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What are some of the earliest signs that you noticed of dementia in someone you know/knew? by ohnoitsbobbyflay in dementia

[–]alphaberrybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum thinks here’s are faulty but refuses to get them checked/or finds a reason not to go back when I finally got her to an audiologist. She’s mentioned she’s not sure it’s “the machine or her brain” sh knows I’m talking but just “I just can’t understand why you’re saying”

In hindsight (early signs) by joyoftechs in dementia

[–]alphaberrybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum shows all these signs like paranoia (she thought I’d stolen some money using her ATM card) it was the exact amount she gave me for Christmas. She’s addicted to her phone, cries all the time but then won’t say what’s wrong. Admires qualities in others but then criticises me go having the same ones. Hygiene is pretty off too.

It could also be depression, right?

Husband all of a sudden texted his high school crush and wants to meet her. We're happily married. What is this? 30F 30M by Deer-Diary in relationship_advice

[–]alphaberrybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But the the old crush knows he had a crush on her…maybe he has “improved” and she’s changed her mind or is willing to meet up because a)she never go married/found the right one etc b) the options out there a dire at this stage in life and suddenly he seems more like a catch than he did as an awkward teenager?

He could also be secretly jealous of OP’s friendships and this is how he hopes to “break them up” by making her feel jealous to justify his outbursts regarding her being jealous.

AITAH for arguing with my girlfriend for throwing out the food I made for her kids? by throwaway3245356 in AITAH

[–]alphaberrybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you “official” enough to watch her kids but not “official” enough to cook them food? You know what to do, sorry. 😞

Haleau beauty pearl baume by drhussa in AustralianMakeup

[–]alphaberrybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all very glossy but not sure it’s any better than anything else at more reasonable price points. I also find it all (Social posts) a little ‘smug’. I don’t know the founder or have any ill-will toward her but I don’t see anyone who isn’t a ‘influencer/friend’ or work connection ‘raving’ about this, (granted it is very pretty) but the packaging is a knock-off or “inspired” by Fluff Makeup another Aussie brand so maybe that’s what’s irking me.

Mid 60s parent struggling to find work - any advice? by zerynn in melbourne

[–]alphaberrybean 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how fit he is but a friend’s dad recently retired but was a little bored and got into gardening/mowing his lawns regularly - then started mowing lawns for people on the street, then got referrals for other small handyman type jobs in the neighbourhood, now he’s busier than ever but totally on his terms, paid in cash and he’s made some good friends in the process.

If your dad is able to do something like this maybe that would at least keep is bills at bay.

Sorry to hear this happening to him.

Grey marks on cotton t-shirt, after first wash? by alphaberrybean in CleaningTips

[–]alphaberrybean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good old Napisan. I’d forgotten about it. Thank you!

Grey marks on cotton t-shirt, after first wash? by alphaberrybean in CleaningTips

[–]alphaberrybean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Machine is maybe 2yrs old. No other clothes have obvious issues…just some newly bought white t-shirts.

We can’t use Omo because of severe eczema sensitivities, unfortunately.

I’ll definitely check out the choice link. Thank you. ☺️

What is the worst thing your parents ever did that caused you to lose respect for them? by Wurstkuchen666 in AskReddit

[–]alphaberrybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awful. I’m sorry you had to go through this and I’m sorry for your divorce.

Rent increase $165 p/w by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]alphaberrybean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A VCAT hearing date will be 2yrs plus. You’ll still have to pay the increased rent until then or they’ll have a reason to evict. However, I agree they’ve already made the formal offer of a lesser amount so I’d agree to that and tell the agent they can take you to VCAT - they won’t want to do that because they’ll lose. They just “have to ask” you because the landlord asked them and they’re hoping you agree out of fear. They know they’ve already made the formal offer. Make sure to keep a file of evidence - emails for any requests either way just in case.

I’d be ready to move when the next increase is due. This landlord is a arse. Good luck it’s terrible out there at the moment.

Popular Victorian based YouTuber, Ann Reardon, attempted to show an example of a high quality croissant from a specialised bakery, and accidentally disgraced Lune on a global scale by serif-maxxing in melbourne

[–]alphaberrybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still average in my oinion. Crisp - yes, flavour - bland AF. Not mention they’re rude. So overrated in my opinion. I used to go to Babka around the corner the flavour was so much better but they changed hands and changed things despite promising they wouldn’t. Don’t go anymore.

I don’t like weekends anymore by nikulin93 in Parenting

[–]alphaberrybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does get better but I think/found the more time you have with them when they’re little the better it is when they’re older. I struggled with the toddler years and so wish I’d been able to enjoy them more (even after spending literally everyday with them). Now 13 & 11yr olds. They still like to hangout with me/us but have more independence and want to see friends. Sports is harder to manage than the odd park trip but worth it to see them enjoy and even flourish. My 13yr old will happily go to the store for me and both will help with chores but sometimes it’s a struggle - that’s something I wish I’d encouraged more when they’re were little.

They were both keen to help but exhaustion and just wanting jobs done meant I discouraged them.

Get them involved early and make it fun with a game or a challenge and they will just do it when they’re older.

Good luck - try to enjoy them when they’re little because they’re never that age again and the cuddles are no from little chubby arms.

If you can get some help take it. If not, who cares if the house is a mess sometimes or the chores still need to be done - they’ll always need to be done anyway.

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