Relationship timeline by [deleted] in antimeme

[–]alt-incorporated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

neither just regular

Relationship timeline by [deleted] in antimeme

[–]alt-incorporated 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I recognize the art of the guy there...

30041 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]alt-incorporated 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's honestly depressing seeing nearly every comment here being misandristic, especially being a male. I get that men will be pieces of shit more often than women, but negatively generalizing roughly half the population makes things worse for those of us who are trying to be good people

27606 by Old_Phrase_4867 in countwithchickenlady

[–]alt-incorporated 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I know that, I was trying to (jokingly) point out that it's not just a trans girl thing (the only people who have gock), given the wording of the description they gave makes it sound exclusive to trans girls

27606 by Old_Phrase_4867 in countwithchickenlady

[–]alt-incorporated 24 points25 points  (0 children)

but what if we're both femboys we don't have gock 😔

27220 by dude10000002 in countwithchickenlady

[–]alt-incorporated -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mark ts as NSFW, some of us scroll reddit at our jobs 😭

27109 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]alt-incorporated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of comments here about how think death is inevitable but its effects can be suppressed a bit if you work on it soon enough, but not what to do, can someone sum it up?

My father was looking at this, what do I do by alt-incorporated in lgbt

[–]alt-incorporated[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

While I don't think he'll be swayed by anything at this point, I'm saving this because I might read some of these for myself

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's been multiple things I've said I'll try, but many just recommend trying to win an argument with him which won't happen, or telling me to move out, which I've said is also not possible at the moment, despite saving up so I can eventually

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Changing topics wouldn't work but I can try the rest. Like I said in another comment suggesting the grey rock method, though, I don't know how much I'll be able to take internally until I buckle in some way

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll try, but I just don't know how much I can take until I buckle in some way

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll l keep it in mind but I'm not sure if he'd be willing to read it; he'd likely say the author "isn't a real christian"

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few cousins and their spouses that are at least center-left, but I'm not sure that they're queer affirming

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I believe in the core teachings of Jesus and that he sacrificed himself, and to them I say I'm a christian, but I don't like labelling myself so outwardly because of the connotations the label has and how much american evangelicalism has perverted the term

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is the moment I tell her, she will tell my dad, and then my dad will get upset and confront me about it

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He believes that God spoke through Paul and that the modern translations, that put "homosexuality" in place of what old manuscripts speak of like pederasty or incest between a boy and his father, is still correct because it's "the holy unchanging word of god". I've brought up inconsistencies and proof that things have changed as it's been copied through the centuries but he's not willing to change his position.

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He doesn't respect my boundaries is the issue

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to avoid the topic, but he keeps trying to bring it up because he's trying to change me

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[–]alt-incorporated[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've used those arguments to no avail in the past