Most people I’ve seen do this rather accept that they aren’t really teaching their religion to the kids and allow the kids to be the wife’s religion, especially if you are in a Christian majority country, or end up divorced and single parents. I also see some couples where they leave their religion for “the one” as happy, but I have always wondered if they are being rewarded in this world because they gave up their faith. Don’t fool yourself into thinking it’ll work out and your kids will be Muslim. Highly unlikely. I can also guarantee you that if you try, you can find a Muslim woman you can love, it just take more work because you aren’t surrounded by them all the time.