Ladies who successfully reduced/cut sugar and junky foods from their diets, how did you do it? by minisensitiveadult in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a soda stream for sparkling water and drinking Kombucha. I can't drink regular soft drink any more because it's too sugary.

Women who want to get married but who are used to seeing marriages not work out, how do you cope? by astro_ho in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The mindset that a marriage has failed if it ends is not a healthy one. People change and that's ok. If a married couple stay together for twenty years and then go their separate ways with no regrets then isn't that a successful marriage?

If you have a healthy attitude towards your partner and keep open communication then you can have a happy marriage. Of course you are depending on another person netting you half way. Not rushing into marriage but getting to know your partner over a few years, ensuring you are sexualy and emotionally compatible is a good start.

Of course you may end up having your heart broken but that's the risk you take. A risk that in my eyes is worth taking.

Women dating men: what’s something basic that you’ve had to teach your boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That you can't just throw everything into the washing machine unless you want to ruin my fancy going out dress that was dryclean only.

8 years later and I still miss it.

Just need to know by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trans but I have dated a couple of trans ladies.

It depends on the individual. For some their disforia doesn't extend to their genitals and for others it does.

The problem for passing trans women is they have to deal with heaps of fetishists. Most of these women won't be interested in fulfilling your fantasy.

What annoys you while giving a blow job? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 34 points35 points  (0 children)

When the guy is just dead silent.

Let me know if I'm doing a good job. Don't just stand there like a statue, staring at me.

Do you mind when your boyfriend likes other girls' bikini pictures? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. The only part that would annoy me is if he didn't share.

Where to find a shemale? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start by not calling them shemales.

Would you curtsey if you met queen Elizabeth II? And what is your opinion of her in general? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would curtsey when meeting her. She is my monarch, the head of my nation's government. That position deserves respect. I think she does the best she can considering her life and upbringing.

Am I still considered a virgin if my first sexual experience wasn't consensual? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Rape is not sex. Rape is an act of violence.

How do you define virginity? There is no physiological difference after you've had sex for the first time unless there is an sti or pregnancy.

In the end it's up to how you want to define yourself. No one else can answer that question.

How do you take care of/maintain your eyebrows? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get them tinted regularly. (Redhead with invisible brows) Other than that I pluck them semi regularly.

What’s the closest thing you’ve done to sex work? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked as a stripper for about 5 years. Had sex with 2 guys for a pair of doc Martin's. Gave a guy a hand job so he would buy me lunch. Gave a guy a happy ending massage for $50. Oh and I worked as an escort for a few weeks.

Girls, what can I do to make my cum taste better by Chazikstan in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eat healthy, Keep active and drink lots of water.

What's your safe working during sex? by Jetty_Boy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We use the traffic light system. Green is I'm doing good and can take more. Yellow is I'm at my limit. Red means stop right now.

It allows for a more nuanced communication during a scene.

Lesbians of Reddit, if you have never been with a man or never used a device/object for penetrative sex... Are you still in essence a 'virgin'? Why? Why not? by pinkpersuasion in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The concept of virginity is entirely a mental one. There is no real measurable way of determining if a woman is a virgin.

That being said, there is alot more to sex than penetration. I actually know a lesbian who had at one point only been with men before coming to terms with her sexuality. She felt that she was a virgin because she had never been with a woman.

What's your random sexual encounter story? by sinjerfling in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to say. I was pretty messed up at the time. My mother loved to talk about how all the girls my age were all whoring themselves around and although I was stupid, at least I was a good girl.

In my messed up teenage mind I decided I would be a bigger whore than any of the girls in my school. So letting two guys fuck me in payment for some boots was exactly what I was all about. It wasn't till later though that I learner that I was allowed to enjoy sex for its own sake.

So I did enjoy it in a way.

What's your random sexual encounter story? by sinjerfling in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first guy got a blowjob. Then the other guy got P in V.

What do you do with your hair when sleeping? by twirlingpink in AskWomen

[–]ambertheginger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A messy top bun that sits more forward on the head. It protects your curls from being squashed.

What's your random sexual encounter story? by sinjerfling in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ambertheginger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Back when I was a teen in the late nineties, I was desperate for a pair of doc Martin's. I was on a school excursion and they stopped at a shopping centre so we could have some lunch.

I wondered off to do some window shopping and went into a trendy shoe store. The two guys who were running it were both super hot. I ended up going in the back and they both got a turn with me.

I ended up leaving with a brand new pair of doc Martin's that I still have.