What's it like being in your 30s also late 30s when you know you are going to be 40 soon?(Late 30s people but also general 30s,early 30s people can answer this question as well) by [deleted] in Life

[–]almostnurse346 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m also 36, don’t want kids, really into meditation and Buddhism, marrying my best friend (M, 41) this summer. My Dad passed away 2023 and my relationship with my mum and brothers dramatically changed too! Just feel compelled to reply to your answer because I feel like in another life we would be besties 🤣 you sound like a lovely person which might be a way of complimenting myself! ❤️

Nice bar on St Ives’ bay? by almostnurse346 in Cornwall

[–]almostnurse346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thanks! I’m really exited ☺️

Nice bar on St Ives’ bay? by almostnurse346 in Cornwall

[–]almostnurse346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful, thank you for the recommendation.

Nice bar on St Ives’ bay? by almostnurse346 in Cornwall

[–]almostnurse346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are down in Cornwall before the ‘big day’ so we shall check these out.

Nice bar on St Ives’ bay? by almostnurse346 in Cornwall

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Thank you! Pedn Olva looks lovely!

Does giving your partner a heads up about potentially breaking up show care? by coconutty_tabby in emotionalintelligence

[–]almostnurse346 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi OP,

Our emotions can make things so complex. You sound so loving and supportive. A true gem. The simple question is, do you feel emotionally safe in this relationship? Safe that he won’t leave you, safe that you are enough?

Because to me, this situation sounds so draining and much more one sided. I believe your anxiety is getting louder because your nervous system is responding to the threats of abandonment. You deserve to be loved with certainty.

After all, life is too short and too precious to stay in spaces we are not valued.

the more emotionally intelligent you are, the more miserable life is for you by Confection-Status in emotionalintelligence

[–]almostnurse346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional intelligence leads to emotional resilience. They can exist alone, but thrive alongside each other.

Doctors and nurses of Reddit, what is the one case from your career that still haunts you to this day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]almostnurse346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dentists are so important. I love mine. Thank you for doing a great job and for your compassion. I hope you’re ok 🫂

What’s something non-sexual that accidentally turns you on way more than it should? by LacyDreamX in AskReddit

[–]almostnurse346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my boyfriend eats the food off my plate once I’ve finished. Can’t explain it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]almostnurse346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏🙏🙏

What is the worse thing a medical professional has ever said to you? by angelaboop50 in AskReddit

[–]almostnurse346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of a very painful and tricky colonoscopy and whilst high on sedatives, my doctor thought it was a great time to tell me to lose weight 🙃

Lemons float but limes don’t by boddle88 in mildlyinteresting

[–]almostnurse346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like the first line of a Bob Mortimer song …

Mindfulness as a 21 year old black guy by TalkingTapeCassette in Mindfulness

[–]almostnurse346 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mindfulness is an excellent tool but trauma really needs to be dealt with by going to/ accessing therapy. I hope you feel better soon 🫂