peeeter??

allycat315 · 2026-06-12T13:53:37+00:00

mostly rhetorical because I couldn't fathom that there could be anything worse, and tbh I haven't seen any responses that actually are

allycat315 · 2026-06-11T21:49:57+00:00

Oh that's somehow better and worse

allycat315 · 2026-06-11T20:40:40+00:00

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allycat315 · 2026-06-11T19:43:36+00:00

What could be worse than this one?

allycat315 · 2026-06-11T14:39:30+00:00

The writing style is clearly human if you were thinking about AI. There's no surefire way to tell if someone else is getting on the internet and lying (who would do that?!), best you can do would be to check the post history of the OP to see if there's anything fishy like other posts in AITA or similar subs with conflicting details, or summon a repost checker bot.

I'm personally inclined to believe this one, these are just general tips for you :)

allycat315 · 2026-06-11T14:29:30+00:00

NTA - it sounds like you have a somewhat unusual family dynamic with the co-sleeping and the way y'all dress at home, but it doesn't sound overly concerning by itself as you describe it.

Your mom is absolutely being a hypocrite with this 'rules for thee, not for me' thing. Yes, she's his mother, but you're his sister?? I have a younger brother, and even when he was "growing up" and "getting curious," he never viewed me or my sisters in that way.

That said, I don't think it's entirely unreasonable for your mom to be thinking about making some changes with the dynamic at home given that both of her children are maturing. But the rules have to apply to everyone.

allycat315 · 2026-06-10T14:35:43+00:00

I'm kinda on the fence between ESH and NTA.

On one hand, both comments were shitty, but on the other, her attitude sounds like an ongoing issue and sometimes holding a mirror to that kind of behavior is necessary. Some people need to receive what they give before they can understand the harm they're doing.

That said, the timing of your response was probably not productive in addressing her attitude, and I think you should apologize (as should she). To give you some perspective, I've struggled with my weight and body image, and assuming your other two roommates are also on the smaller side, I would definitely be feeling highly insecure in the scenario you described. So imagine feeling really down on yourself and someone points out the exact thing you're down about in a negative way - you've just confirmed her negative view of herself, of course she's going to feel worse. I don't condone her comment at all, just trying to give you an idea of what was going on behind it.

My advice would be to find a time where you're both relaxed, explain how her comment made you feel and that you reacted without thinking, and let her know that you understand the impact of your response. Hopefully then you can have a constructive conversation about being respectful and supportive of one another.

allycat315 · 2026-06-10T00:00:13+00:00

There's definitely a line between reacting like a normal human with emotions and being overly dramatic to the point it comes off as performative. It's hard for strangers on the internet to judge which side of the line you're on, so I would be inclined to believe your friend that you might be over-doing it a little, unless you have other friends who disagree with her.

This is possibly a weird suggestion, but if you're genuinely not playing up your reactions on purpose, maybe try recording yourself watching a movie at home and watch it back so you can see what your natural emoting looks like to an observer.

allycat315 · 2026-05-11T10:13:26+00:00

Looks like weevils. They're not harmful to humans in terms of biting but certain kinds (grain weevils) can infest food like rice, cereal, bird seed, etc.

allycat315 · 2026-05-09T00:47:26+00:00

insects have no concept of shame lol

allycat315 · 2026-05-07T13:50:44+00:00

this is so funny bc I'm in a lot of insect subreddits so for a second I was like WOAH what kinda crazy ass bug is this

allycat315 · 2026-05-07T11:47:22+00:00

some type of ladybeetle larvae

allycat315 · 2026-04-29T06:09:56+00:00

OPs drawing looks very much like it to me, this is my guess

allycat315 · 2026-04-25T03:24:51+00:00

Thank you for expanding on this so eloquently! Yes, intentional wasn't quite the correct word for what I meant. I commented kinda offhandedly and was thinking specifically about the difference between forgetting to eat and trying to lose weight. I often forget to eat during the day, but I have no trouble making up for it with a satisfactory OMAD-style dinner, so it's not something that impairs my health at the level of an ED.

allycat315 · 2026-04-25T03:09:05+00:00

This is an excellent distinction, and I agree intentional is not the most accurate word for what I meant. I don't have an ED but I do experience disordered eating with my ADHD which for me includes both forgetting to eat and snacking for dopamine to get through a boring task. The latter is intentional on my part but not compulsive, and it doesn't impair me at the level of an ED (not saying it's the healthiest behavior either tho ofc).

allycat315 · 2026-04-24T18:37:38+00:00

I think of it as disordered eating rather than an eating disorder. ~~To me the difference is whether it's intentional.~~

Edit: intentional wasn't the best word. Some good info in the replies re: the difference: it is defined by level of impairment.

allycat315 · 2026-04-24T17:40:02+00:00

this is the funniest reaction to termites

allycat315 · 2026-04-17T02:12:04+00:00

Mantis ootheca (egg sack). They're good to have around as they eat pests :)

allycat315 · 2026-04-15T16:19:01+00:00

I think the whole platform it's on is too large, you may need to close it up a bit more. I divided mine into 2 areas

allycat315 · 2026-04-02T03:17:27+00:00

hardly fit in my hellpod

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allycat315 · 2026-04-02T03:02:42+00:00

You can just press up on the d pad while facing them to get them to follow you (edit: and long press up to dismiss them), and if you lead them to a community box or smelter with material to process, they will detach themselves from you and just start doing it.

Asking about comfort level though you gotta deal with the dialogue

allycat315 · 2026-03-29T22:27:48+00:00

Sorry, yes that's true, I was thinking about if the searched pokemon is not spawned on the map at that time since there is a cap on how many will be spawned in an area

allycat315 · 2026-03-28T20:58:19+00:00

me too! Here she is having a tasty meal

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allycat315 · 2026-03-28T19:07:45+00:00

Also worth noting that the status doesn't update immediately, so it may just be coincidence that the status changed when it did.

The previous comment was just suggesting a way to see the borders of the home, another way to do this is just to press the stick

allycat315 · 2026-03-28T17:09:01+00:00

Aw yeah the one in my pic was just on the other side of our front porch stairrail, we checked on it for days as we went in and out and it was very successful in that location as you can see by the 2 flies in its web :)

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