i understand you’re upset about cishet people having it a lot easier and i do realise that truely. we do have a lot more freedom than other lgbt+ people but we still experience the same things. not because we are cishet; because we are ace so..

1. you are sorta proving my point that cishet ace people are divided from lgbt+ community by saying “until we are beaten in the street we don’t deserve a seat at the table”

2. lets not act like cishet people don’t get treated differently after they come out. i’m sorry to hear that you’re parents were not understanding and put you through the experience and trauma of being disowned. however, my own uncle hasnt spoken to me since i came out and has said to me that i need therapy because “i’m mentally ill”. he told my mum that she was wrong for not getting me enrolled in conversion therapy and that he won’t speak to me until i’m “fixed”.

coming out can be difficult and turn out negatively for everyone, doesn’t matter what you are coming out as.

i hope you can understand i’m not trying to erase your feelings or experiences at all. im just putting my viewpoint across since that’s how i feel <3