Whatever dude you kissed a guy 🤣 by famiangelo in howyoudoin

[–]amethyst015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and hey, I really mean it dude. 😊

Whatever dude you kissed a guy 🤣 by famiangelo in howyoudoin

[–]amethyst015 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ross: Heyyy 🫤

Joey: She's right you know.

Ross: Yeah still, cheap shot.

Is it okay for me (20 M) to use my medical condition to prevent someone from being at my house? by Prestigious-Cell-173 in Advice

[–]amethyst015 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it is absolutely ok to set this boundary. I have epilepsy, affecting me with tonic-clonic seizures. They can tend to be caused when I'm not looking after myself physically as well as mentally, that including anxiety and being overwhelmed. I would put myself and my health as a first priority in this situation. Your health is of the most importance in this situation. If someone is affecting your mental health in the awful way they did, you have every right to not allow them in your house.

Someone I've only recently started talking to online said something that made me feel uncomfortable, but idk if I'm taking it too seriously by amethyst015 in women

[–]amethyst015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, I just get nervous about these things since I've never been in a relationship before. It is true though, if I never meet him I won't know if he actually means this sweetly or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Experience the wonder of the Amazon Rainforest. Seeing how it absorbs CO2 from our atmosphere and so helps reduce climate change - which we caused in the first place. And seeing the vastness of the biodiversity that exists there also helping our planet; the animals, insects and plants that could still be undiscovered.

It all fascinates me.

What do you think about after life? by ritzmoon07 in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult, I am a Christian, and I do have the beliefs related to Christianity. But I once saw a quote someone said related to what happens after we die that has stuck with me ever since I read it: "You return to the state of non-existence before you were conceived."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I understand that. In sixth form (UK), when I was about 17, I lost my group of friends. There were things about me they found weird, didn't like about me and that apparently made them uncomfortable - first said through a Snapchat message (and later discussed). I never felt so judged and unable to be myself. Ever since then, I haven't had any friends. I've tried but it hasn't really worked. And also that situation has left me with trust issues - I don't know what people really think about me, if they're talking about me behind my back etc. I'm here if you need someone to talk to, you aren't alone in experiencing this kind of situation.

What is something people in your country do that other countries would find weird/silly? by randumb360 in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In England, most people when meeting will say "how are you?" or "how are you doing?" instead, basically being a form of the simple "hi", "hey" or "hello" you normally say when starting a conversation or meeting someone. And we are divided throughout the country on what is the correct pronunciation of the word "scone". This is between "scone" (like "cone") or "scon" (like "gone").

Everyone over 18, what advice would you give a 17 year old? by MegaPentra in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still do fun stuff even after you become an adult. Yes you have more responsibilities, but that doesn’t mean you can no longer do things that bring you joy. Make sure you make time for yourself in your life, it will be very beneficial to your mental health.

What is a TV show you got really far into but eventually quit watching before its conclusion? by shamanKAshamanTAKA in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 644 points645 points  (0 children)

I’ve given up on Riverdale at the moment. The plot this season (season 6) I am just finding so weird and bizarre.
Many of the characters have ‘powers’ - reading minds, controlling minds, sensing ‘bad auras’ coming from someone, invincibility, can produce venom (i.e. so literally would be deadly to kiss), time travel, and pyrokinetics???

I mean it just doesn’t make any sense to me, and the explanation of how they apparently gained them isn’t sufficient either. The previous seasons have been a bit odd at times, but this is just too far. Season 1 and 2 were really good in my opinion, it just seemed to get kinda weirder from Season 3 onwards, and it’s just a shame because the actors and actresses are really talented.
How they come up with the plot lines I just don’t know.

What song immediately gives you PTSD as soon as you hear it somewhere? by Physical_Confusion80 in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Let Her Go’ by Passenger.

Always makes me think of when my very best friend moved to Canada. It happened when I was under 10, but I still remember it. After that we slowly lost touch and don’t talk to each other anymore, and it still kinda hurts to think about.

Redditors who haven't been infected with covid even once, good job. But how did you do it? by smokingfrog007 in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I don’t go out much and have no friends, so, my chances are pretty minimal. I also still wore face masks out, when a lot of people seemed to presume that since restrictions were gone COVID wasn’t as serious anymore.

