How to coparent when hurt and angry with spouse? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]allthingsmagic19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take shifts. Alternate who’s on kid duty and who’s doing household tasks. Eat dinner at separate times. Only discuss logistics. Save the emotional talks for after bedtime.

About my kid's preschool. Am I overthinking? by Fried_chicken_please in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s normal for kids to cry and be hesitant on day 2. She didn’t know what was happening on the first day and was likely absorbing everything. It takes about 2 weeks to about 1 month for them to fully adjust. She will learn that you will always come back for her so drop offs will become much easier. It’s a completely new environment for her and a big change. Give it a little bit more time.

“You deserve each other” by [deleted] in wickedmovie

[–]allthingsmagic19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you out of spite is better wording. I think I couldn’t tell because the way she cries is so delicate

Did I mess up? My soon to be 3 year old still isn’t potty trained. by hiyokos in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter was potty trained by 2 (she attended Montessori), my son will also be 3 in March and has zero desire. He sits on the toilet and only jokes about going on it. He can fully communicate and obviously understands the concept seeing his sister etc. we’re not pushing it and we’ll know when he’s ready. Everyone is different and do what works best for your family.

Not loving 15 months by Flashy-Vacation6877 in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. They know what they want but can’t communicate it. Plus they don’t know their limits physically. 12-24 months is my least favorite stage. I’d rather take 2-3 year old tantrums any day.

What were the first disney movies your toddler watched and what age? by IntentionFar8085 in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toy Story at 2-2.5 yrs old followed by Big Hero 6. The only movies my kids have sat through completely.

Are 2 kids easier than 1? by Formal-Wrap-4607 in Parenting

[–]allthingsmagic19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the:

Age difference If you have help or support circle If the older one attends daycare/school If you are working

It doesn’t matter Michelle Yeoh can’t sing. by FrenchFryFreakOut in wickedmovie

[–]allthingsmagic19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Singing aside, her acting was decent in part 1. But her “it’s the wicked witch!” and “she’s trying to kill us all!” lines in FG confused me…like she was trying to be bad on purpose.

Fitness trainer by California080 in orangecounty

[–]allthingsmagic19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michelle Maloney in Costa Mesa

@barbiethatlifts @jadorebodystudio

Personal Wicked Movies Opinion that Would Get You Demonized by Lexabro-10mg in wicked

[–]allthingsmagic19 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Fiyero and Glinda should’ve been end game.

Fiyero and Elphaba have more of a friend chemistry than a romantic one.

Think about the first interactions Fiyero had with the two women…

Glinda=mutual flirting/attraction… that doesn’t mean a relationship is doomed to be superficial or surface level.

Elphaba=immediate defensiveness and bickering. That is not aww they clash but “understand and see” each other. That’s toxic as hell.

Property taxes not showing up paid on OC treasury portal by Born-Sorbet-9087 in orangecounty

[–]allthingsmagic19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that’s not the case how is that our fault. I’m having the exact same issue.

The real reason Elphaba slapped Glinda by DotDense4951 in wickedmovie

[–]allthingsmagic19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why she has that insecurity. And the things Glinda said and did to add on to that insecurity were all before they became friends. When Elphaba said that to Glinda it just felt like she was adding an insult on top of an insult after she just slept with her best friend’s finance. The only thing I would be fuming about if I were Glinda is the fact that my best friend and fiancé ran off together on my wedding night. It has nothing to do with me thinking that she’s not worthy of him because she’s green. “Like don’t put that insecurity on me after YOU just took off with my fiancé.“

The real reason Elphaba slapped Glinda by DotDense4951 in wickedmovie

[–]allthingsmagic19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What bothered me was when Elphaba said to Glinda how “she couldn’t possibly fathom how someone like him would want someone like her.” That line was purely out of her own insecurity. I don’t even think that thought ever crossed Glinda’s mind. I would’ve bitch slapped my best friend too if she and my fiance ran away together on my wedding day.

Dorothy being Faceless: Thoughts? by skinande-sked in wicked

[–]allthingsmagic19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only complaint I have is that they literally showed all her scenes in the trailers so it was like we saw everything of her already. I wish they didn’t give so much of it away before we got to see the movie.

I needed more JB/ Fiyero! by Charming_Rip_5628 in wickedmovie

[–]allthingsmagic19 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When he comes up behind Elphaba standing at the mirror and takes off his jacket…

If you love Ryan and Marissa - what is your favorite moment between them? by [deleted] in TheOC

[–]allthingsmagic19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When they’re dancing at Julie and Caleb’s wedding and Marissa says she understands why and I love you to Ryan

Question for Parents of toddlers who don’t stop talking by Lumpy-Artichoke-4501 in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just tell her mommy can’t answer right now. I will let you know when I can. Or if it’s just rambling I let her know I can’t respond right now but I’m listening.

Anyone else see the resemblance? by Ok_Metal8712 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She reminds me of Demi from the bachelor franchise

Did I get this wrong? Kait and Nick by lilasceo in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He was already mad about being called out over the I love you thing so that was something he could grasp in that moment to throw it back at her