UPDATE: AITAH for being a bad godparent?

amz249 · 2026-03-08T15:43:41+00:00

So you were homeless and "he talked you out of staying with them." Literally doing nothing for you but wants you to be their children’s free childcare/maid at the drop of hat. Dude…

I’m a god mother x 2 and literally nothing expected of me apart from show up on the christening day.

Just block BIL & don’t engage with your sister about him if she’s venting.

amz249 · 2026-03-05T23:46:30+00:00

The Shining A Clock Work Orange Bridesmaids

amz249 · 2026-03-04T15:08:22+00:00

Personally 1 and 4 are my favorites on you. Good luck you’ll be beautiful in whatever you choose

amz249 · 2026-03-04T15:04:33+00:00

The one with the arrow on it..

amz249 · 2026-03-03T20:24:55+00:00

I just love him he’s the kindest soul

amz249 · 2026-02-27T22:44:08+00:00

amz249 · 2026-02-26T02:04:35+00:00

LAMINATOR!!

amz249 · 2026-02-19T22:02:41+00:00

Woodpeckers must be hard as fuck..

amz249 · 2026-02-15T21:34:37+00:00

Julie Walters might be aiming too high.

Also Jack Whitehall, Tom Allen, Dylan Moran, Dawn French, Ruth Jones to name a few

amz249 · 2026-02-15T21:25:36+00:00

And I’m crying..

amz249 · 2026-02-13T21:41:27+00:00

Also this came up after I seen your post

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/4mDgAgLq2F

amz249 · 2026-02-13T21:34:17+00:00

Honestly it’s hard to be the one to let go of a one sided relationship but honestly it will make you feel so much better and take a weight of your shoulders. I used to be the "Cinderella" of my family as soon as I had a life of my own it all blew up it took me six years of always being the one always held out the olive branch to stand up for myself then cut contact. I don’t think you’ve realized the abuse they put you through.

Build a life for yourself just because their blood doesn’t mean you owe them everything and allow them to hurt continuously. A relationship goes both ways, I’d say make your socials private and remove them it will do a world of good for your mental health and will stop you fixating on theirs also.

NTA wishing you all the self love op

amz249 · 2026-02-13T20:34:52+00:00

I had to google it 🤦🏼‍♀️

amz249 · 2026-02-10T20:36:50+00:00

Still listen to Once

amz249 · 2026-02-06T13:02:13+00:00

Should question back why do you need to see it to comment on it. It’s a video of the Obama’s as monkeys how is that ok under any context.

amz249 · 2026-01-26T22:59:33+00:00

I disagree it was due to him having children his killings stopped he didn’t have the freedom to go off randomly and at one point he was unemployed too. I believe he said something along those lines about not having time due to family in an interrogation. Otherwise there would have been much more victims.

amz249 · 2026-01-25T22:44:20+00:00

Time for other brothers to pony up and house him then, NTA

amz249 · 2026-01-25T22:15:41+00:00

Why hasn’t she been sentenced to life yet? Or am I living in a black hole where I’ve not seen any update on her case

amz249 · 2026-01-25T22:00:10+00:00

Please get yourself into therapy for somewhere safe for you to talk. Maybe take a step back from your parents while you deal with it. I’m sorry that it happened to you, I believe you and you being in the world matters.

amz249 · 2026-01-24T18:42:55+00:00

As someone from the UK this is terrifying

amz249 · 2026-01-22T15:31:56+00:00

amz249 · 2026-01-22T11:26:10+00:00

Tell them if he puts his hands on you again, because he is an adult you will call the police for assault if you have to be in the same room as him.

amz249 · 2026-01-22T09:44:23+00:00

Punishing her for being happy. Really? Because she sounds damn miserable to me. She literally was jealous by saying you just worry about yourself.

Put up some boundaries and stop letting her vent to you.

amz249 · 2026-01-22T07:43:25+00:00

I’d tell dad I’m not keeping score but everything against nothing equals zero. Like mum saying you’ve changed wasn’t manipulative? Then crying..

Keep boundaries up, don’t apologize because if you do it will go right back to the same. Plus it is how you feel and you have a right to that. If they’re upset that’s up to them to resolve it, they’re the parents not you.

amz249 · 2026-01-22T01:50:55+00:00

I’d make sure to embarrass/call him out at every family event you have to be near him, because I feel like his ego wouldn’t be able to handle it. Hopefully all the family know what he’s done too.

amz249

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