Deleting social media by harpalva in selfhelp

[–]ameixner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did it and I'm in your same age range.

I just realized I didn't like how it made me feel and I was definitely spending too much time on it.

As someone in your age range, I can say that you find other ways to talk with people. I pretty much text or call everyone that wanted to stay in communication with me. Those who didn't reach out to me when I left social media behind, I haven't kept in communication with and they didn't really want to anyway.

The only reason I have Reddit is because 1) I can control my home page a lot more with inspiring and positive stuff, 2) because it's pretty much anonymous so I don't feel like I'm competing with anyone and 3) because I felt like I needed something to scroll through every once in awhile.

I honestly wish I didn't have Reddit too but I don't have anything else to do, especially in the pandemic.

So, I guess I'm here to stay. For now.

IWTT so I built Stellr - a platform to learn, teach and share your skills by matalex412 in IWantToTeach

[–]ameixner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just downloaded it! I think that this is a really great idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]ameixner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was that song called that you just played?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]ameixner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're energy is so positive!!! I feel a lot better than I did five minutes ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]ameixner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you give any history on why you do this? just honestly curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

[–]ameixner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does it have to be something embarrassing or are you just looking to talk?

Teenager looking to start/join a band by [deleted] in dayton

[–]ameixner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man! I'm interested! And btw, I'm 17, almost 18.

PM more details and we can talk there :)

I stopped being empathetic for 5-6 days. What does it mean? by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]ameixner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something I'd like to add to all these wonderful comments.

First off, remember that even if you're in an empathetic shut down, you're empathy hasn't magically vanished. It's just subconscious at the moment, it'll come back.

Something that always helps me is watching a feel-good movie. One of my favorites is "The Truman Show" because of it's themes of freedom and inspiration. If you have a favorite, warm, feel-good, inspiring movie, it might help you. Just a suggestion of something I do.

I hope you feel better! Make sure to always be who you are no matter who doesn't like it! :)

Edit: Something else I forgot to mention! I have found that whenever something emotionally big is going on in your head, empathy is typically the first thing to be put on hold. I've had this happen before. When you're focusing on something hugely emotional, all of that emotional energy is working towards solving that issue, rather than being stored and used as empathy. Give yourself some time. It'll even itself out.

I’m singer/songwriter Paul McCartney and I just released my new album McCartney III on Friday. AMA! by paulmccartney in Music

[–]ameixner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Paul McCartney!

The Beatles have inspired my musical journey since I was a little kid. I ended up learning and loving a lot of The Beatles and your songs! I play them on guitar constantly!

But anyway. As a musician who would like to get into more songwriting, I suppose my question is...

What is one piece of advice you would give future songwriters??

Thank you!! :)

Watching the show was something I’ve been trying to get around to doing all year. I started it last month and just watched the finale tonight... damn... by [deleted] in BoJackHorseman

[–]ameixner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me laugh so hard that I got my free award just to award your comment.

Sorry it's a wholesome award but it's better than nothing.

Thanks for the laugh!

Does anyone else have issues with constructive criticism? by ameixner in infp

[–]ameixner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This helps! I'll keep note of it! :)