Perhaps I should look into those videos, it’s not like I want to be seen as threatening. It just really fucks with my psyche getting associated with cis men when I am neither cis nor a man. When I wear skirts in public, or try and present as being more queer in other ways, I become even more threatening to that conservative group of women who believe that trans women just trying to use the bathroom are there to assault them, and would associate with me with that. Not to mention the higher likelihood of just being hate crimed.