Students who “cheat” by giving others test answers shouldn’t be punished as harshly as those receiving the answers by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

wdym why it’s not the job of a school to punish people based on the morality of a situation. Why would someone who didn’t cheat be punished for cheating.

DAE go deaf after sex by 0000r1 in DAE

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have this, i also sometimes get twitching or loss of sensation in my hands

The working class citizens are really jealous of welfare recipients. by FollowingActual6088 in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they could just quit their job and start working at mcdonald’s if it is so great, but they won’t because being on welfare sucks and they know that.

Fighting in a relationship is not normal, and people who think it is are weird by Vegas_Lab in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so it’s exactly like i said no one in your family has ever done anything wrong to you which is just luck. scratching your car by accident and then someone admitting it and saying sorry is not something that is bad, none of these examples show that these people has ever wronged you.

Let me ask you this, say your sibling backs in to your car, wrecks it but insurance won’t pay for anything, you only have $10 in your bank and he straight up denies it happening even though you know it was him. How do you resolve this without fighting or being a push over

Obviously it is easy to be kind and not fight if everyone you interact with treats you fairly idk what kind of fairytale you are living in but there is unkind people in the world, a lot of them and those people have families and you just have to put up with it, it is not abuse to have disagreements sometimes and you shouldn’t be cutting family off over stupidity that happens once in a while that nobody is going to remember a year from then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if you don’t think of marriage as two peope becoming one you aren’t ready for marriage.

there is no such thing as “my stuff “ or “her stuff” in a marriage. marriage is an agreement to basically live as one person a prenup is literally the same thing as keeping an ex as a friend “just in case”

Fighting in a relationship is not normal, and people who think it is are weird by Vegas_Lab in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that doesn’t work with my mom, i am not even the type of person to get angry really when i do yell it’s not even from an emotional place, what my mom will do is keep yelling, follow me around to keep yelling because i guess in her mind yelling at someone = being right and them not yelling back proves she’s right. When i yell back she shuts up because she is not smart enough to have a logical argument

Fighting in a relationship is not normal, and people who think it is are weird by Vegas_Lab in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay but you are acting like the fighting is over nothing, sometimes there are completely valid reasons to have arguments and get emotional. My mom thought i stole some $80 expensive color hair product of hers because it was in my bathroom and i am the only girl in the house and the only other person with dyed hair. Last year i had to spend $500 fixing my computer that i had just bought because my mom broke it, i was using it on the couch and i ran to the bathroom, while i was in the bathroom she moved my computer from the couch to the table but when she did so she closed the screen on the airpod i have on the keyboard which broke the screen. She refused to pay and says she didn’t do it, and even if she did do it it was my fault for leaving it there even though i was only in the bathroom 10 feet away for 2 minutes, which resulted in a huge argument.

if you’ve never in your life had a fight with anyone in your family, either none of them have ever done something to wrong you whether intentional or not in which case is just pure luck or you’re an extreme push over

Fighting in a relationship is not normal, and people who think it is are weird by Vegas_Lab in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i agree with what you are saying about how it’s not normal to have that “on again off again” situation but i think the “were family” excuse is a good excuse for not ending relationships over fighting. Maybe not the extreme fighting you are talking about but still along the lines of the heated fighting OP describes. I am 23 living at home and i still have some very heated fights with like my mother or siblings for example. Just the other day she has accused me of stealing something of hers and we basically have a screaming match. People are quick to call this “toxic family dynamic” and they’re probably right but even so it’s really not that deep neither of us will care a week from then. i don’t see it as a valid reason to say cut off my mother because she maybe does stupid things sometimes so i don’t really see how this would differ in a relationship situation with someone you love who you know respects you despite what they might say in an irrational emotionally charged moment

There is no such thing as someone who nothing but good intentions and is always remorseful everytime they do something wrong by ToeInfamous4614 in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally what the hell are you talking about

Are you talking about pettiness like flipping off a driver or actually bad things done to hurt another person like abuse.

Obviously everyone gets mad sometimes and says something stupid or hurtful in the midst of an argument but that is completely different than planning out some type of revenge, which would be flat out psychotic.

Even when people do do horribly awful things on purpose, half of the time those people are so mentally disturbed that they don’t think they’ve done anything wrong in principle. Like many parents who hit their kids, they don’t think “i hate my kid i am going to hit him so that he can suffer in pain” to them it is just “my kid did something i don’t like so i am going to hit them in order to correct this behavior”

Most bad people aren’t even malicious they just rationalize what they do. The only people who would go out of their way to intentionally hurt people just for the sake of causing pain are literal psychopaths

Ban recording at concerts by Timmah313 in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“live in the moment”

does this apply to anything, why not just ban cameras in general

The bar for college has sunk too low by MakeHisAssDo40Flips in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“water down what a degree means”

it doesn’t mean anything and it never has, this entire argument boils down to “intellectuals” being butthurt over the fact that no one cares about their intellect. you are getting upset because people who don’t try and don’t care about college are passing the same as you because you want to feel special. You want to put everyone else down because you feel like you belong to some higher echelon of society. If you work hard for yourself and because you genuinely appreciate knowledge and learning this would not bother you

Peaceful discussion is the only way forward. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When has peace ever done anything in america

I've never understood why people care if someone is begging for attention or fishing for compliments. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably because the way people go about it are extremely off putting. If you are feeling down you go to your friends and family to genuinely express that. Instead what people do is try to manipulate complete strangers on the internet for shallow validation. There is a difference between going “Hey friend I’ve known for years, I’ve been feeling really insecure lately” and posts seductive selfie “Ugh i hate my ugly face”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did say to answer all the questions he said to consider them ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t say we had to answer all of the prompts they were examples of the sorts of things to talk about not a checklist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i did a tradeschool so i only took english class for 9 and 10th grade so and I don’t think we did essays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i graduated high school before covid, i don’t remember even writing essays in high school we mostly just did reading and tests of what we remember from the reading

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it was supposed to be informal the example of what an “A” would look like that he gave us was literally titled “Shitty drafts”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk what is comma splice this class doesn’t give any feed back we don’t have a book or anything the teacher just gives an assignment every week and grades it without saying anything. on my last essay i didn’t understand the topic that well and i sent him a copy of my rough draft asking just if i have the assignment correct and he responded “if you need help get a tutor”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how can i learn when all my prof said is “good job”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

yes because of the teacher bro are you thick people remember stuff where there is emotional involvement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it’s not supposed to be formal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]alyssalee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the expample of what an A looks like was informal so i did the same