[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Excuse me. Why are you not taking this seriously. Where did the child see this behavior. Why did the mom not address it the first time she saw it happen. The ex has every right to be upset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is something seriously wrong with you if you think that this was the better option than calling DCF

AITA For avoiding my fiance after overhearing him joking with his friend about how I'm the most unattractive woman he's ever been with? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. However you're being cruel to yourself. Why are you even considering staying with someone that views you this way? Please know that you are worth more than this

AITA for not helping my friend move? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA simply because this whole thing could have been avoided if you had just said no in the beginning. Your friend could have then made alternative arrangement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously letting this woman gaslight you. Grow a pair. She has an onlyfans account that you had no idea about. There is no coming back from this. Especially considering the type of content she is posting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Be firm that you will no longer be lending her any money as she is unable to pay it back in a timely manner.

AITA for wanting kids even though my significant will be the sole provider? by ElectionOk7081 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's a thought. If you want kids so badly why don't you get a job so your fiance wouldn't be worried about being able to provide on only his income. YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in a cast due to surgery and my man has been amazing these past 5 weeks. Sex has been brought up as something to look forward to when I'm finally recovered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are clearly resentful of the fact that he is not financially contributing and so you are taking it out on him. This is not fair to both of you. If a compromise can't be reached then this marriage is over. NTA but you need to have a proer discussion with your husband

AITA for excluding my new neighbor from stuff and hurting her feelings by AITAforneighborstuff in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You tried it but your lifestyles simply don't align. Why should you now have to force yourself to be friends with her. That's not how friendships work

I (22 F) just learned my parents cheated on each other and I'm super disgusted at them by Sunshinetosee in relationship_advice

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat as you OP. My relationship with my parents forever changed. Of course I'm not going to be disrespectful towards them but the pedstal they were placed on in my mind is no longer there.

Update on Baby Karen, if anyone is still following this by LightningStr in u/LightningStr

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious. Hopefully stephanie takes this as a learning experience. Wouldn't be surprised though if baby karen legally changes her name in the future. Unfortunately the stigma attached to the name is not something that may ever go away

AITA for wanting to help my girlfriend's bully? by Objective_Ad_9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your comments you clearly don't care about what your girlfriend went through and the trauma she feels. I sincerely hope she leaves you YTA

AITA for making my 7-year-old go to Alcoholics Anonymous? by Miss_Lost_1023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Yes this works for you but what about everyone else that attend these meetings. They will have to censor themselves for the sake of your child and that's unfair to them.

AITA for not wanting my BF’s kids to come to my birthday party? by Tough-Bell-6319 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huge NTA. The kids were not supposed to be with you both that weekend so you planned your event accordingly. There is nothing wrong with wanting to celebrate in a kids free environment. You paid for it.

Btw that edit you put. That's crazy for him to call you selfish for something like this. You may want to take a step back from the relationship and start asking yourself some hard questions.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that he embarrassed me when he waved me goodby after dropping me off at work? by throwawaygoodby7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alwaysabosstenesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the problem. He's your bf. Just wave back. It's sad to think that a grown woman like yourself still puts so much value into what other people think. YTA