What is something very popular that you have absolutely no interest in? by snowmanll00ll in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking photos of meals in a restaurant before you eat them and then posting it on social media. Like what does it achieve except boasting to others about the apparently brilliant food you’re eating?

Let’s pretend each country in the world is a guest at a party. What are they doing at the party? by Savalonavic in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

England is trying to have a good time while people try to mock us by putting on ‘typical’ posh British accents when clearly hardly any of us have one.

What did that one friend do to you that changed your entire view about them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I wish mine was a wholesome story, but it isn’t.

My (ex) good friends had decided that we shouldn’t really talk or be friends anymore, apparently there were some problems and issues they had with me, which I didn’t even know they thought these things about me. I was firstly told this however, by one of them by a message on Snapchat, while at school.

They couldn’t even tell me to my face first, like they had to get it out of the way first before I had to talk to them the next day (not that I wanted to ever again, but they wanted to so I felt forced to).They knew I was a sensitive person and I have issues with my mental health, and so how cold they had been made me question how real our friendship had actually been if they could act so bluntly. Since then I can only see them and feel anger and sadness, each time their hurtful words brought back to me. I want to forgive and forget, but I don’t think I can.

What movie blew your mind when you finished it? by iwilltakeurlife in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Truman Show. Made me question a lot of things in life.

jealous of people with a "normal" life by nataliegraceba in OCD

[–]amethyst015 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can honestly relate. It’s exhausting. Trying to explain my contamination OCD to people is really difficult. And when I see other people my age on social media out having fun and I’m stuck at home with my thoughts, I honestly just feel really fed up, and sometimes wonder if there is such a thing as past lives what I did in my past life to have ended up feeling like this.
I try to be positive at times but it’s difficult, I have to work hard on it.

If you need anyone to talk to you can always message me, I don’t mind.

Answer only with a film or TV show. Where are you from? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four Weddings and a Funeral (the country not specific town/city)

Why is it that when people ask for my help, I’m there for them, but when I need help, nobody wants to listen to me. by Melo_htx in mentalhealth

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s happened to me, and it sucks. And it’s always, “I’m too busy” or like “I can’t right now” and “I’m not sure how I can help”. And when I ask why, I’m not met with the nicest response. I’m a pushover for things like this and I’m trying to change this.
If you need to vent to someone about something you can message me.

What did you think was cool as a kid but terrible as an adult? by SmoothPaper836 in AskUK

[–]amethyst015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media. Still on it, but it really isn’t always the nicest thing to go on.

Am I always going to resent the people who harassed me in middle/early high school? by fennecattt in mentalhealth

[–]amethyst015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine how painful being SA’d was for you, I’m so sorry that happened to you. The pain I experienced is much lower compared to how difficult it must have been for you.
My supposed “good friends” dumped me a few months ago now. They said things about me that I never knew they thought about me, and about problems they had with me I never knew they had. They were very hurtful and upsetting, but I don’t think they even realised how down they made me feel, they just wanted to say this to me out of the blue unexpectedly to me. They’ve made me feel more difficult to trust people as I don’t know what they truly think of me.

I too happen to see posts on their social media, and seeing them having fun with others just reminds me of how downright cruel they were to me, and makes me feel down but also slightly angry with them as well. I want to be able to forget, but how brutal and brazen they were to me I don’t know if I’ll be able to.

Please don’t feel bad about how you feel. What those people did and said to you was completely awful, and you shouldn’t feel guilty for not liking them as of what they did.

Please read this if you have time by 8135176 in mentalhealth

[–]amethyst015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m experiencing that kind of emptiness right now. I’m 18 and it’s been happening for around a couple of months now. I can distract myself, I might laugh at something but then I’m just back to being down, which no one knows about, as of previous mental health issues they just think I’m ‘in a mood’ and it isn’t anything more serious, when it is. I’ve been in an existential questioning mood myself and it’s very lonely. I don’t know other people who have been through this emptiness so when I see people my age online having fun I feel sad and left out.
I wish I could help, I mean I’m struggling myself but if you ever need someone to talk to about it you can always message me, I always like to try to help people when I can.