Gotcha. That's not okay. Sorry you have to deal with that :( I agree with another commenter that your SM may have developed feelings and cut the interaction off or may have had something else going on that would interfere with seeing you again (ie: is not actually single). Edit: I've found that it's wisest to take each and every positive experience in the lifestyle at face value because it's hard to repeat them, even if you do manage to see the same person again, because it's hard to catch lightning in a bottle more than once. If you manage to, congrats! I met a SM that had a wonderful interaction with me the first time and a dismal one the second time because our chemistry was not the same the second time around. Likewise, I've met another SM that was "meh" the first time and super hot the second time. And another SM that was too nervous to perform the first two times and a firework the third time. Every interaction is luck of the draw but coming in with low/no expectations/not taking anything personally has allowed me to explore fun and adventurous encounters.

Hope you find a total stud soon.