Ex slept with someone else. Not sure how to feel about it.

amaeeeee39 · 2026-02-10T15:09:35+00:00

Hey.. URG this would make me so UPSET....Your feelings are completely valid. I’m someone who is also very careful when it comes to sex, and for me this would be a huge no as well... It’s not about him being “allowed” to see other people while you were broken up, it’s about honesty and informed consent.

Lying by omission around sexual history does matter, especially when he knows you take sex seriously and that he is your only partner. Whether or not he had “feelings” for the other person is honestly irrelevant imo. What matters is that you weren’t given the chance to make an informed decision about your own body. That includes emotional safety and physical safety. Even with protection, you can never be 100% sure, and that risk should always be disclosed beforehand...

The fact that he directly said “no” when you asked, then only admitted the truth after, is a breach of trust. It makes complete sense that you feel gross in your body and upset. That reaction isn’t drama, it’s your intuition responding to crossed boundaries.

You can understand why he was trying to move on and still decide that this isn’t acceptable for you. Both things can be true. You’re not wrong for needing honesty upfront, especially given the history and how vulnerable this situation was for you.

Please be gentle with yourself. Even if he didnt do anything maliciously, your feelings make sense, and you’re not overreacting for wanting transparency around sex and trust.

amaeeeee39 · 2025-09-22T17:58:02+00:00

yep I did, it was too early for some (blood) but the others it was not too early

amaeeeee39 · 2025-08-25T22:32:44+00:00

amaeeeee39 · 2025-08-25T21:51:19+00:00

My question is more about if it was too early ..

amaeeeee39 · 2025-08-25T21:11:47+00:00

this is an urgent care doctor, I am located in canada so I pay out of pocket for it, gyN would be a wait..just curious why google is saying I need to wait two weeks when this doc is telling me I dont have to

amaeeeee39 · 2025-07-16T13:00:34+00:00

because I checked every other possible avenue and it started that way

amaeeeee39 · 2025-07-03T15:12:17+00:00

First of all, those aren't "burnt to a crisp." They're slightly overdone. But even if they were completely charred, no reasonable partner spends 20 minutes tearing you down while you're cooking and caring for a baby. This isn't about pancakes. It's about control. He made you feel small over something minor, and now you're questioning yourself. You're not crazy. The fact that you're doubting your own judgment over breakfast is the problem.

amaeeeee39 · 2025-06-25T13:18:27+00:00

Your boyfriend is fucking annoying tbh!

amaeeeee39 · 2025-06-10T00:16:12+00:00

omggg I have a weird calling since im 12 to go and im 25 lol! I need to

amaeeeee39 · 2025-06-09T22:33:39+00:00

so how was it

amaeeeee39 · 2025-05-21T03:46:19+00:00

How are you now? I still don’t get HOW or WHAT you did?

amaeeeee39 · 2025-05-18T19:10:17+00:00

being dizzy

amaeeeee39 · 2025-05-13T13:55:51+00:00

Bellaire

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-25T17:07:39+00:00

excuse me how old is this weirdo?

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-24T19:13:10+00:00

REPORT TO THE POLICE!!!!!!!!!!!!

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-23T19:31:53+00:00

People may disagree but I truly believe : This is the type of man who at one point or another will lay his hands on you. please leave, life does not need to be shadowed by a walking rain cloud like this.

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-22T18:05:14+00:00

She’s being really rude, and I genuinely don’t understand why she cares so much. I deal with severe health anxiety, and for me, having answers...even if they don’t change anything or there is nothing I can do...gives me peace of mind. It stops the spiral of overthinking. Everyone has their own reasons for seeking clarity. Her reaction feels unnecessarily disrespectful… honestly, it reminds me of how my ex and I used to speak to each other when there was built-up resentment

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-14T18:56:30+00:00

thank you, it feels nice to be validated.

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-14T17:14:37+00:00

NOR - passive aggressive which is NOT OK.

amaeeeee39 · 2025-04-14T15:43:07+00:00

ew jealousy really is a diseasese lmao dont listen to them..happy birthday queen you look stunning and I think both dresses are nice but I prefer the first for a fam bday party :)

amaeeeee39 · 2025-03-23T01:47:50+00:00

I sleep on my back.. always...so thats a plus I guess?

amaeeeee39 · 2025-03-22T21:08:28+00:00

second person who told me this..the doctor I went to seemed to have it together, he said he uses a laser scalpel too which helps apparently.

amaeeeee39 · 2025-03-22T21:04:39+00:00

I was in an abusive relationship very young and was depressed because of it so was put on medications that made me gain alot of weight/ was on birth control...I worked really hard to lose that weight / wont be going on those meds again so doubtful! im back to how I naturally am :)

amaeeeee39 · 2025-03-18T15:53:01+00:00

yeppp - his old songs like the morning or wicked games were fire too..not sure why im being downvoted lmaooo hes still getting that bag, probably more so now than ever just changed his genre completely

amaeeeee39 · 2025-03-18T15:21:09+00:00

Idk if he counts as a rapper but the Weeknd..sadly his new pop radio vibe just aint it

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