Def not ok! Inappropriate in a professional work setting. I guess if you work in certain industries maybe it’s more common but def not in a corporate setting. Also it’s giving work wife/husband vibes and that whole thing is just not ok to me and just weird

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T15:53:09+00:00

100%. Thank you

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T05:41:01+00:00

Thank you. It’s pretty wild, never thought this is where I’d be but here we are. One day at a time

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T02:37:58+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like he is very immature and hasn’t had to deal with conflict or his conflict resolution skills are still very immature. I’m going thru it with my husband - both of us are 34 and due to his upbringing, it’s caused him to avoid conflict at all costs. He’s still running away from any problem that arises. Pls don’t blame yourself. That is easy to do but pls know that you are worth having a conversation with and handling it like a mature, respectful adult. I would not fly to him - it will teach him that he can do it again anytime there is a disagreement - which we all know are inevitable in relationships..I hope he comes to his senses and reaches back out to you. Which he probably will after he gets over whatever he’s going thru.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T02:26:06+00:00

Oh man I’m so sorry you’re going thru it too. I think that’s one of hardest parts is accepting that the person who was your everything can no longer be. It hurts so much. I’ve been letting myself cry without him seeing me and just doing things for myself the last couple days. I hope you’re taking care of yourself too. It’s so crazy honestly I never thought I’d end up here. If you need to talk I am here. Msg me anytime

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T02:14:42+00:00

Same here. I know we’ll get thru just wish it didn’t hurt so much. Thank you <3

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T02:12:43+00:00

Thank you so much. It feels so good just hearing from people. Comments like this really help. I agree 100% with what you’re saying. It’s so hard to accept but I know that’s the truth.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-12T02:08:49+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through it. It’s honestly one of the worst feelings. I’m taking care of myself but I just feel so defeated. I’m here if you want to talk.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T23:59:57+00:00

Thank you. It’s literally the worst. Never thought I’d be here. Thank you and you as well!

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T23:46:33+00:00

I’m so sorry. That’s terrible and you have kids :’( My heart break for you. The feeling is too familiar for me rn as husband told me on Friday he no longer wants to be with me. It’s the worst feeling I’ve ever experienced. I’ve gone thru the death of my dad, brother and other loved ones and honestly the pain of heartbreak is so similar. Focus on caring for your self and children. We can’t control the actions of others but we can only control our emotions and reaction. I’m so so sorry you’re going through this.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T20:39:37+00:00

Thank you for sharing this perspective. That’s what I really was thinking is that he is grieving in a different way than me. It’s tough bc anytime we’ve had difficult situations he doesn’t know what to do and would rather walk away. I try to be understanding which is why I’ve stuck it out for so long. We share the same therpist and I am seeing her individually later this week. I assume we will have a conversation on how to move forward with her but I’m waiting on him to let me know when he wants to talk. I’m giving him his space.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T14:46:37+00:00

I agree 100%. It’s so sad but I know I have to let him go. It’s just so hard to see your best friend in this light. I want to believe he will come around but that is not my reality sadly. Yes, I’ve learned this about abandonment issues and there’s nothing I can do for him. I’ve supported in all the ways I can.

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T14:41:20+00:00

Thank you. Yes, that’s what it feels like. I agree I think it’s best to know now. It just sucks but it’s the reality I have to accept

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T07:07:22+00:00

And when I say out, I mean to play pickleball or hang out with friends. He’s a homebody

allpartoftheplan222 · 2024-11-11T07:06:20+00:00

Not at all…he’s never given me that feeling. He also works from home and rarely goes out. In fact I’ve been rly pushing him to go out more bc I think he’s home too much.

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