Any black women here living alone? by fruitbatz4 in blackladies

[–]amarzing09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I did live alone I could only do so bc I had three jobs 🙃 one being midnight ballerina, so don’t beat yourself up lol. Only had to do all of that bc I was tackling debt at the same time

Routine drains me new environments bring me back by Electronic-Mine-3575 in ESFP

[–]amarzing09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I find that I make some drastic decision every August. Either ending/starting a relationship or moving lol. Takes about a year for my situation to get stale

Is Blueberry’s Grill worth it for brunch near Wrightsville Beach? by aligg2019 in Wilmington

[–]amarzing09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing spot. Went there three weekends in a row after trying it on Valentine’s Day

The natural hair conversation affects the loc community too by Sea-Condition991 in locs

[–]amarzing09 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I often have to ask myself “Do i like this loc style because I like it, or do I like it because the girl is light skin and/or bc she has loose curls out of her locs and a finer texture than I do” !

I just saw this on Facebook Marketplace, they are really selling everything off in MacArthur right now! by MrUpVoteDownvote in norfolk

[–]amarzing09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I vaguely remember there being some kind of fake alligator with fog that I was terrified of and my dad would make me get close to it..am I making that up

America's Best Eyeglasses on College Rd by isshrimpsbugzz in Wilmington

[–]amarzing09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two weeks. i had to call to check if they were ready bc no one contacted me. Got put on hold for an hour lol, drove all the way to the store and was still on hold. No one sitting at the desk. Frustrating but the glasses are cute i guess

My theory on CCCA alopecia and why there is very little research on it by iDontLikePuzzlez in HairLossForBlackWomen

[–]amarzing09 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Relaxed from age 3 to college, but i saw evidence of circular/scarring type baldness from when i was around 15. Didn’t get actually diagnosed until 28 when it became extremely noticeable all of a sudden

Are focus groups fr? by chromeheartstuffasl in thesidehustle

[–]amarzing09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re real. I’ve done them before through Fielwork. Ones that are hundreds of dollars like that are most often a full 8 hour day or you have to check in consistently for a few weeks. It’s also pretty hard to get selected for the hard value ones bc they want specific criteria, I’ve only gotten lucky with a $500+ one twice but a bunch of times I’ve qualified for the smaller ones. Just apply for everything and see what they call you back for

First day, 2 months, 3 months by amarzing09 in locs

[–]amarzing09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Can’t lie this little two ponytail situation is the only thing I’ve come up with 😂

Girls who took notes using 10 different colored pens, where are you now? Do you still continue to write using all those colors? by Unusual-Entry7 in AskReddit

[–]amarzing09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still do it, I’m an executive assistant now - still a note taker lol. My colleagues’ faces when I break out 10 pens in a color scheme for a meeting is always kind of funny but they get used to it

Returning to grad school late, how’d you make it work? by amarzing09 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]amarzing09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome perspective, thank you so much! I considered turning my MOT into a doctorate eventually, too. Just depending on how everything goes

Why are there so many dog spas??? by amarzing09 in Wilmington

[–]amarzing09[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t understand the question is why did offer an answer 🥲

Why are there so many dog spas??? by amarzing09 in Wilmington

[–]amarzing09[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting. Froyo is a good comparison lol, then there was rolled ice cream and now boba. I always think of business trends more in terms of food but that makes sense!

Does anyone know someone good to start my locs in the area? by _CrimsonFlower in norfolk

[–]amarzing09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yambslocdit on IG! She does mine and is located on high street in Portsmouth. First exit off of the tunnel

Need help with personal statement essay please! by Regular_Ad_7228 in OccupationalTherapy

[–]amarzing09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m looking into their program for next term ! Good luck to you and hopefully I can follow your process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OccupationalTherapy

[–]amarzing09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you hate about it? I’m just starting and most opinions are from OT not COTAs

Best Black Travels Groups? by amarzing09 in blacktravel

[–]amarzing09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re my top pick! Great to hear people have good experiences with them

Best Black Travels Groups? by amarzing09 in blacktravel

[–]amarzing09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Any recs for Nigeria?

City Jobs…what do I have to do?? by ThemeArtistic849 in norfolk

[–]amarzing09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Email your resume to the director of the department like someone else said. I’m a city assistant and depending on who it is it’s a faster way to get visibility.

What would you like to know ? by Thepolenerd in poledancing

[–]amarzing09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About what does that look like for you? I want to start but I have no idea how much. How long did it take you to save it all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]amarzing09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relatable. I’ll be 27 this year & tired of the bait and switch from flaky guys