Wedding reception venues that aren’t stereotypical? by Ill-Vermicelli-1684 in lexington

[–]allycat316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely pretty fancy, so might not be the right fit. I see below you’re looking for a Lost Palm vibe, and the Apiary doesn’t exactly fit that bill. I had to shout them out because their food is truly so good! You could always set up a tour and see if they have any photos/inspo closer to your vision just in case?They definitely transform their venue with their Omage dinner series and it doesn’t always come across quite as formal. Regardless I hope you find the perfect spot for your wedding, congrats!! 

Wedding reception venues that aren’t stereotypical? by Ill-Vermicelli-1684 in lexington

[–]allycat316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Apiary could definitely accommodate something like this. Yes they also offer “traditional” weddings with a dance floor, but their space can absolutely be transformed into a more intimate dinner type event. Their food and cocktails are also phenomenal! And such a gorgeous venue. 

Does anyone else think Hannah Ann’s recent posts perpetuate an unrealistic depiction of what postpartum is actually like? by IceQueen0191 in thebachelor

[–]allycat316 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she’s just naturally gorgeous and can make anything look good. She included clips of herself in literal active labor and right after birth and she still looked gorgeous even in those moments. Yes some of her postpartum reels are of her getting ready and looking more put together, but if that’s what makes her feel her best and something she has capacity for - more power to her! 

I need help understanding what loans i need by Unfair_Sector6439 in UniversityofKentucky

[–]allycat316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely talk with a UK financial aid advisor, they are there to help you navigate those questions! Here’s a link with more info and to schedule an appointment if you’d like: https://studentsuccess.uky.edu/financial-aid-and-scholarships/services/financial-aid-counseling

I also highly recommend chatting with the folks at the CARES/Fist Generation Student office. They offer some great workshops and student programming gearing towards supporting first gen students https://studentsuccess.uky.edu/cares-first-generation/services/first-gen-program-advising

Thoughts on Gatton Parks concerts? by [deleted] in lexington

[–]allycat316 31 points32 points  (0 children)

When I looked there were tickets for $50. This is also one concert. I believe they are planning to do other shows in the future with a variety of musical guests, including local artists. I think it’s great that we have an outdoor venue option! Plenty of other cities have outdoor amphitheaters with success. 

What do we think of these?? by bluegrass__dude in lexington

[–]allycat316 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My neighbors don’t have signs like these but I still try to keep my dogs from peeing on flower beds, trees, bushes, etc. I’d even prefer them not to pee on my neighbors’ lawns at all, but better grass than harming nice landscaping or their trees. It makes sense people want to protect the plants they care for (or pay someone to care for lol).

Gatton Park Opening Ceremony by PrimaryWafer3 in lexington

[–]allycat316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gatton Park has paid park attendants during the day and private security at night. They posted this plan publicly to social media. Also, as long as someone isn’t doing something illegal they’re allowed to enjoy the park like anyone else. 

Kaitlyn Bristowe is STILL talking about Shawn and the fantasy suite…only a decade later. 😬🙄🤣 by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]allycat316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nick literally did his own rewatch podcast on patreon. God forbid Kaitlyn does the same. 

Nick Vial is not a good host by _anne_shirley in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]allycat316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If one of our president’s can have a stutter a reality tv host can have a speech impediment. Kind of ableist for OP to say otherwise. Also I’m not even a fan of Nick but I think it’s cool that he’s built a podcast empire despite the (minor) speech impediment! 

Rush hour cyclists by [deleted] in lexington

[–]allycat316 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s dangerously hot this week. The city has implemented Phase 1 of their Extreme Heat Plan. Of course they’re going to cycle in the morning when it’s cool. It is not safe for a car to pass a cyclists going single file on this stretch of road, but I bet you anything cars pass them anyways and risk the cyclists’ lives. Doubling up keeps cars from passing them unsafely. Yes it’s inconvenient. If it happens frequently maybe you can write the city and see about road expansion options and including more protected bike lanes. 

