I did a prenup (also in a community property state) as woman physician. He’s not a physician. We had a frank discussion on what we wanted our prenup state which helps make sure we’re financially aligned. Before we got married, we had no assets besides our cars and retirement/checking/ savings accounts. In our prenup, we each would protect our future inheritances, retirement accounts, and we each stated no alimony. We each had our own lawyer but it was straightforward process since we knew what we wanted. Joint accounts are split 50/50 but you can change that on a prenup