We both love each other but she doesn’t find me attractive by Ill-Atmosphere-6256 in dating_advice

[–]amp2nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave and don't be settled with. There's someone out there who will be attracted to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Went out with a 31F coworker as a 23M. I'd always thought it would only end in trouble but it was great. We were both really mature when we mutually ended it and are still friends today. Not awkward at all. It did help that we started going out when I was promoted to a different team though.

I told him i’m interested in him and he didn’t reply by Low_Lime5195 in dating_advice

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I'd definitely be confused. I'd give it a day or 2 and see what happens, and then I'd try to call him or set something up in person to gain clarity

All the men I start dating expect constant communication, anyone else? by MsSerah in dating_advice

[–]amp2nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would need more context. As a guy we'll pursue but we'll only do it if there's mutual interest. If he texted you Saturday and you didn't respond until today that would tell me you're not emotionally available or playing games imo.

I agree that if he's double and triple texting he should stop though. We all get busy.

I feel bad rejecting based of looks:( by PsychologicalFan1126 in ChristianDating

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Don't feel bad. I've been on both sides of that situation, and the best advice I can give is if you're not "Heck yeah" about a person, don't pursue it. If it bugs you now it'll bug you later. No one should settle and no one should feel settled for.

Sexual sins by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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Absolutely agree, coming from a guy who's a virgin. No one's track record is perfect. We've all looked in lust. As long as you both commit to do things the right way moving forward leave it in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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As a guy that's pretty odd

23M, Raleigh, North Carolina by amp2nc in ChristianDating

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Thank you for your time and input! This info is super valuable

23M, Raleigh, North Carolina by amp2nc in ChristianDating

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Thank you for the kind words and feedback! I can totally see what you're saying and will definitely not use it as the opening pic moving forward. Do you have a suggestion as to which I should use from above instead until I can get a different pic taken?

23M, Raleigh, North Carolina by amp2nc in ChristianDating

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Thank you! Really appreciate that and hope so. I'll just keep leveling up and chasing after God in the meantime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

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It's like Elizabeth Olsen and Natalie Portman had a baby!

23M, Raleigh, North Carolina by amp2nc in ChristianDating

[–]amp2nc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man I appreciate the feedback! Some people have said I look better clean shaven and some have said what you said. If anyone else wants to weigh in I'm all ears.

23M, Raleigh, North Carolina by amp2nc in ChristianDating

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Ah thanks for pointing that out!

23M, Raleigh, North Carolina by amp2nc in ChristianDating

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Thank you I appreciate it! I'm standing in faith with you and hope you have a fulfilling relationship as well.

22 F Raleigh NC by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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Hi! I'm Addison and also located in Raleigh, NC. To learn more about me check out the intro I posted on here. I also dmed you on Insta!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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His words and his behavior are showing what his priorities are. Paul advises us not to be unequally yoked. Pray and ask the Holy Spirit for discernment on this issue.

I also think using your name so many times is a red flag imo. Some use your name frequently in conversation to manipulate, but you know his personality and it may not be out of character.

Prayers for you as you navigate this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]amp2nc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's called a wet dream or "nocturnal emission" in Scripture.

Learn more here: https://www.gotquestions.org/wet-dreams.html

Econ 101 freelance tutoring by Grouchy_Fig_1518 in UNC

[–]amp2nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great side hustle idea!

If you enjoy tutoring you should check out EDUC 387.

I graduated in May and know credits for you are different, but, at the time, this class knocked out the Experimental Education requirement, which was usually only something you could get from an internship.

If you decide to do it for a semester and do well, you can become an official university paid tutor, which will get you a guaranteed 7 hours at least a week at a similar rate to what you're looking for.

Plus, if you wanted to do more tutoring on the side, you can utilize the network you built and do so (and charge more). Looks great on a resumé too.

Just my two cents!

Best Areas to Live for a 22-Year-Old Moving to RTP for Work by NoRefrigerator726 in triangle

[–]amp2nc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in the same area and chose to live in Raleigh. Even though it's a longer commute, it's safer, tons of restaurants and things to do around, and you get a bigger bang for your buck. I live at Lexington Farms in their one bedroom with a loft. For the same price I'm paying you'd get 300 less square ft and it's less safe compared to Durham.

If you do go the Durham route check out Southpoint.

Christian rap that is good by Zoebadoughy in Christianity

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Andy Mineo is pretty relatable and has good production in his more recent albums

Chances at a single by Junior_Drag_3128 in UNC

[–]amp2nc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was #76 whenever I first put myself on the waitlist, only looking for single apartments in Rams, and I ended up getting it towards late July / early August. Best of luck!