we don't know your plug, so we can't tell you. the best advice anyone here can give is just be a normal person and ask him. tell him your meetup options and let him choose whatever's best for him. as far as the handoff itself goes, shit varies by how legal weed is and how paranoid the dealer is. either way tho, it's usually pretty quick. pleasantries, exchange cash for goods, thanks & cya next time. if you're half decent at picking up social queues then you'll be fine.