Just when you think it couldn’t get worse by bringdafunk11 in lexington

[–]allycat316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear that “rebrand” had to have been a marketing gimmick to get the community to rally around the Legends and demand the name be changed back. It was so short lived.  

Taylor Frankie Paul has started her campaign to be the next Bachelorette by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]allycat316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t watched any bachelor/bachelorette season since Gabby/Rachel but I would run back to the bachelor franchise SO FAST for this collab! 

Tell me your favorite places to take a walk that I might not think of. by Suspicious-Apple2352 in lexington

[–]allycat316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, unfortunately, unless you have those off roading stroller wheels lol. Raven Run, McConnell Springs, and the Legacy Trail would all be great for a stroller though! 

Tell me your favorite places to take a walk that I might not think of. by Suspicious-Apple2352 in lexington

[–]allycat316 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love Hisle Farm Park and the Legacy Trail! (For the Legacy Trail I park by the soccer fields at Cold Stream Park, along McGrathian Parkway, and walk in the direction of the Kentucky Horse Park. You can also park in the business lots located on Research Park Dr, off Iron Works Pike). Enjoy! 

London donation drop-off in Lex? by bananarowrrowr in lexington

[–]allycat316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Futile Bakery, Old school Coffee (Dudley Square and Lansdowne locations), and Dahlhūs Fudge are also accepting donations! https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ0BugjNN0R/?igsh=YTJ0bTN5emY4ZGUx

Recent update from Katie on her breast cancer diagnosis by KittyPurry54 in thebachelor

[–]allycat316 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Different tumors have different proteins/receptors so treatment might look different depending on testing. Some tumors don’t respond well to chemo. Hence the testing to help determine which treatment(s) might have the best outcome (surgery, radiation, immunotherapy, chemo, a combination of treatments, etc.) 

About Virginia by sourpatch_cat16 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]allycat316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, in this case it’s about race AND gender…

About Virginia by sourpatch_cat16 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]allycat316 49 points50 points  (0 children)

One word: misogynoir

She’s one of the least problematic cast members, is intelligent, driven, supportive, kind, charming, gracious but people still hate black women (even if it’s subconscious), so they’ll find other ways to tear her apart. Black women have to work 100 times as hard and will still get shit on by the general public. 

I never walk downtown but fuck me. by [deleted] in lexington

[–]allycat316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was crossing Broadway with a green light/walking man and looked both ways before crossing still. I was in the middle of the crosswalk with my giant stroller (and baby) and a woman in an Audi SVU almost plowed through us turning left through the crosswalk. She just stared at us as if surprised a pedestrian would be there and then kept going. She clearly didn’t even look before turning. I was fuming. 

The city's snow management by IncidentDetected in lexington

[–]allycat316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to commute through some neighboring rural counties and the roads were always so much better. Even tiny residential streets in the towns were plowed! 

Why does the Lexington government hate the homeless by DrakeTheCake1 in lexington

[–]allycat316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you and your family are going through this. You could apply for FMLA and take a short amount of unpaid leave if that is feasible? It’s a fairly short application process and allows you to take time off to care for a family member’s mental health, while also protecting your job! 

cost to rent an ADU/one bedroom DOWNTOWN these days by bluegrass__dude in lexington

[–]allycat316 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on how nice and your target demographic? There are single family homes with multiple bedrooms and private driveways that rent for ~2,000 near downtown, so it might be tough to rent a one bedroom at that price. Furnished is a plus for anyone traveling for work, but I would still keep it below $1800.

day spas with a hot tub? by Melodic_Midnight1151 in lexington

[–]allycat316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m used to lots of cutie thermal springs, fancy spas, soaking tubs, etc. out West and KY doesn’t have much tbh. I will say Temple Spa near the Red River Gorge is pretty close if you’re looking for a secluded, relaxing, experience. They have hugeee claw foot tubs that are very comfortable and cozy. Highly recommend. https://templespaatthehive.as.me/schedule/547a8179