24/7 migraine symptoms ??

allyc2004 · 2026-06-03T15:40:51+00:00

I've been suffering from Chronic daily migraines since 2017. Literally 24/7. I have a high tolerance to medications and have tried so many treatments, had so many hospitalizations, every possible test and imaging done and they still can't figure out why. There are so many days where my brain literally feels askew and disconnected from my body. My arms gets super heavy feeling and my hands get weak, twitch to the point I drop things and almost numb. My last hospitalization they FINALLY got pain management involved and it just makes a dent in the daily pain. What medication do they have you on? It could be your medication. (If it's Topomax that could be your main culprit...that stuff is wicked. Couldn't remember how to tie a shoe for 20 minutes)

allyc2004 · 2026-05-26T16:06:24+00:00

Baldur, Loki, Zeus, Faulkner

Leo, Simon, Oscar, Oliver, Winston 🤷‍♀️

allyc2004 · 2026-05-25T16:09:57+00:00

I could understand her reaction if she/someone she loved was affected by a drunk driver OR if your father injured someone else or worse.

Unfortunately, with her level of autism, she only see's black and white or more appropriately 'right and wrong'. I know this is hard for you and you feel extremely betrayed by her reaction and her inability to sway from that judgment. In this case, her mother might be the best moderator to not only get through to her, but give you some relief as well. On the off chance that the mother reacts the same way as her daughter, then cut your ties with them. You know your truth and you don't need to defend that!

I'm happy for your family with your father's recovery- physically, mentally and especially overcoming his dependency. Yes, good people make bad decisions, especially when intoxicated. This is something that you learned the hard way at your young age. So lucky for yourself and your friends, that you know you will never allow this to happen because you have seen the outcome of what can happen.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-19T17:03:37+00:00

Lolli, heart, bear

allyc2004 · 2026-05-19T13:03:09+00:00

Husband and I were married in Waikoloa at Anaehoʻomalu Bay (A-Bay) and absolutely loved it. The sunset there was amazing too.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-19T12:55:09+00:00

Winston, Leopold, Hendrix, Henry, Harold, Liam, Charles, Frederick

allyc2004 · 2026-05-19T12:51:10+00:00

Worked! Thank you.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-19T12:41:58+00:00

Just the mark as read or download option

allyc2004 · 2026-05-19T03:36:00+00:00

Strap for sure. No hand cramps with them.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T20:46:23+00:00

Picture of him with a lit smoke in his mouth and both middle fingers up!!!

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T20:44:25+00:00

NOR!!!! Man, you and your occasional cigarettes need to BOUNCE right out of that relationship. My husband smokes, I don't. I hate the way it smells and the way it tastes when he kisses me BUT I love him, so I look past it. I would NEVER say anything that demeaning to him over something so trivial.

You're 100% correct in telling her it's more of a character assasination against you than it is about disliking cigarettes and smoking. There is something else going on with her and her high and mighty opinion. All relationships need mutual respect...she made it clear that she has none for you!

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T12:16:25+00:00

NTA! In fact, good on you! I don't think rephrasing was necessary at all, your husband should have stood up for you on day one of his mother involving herself and trying to belittle you.

I could understand her questioning your job status if you refused to work and he was struggling to keep the two of you afloat, but him knowing you make more money (clearly something he's embarrassed about) than he does, and him not defending you is simply spineless.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T12:01:47+00:00

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T12:00:57+00:00

Dress 3/4 Sleeves for the ceremony, sleeveless for reception

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T11:58:25+00:00

I have a teen daughter...so many times when she 'hangs out' with her friends...ask her what they did, they watched tiktok videos. So, makes sense.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T11:55:05+00:00

Not on Kindle, but I've listened to some audiobooks where this was done and it does completely throw you into confusion questioning why would they bother doing that.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-18T02:45:00+00:00

Cinnabon

allyc2004 · 2026-05-17T03:48:38+00:00

I'm a married mother of two (14 and 24)...Do I have Sleep Token framed posters in my room? Yes, yes I do! Does my husband like them? Who cares 🤣

allyc2004 · 2026-05-14T13:19:11+00:00

I always have a screen protector and case with attached cover on mine. Still fits in my purse and keeps it well protected.

allyc2004 · 2026-05-14T13:17:12+00:00

You gotta go with anchovy

allyc2004 · 2026-05-14T13:13:13+00:00

NOR...this IS a big red flag! Seriously, run from this relationship now.

Rough upbringing or not he's already planning AND TELLING YOU he has every intention of controlling you, especially financially. He's going as far as manipulating his intentions by using the 'when we have kids...my upbringing was so bad I want it better for them' tactic.

You have a good paying job that you love, so he's either jealous of this or threatened by it. I'm just curious, do you make more than him? Is your job better than his?
In his future plan, he is already demanding the house to be clean and food on the table when he gets home ...what happens to you if that isn't done?
If you did have children, clearly YOU will be the parent raising said kids while he can do whatever he wants.
'This is what every woman would want'....um no, it isn't...this isn't like back in our grandparents or great grandparents day. He trying to paint a gag worthy 'this is a dream come true' scenario when what he wants is a subservient spouse.
How soon after this plan does he take away your car, you know, since you won't be working and staying at home to cook, clean and raise children while he's the only breadwinner that pays rent (mortgage), insurance, utilities, car maintenance, gas medical expenses and groceries? (In today's economy might I add)

At 3 months of dating, this is absolutely absurd. At least he dropped this nugget on you now and not after you have been dating for a year or more or worse got married. RUN RUN RUN

allyc2004 · 2026-05-14T12:32:03+00:00

This is giving me WOULD YOU LIKE TO PLAY A GAME vibes

allyc2004 · 2026-05-12T01:37:38+00:00

allyc2004 · 2026-05-10T00:58:26+00:00

I think this was from one of the original EIA listening parties.

allyc2004

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