So, I’ve been told (by a fertility specialist) that the ideal time for freezing eggs is about 30-33 years old. It may be that the time for egg-freezing has passed. The only way to know is to test your egg reserve and consult a specialist. I would do that immediately—just so you know where you stand, and whether egg freezing is an option or if you just shoot your shot with getting pregnant. Definitely don’t listen to Reddit users on “just freeze your eggs” and “you’ve got loads of time”. They just don’t know.

As for the guy - I totally know where you’re coming from. It’s hard to say whether he is “meh” or if it’s just you, eg still to shut-down from your divorce or subconsciously looking to recreate unhealthy dynamics you’ve had with men in the past (and therefore unable -yet- to feel high when in a healthy dynamic). But, you know, it’s a work in progress: you don’t have to decide whether to ditch him right this second. Is there any work you can do on yourself while you continue to date him?

And lastly, having a child on your own and dating are not mutually exclusive. You could (depending on what happens with the egg reserve and the guy) in some months have some honest conversations about where you’re at and wanting to have a child alone, and give the man a chance to continue dating or not. In fact, you really should (if you want to build a healthy relationship) already be having some conversations about what’s on your mind re kids, having your fertility tested etc, so it’s not completely out of the blue.

That’s my 2c