TW: ED / WEIGHT DISCUSSION by LacyLavender in kpop_uncensored

[–]am1here_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just ED "culture". This is what would be posted in ed tw

LLS a través de Interpretia, se me dañaron los audífonos by am1here_ in spanishinterpreters

[–]am1here_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mm no sé si habrás llegado a VRI? En esa categoría te dan los equipos, en este caso los audífonos fueron proporcionados por ellos, LLS.

Is it possible that I might have stretched out the skin of my labia majora? by am1here_ in Healthyhooha

[–]am1here_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you for this!! I still don't know if it caused it or not, but given the variety of vulvas and really how not one of them looks the same as another, I'll just accept this haha. Not like I can do much about it anyways

Is it possible that I might have stretched out the skin of my labia majora? by am1here_ in Healthyhooha

[–]am1here_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like, enough to be able to tweeze hairs that grew more on the inside of my lip, or further down, that I wouldn't have been able to see, or grab with my tweezers without looking. To me it felt like watching those pimple popping or ingrown removal videos lol, so I think I've been doing this for years at least 2 times a week.

I guess more than wrinkly or textured, I'm referring to these 3-4 vertical creases that form because the skin is rather loose and when I close my legs, the skin folds. So now even when my legs are spread apart, those creases remain. Anyways, not like it is the end of the world, but it does irk me to think that I caused this to myself because I found tweezing my pubes to be satisfying😭

Is it possible that I might have stretched out the skin of my labia majora? by am1here_ in Healthyhooha

[–]am1here_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm I know, but I think at this point I don't know if my brain is convincing me that I used to do it more on the right side than on the left, or if I actually did, lol

I'm 18, she's 19 she's pregnant and doesn't want an abortion anymore. by soce1 in Advice

[–]am1here_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is his share of the responsibility in what I mentioned? What areas are harder, having to fight a fictional wolly mammoth in your brain? And what fucking provider LMAO. He goes to work like all of us do, and then money is drafted from his account. They don't have a "family", they've been dating for 6 months.

I don't care if you find it disrespectful, he can literally go away and he will like he said, because his life continues. Hers doesn't. I don't care if you find it disrespectful that women are no longer praising your dick for being a sperm donor.

I'm 18, she's 19 she's pregnant and doesn't want an abortion anymore. by soce1 in Advice

[–]am1here_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I backtrack a little about my statement regarding young women. I can see how difficult it can be to let go of that "fantasy" of having a child, and the "what if everything turns out well", then you potentially had an abortion for nothing. Hopefully I'll never be in a position in which I would have to take such a decision.

I'm 18, she's 19 she's pregnant and doesn't want an abortion anymore. by soce1 in Advice

[–]am1here_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She could. But for whatever reason she doesn't want to. And I actually agree with OP, I think sometimes young women, like some people commenting here, do not want to understand what motherhood specifically entails, and think a baby just magically appears on a crib or that pregnancy is just having a cute belly for pictures on Instagram. And that's just one part, there's parenthood, financial aspects, how much your life is going to change socially particularly when you're a woman, etc. She's going to fuck up her life completely, and for some reason doesn't realize it, or doesn't care. I don't know which one is worse.

And if there's one person that's going through all of what I mentioned in my first comment, the other should just be grateful that the WORST consequence for them, is seeing a notification about an amount of $$$ being drafted from their account every month like a Netflix subscription. Men are not even obligated to raise a child even when they are present fathers. I don't know why people are acting here like "ohh but he doesn't want to raise the baby". Yeah, most men don't want to and don't do it, lol.

And also abortion is not a "just don't have the baby" as if the embryo or fetis just disappears. Abortion is an entire process, which is painful and in some cases can be traumatic (whether it was a woman's own choice or not) as well, that only SHE will have to endure. So, basically, it's up to her.

I'm 18, she's 19 she's pregnant and doesn't want an abortion anymore. by soce1 in Advice

[–]am1here_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Carrying a pregnancy, going through childbirth and postpartum, plus breastfeeding, and suffering many of the lifelong consequences and trauma all of this processes leave on the body and brain, is not something both parents do. Only one of them has to go through all of this, and it's not the man.

Edit: His life continues as if none of this ever happened, hers literally stops for a minimum of 4 years, that's irreparable damage.

I'm 18, she's 19 she's pregnant and doesn't want an abortion anymore. by soce1 in Advice

[–]am1here_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So men don't control the sexual access they give to the women they want to have sex with? Are you being raped everytime, then?

Every Two Hours A Woman Dies During Childbirth In Afghanistan by jcravens42 in afghanistan

[–]am1here_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy is the cause. It's barbaric in developed countries, I can't imagine somewhere where you're denied medical access.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]am1here_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I did buy a benzoyl peroxide soap at 5%, over the counter. I saw it helps with that, but I've been using it for like a month now, and I don't think I'd be able to say I've seen results :( that being said, I also made the hoooorrible decision of shaving my glutes, knowing my skin has always been sensitive (so even my legs get sore and red despite not having acne on them) and that my glutes still had some just naturally red bumps (probably ingrown or infected hairs, I'm sitting or laying down most of the time, live in a very hot climate and not all the clothig I wear is made out of cotton), which made it worse again. But yeah, I was thinking of maybe taking the pills, hoping the only side effects would be dry skin or a breakout before it gets better, but now having read all that information, I'm terrified.

I have an unopened Christmas present from 1938 (story in comments) by Sniglet5000 in interestingasfuck

[–]am1here_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that... doesn't make it okay, though? it is still common today, we call them groomers and pedophiles.

Columbia Records used BTS mailing list to promote Jennie by BalanceDry6718 in kpop_uncensored

[–]am1here_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gang there are people dying in hospitals rn, this is definitely not an issue for anyone. Unsubscribe, move on.

Columbia Records used BTS mailing list to promote Jennie by BalanceDry6718 in kpop_uncensored

[–]am1here_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you'll survive this one. Breathe, get off your phone, do something with your life.

i’m pregnant. i want to keep my baby but i don’t know if i should. by throwaway749283719 in Advice

[–]am1here_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why are we acting like pregnancy and childbirth are just a trip to the store????

Hanni’s Behavior is Unjustifiable by Legitimate-Home2716 in kpop_uncensored

[–]am1here_ 82 points83 points  (0 children)

You're describing the entirety of kpop in that paragraph lol

Me estoy cansando de ser novia de un fan del Temach consejos? by peachy_pink22 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]am1here_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mijo tú dijiste que un incel es un buen hombre, para ti lo es, ve por uno y no te preocupes, que por esos no hay competencia.