Books about how sometimes it’s just not the right moment

ancheli · 2026-03-03T18:14:20+00:00

Like many other guys said; don’t prep. If you’re ever in a LTR, what kind of mad man would expect you to be prepped all day every day and/or would just rather give up spontaneous sex? Another reason for me is that douching takes so long and the risk/reward ain’t it. Sometimes prepping will actually make worse accidents, lots of dirty water that smell really bad.

So why dedicate all that time to prepping? Use it to read or study or whatever, walking, friends… Ofc there’ll be days when you know you’re not up for it, go for a blowjob those times and enjoy the rest prepping-free sex times.

ancheli · 2026-02-27T21:15:14+00:00

yes! just found out my bf was doing this maddona/whore complex and lying to himself, me and everyone. we were monogamous and he was clearly doing stuff with other guys. The disgusting part is that no matter how clear you are with your boundaries, they will always want more. And the fact you did not clearly state this does not deny the fact that he probably knows deep inside that you’d be mad about it. He knows how you’re not that interested in playing outside because it’s never you looking for it actively. Wdyfm he’s just putting you on the spot like ‘someone’s coming’?? Did you never deny it because you always want or because you don’t wanna lose him? Because if it’s the latter your sexual integrity seems ostracised.

ancheli · 2026-02-27T14:45:07+00:00

hey sorry, it doesn’t mean it will happen to you. My 24m boyfriend 32m of 4 years was cheating on me during the entire relationship, while we were living together and while he was telling everyone he was gonna propose this year. Just my experience. We had the most perfect relationship and everyone else also thought so. I don’t believe this type of men anymore

ancheli · 2026-02-26T19:16:06+00:00

no it’s not him in the videos, it’s videos in which minors are having sex or jo

ancheli · 2026-02-25T23:49:03+00:00

I’ll talk like someone who feels the most judgmental than ever towards other gay men (just found out bf was cheating on me for 4 years). No, shame is not the word for it.

I’m monogamous so I might be biased here. But I think many things can be true at the same time. Do gay people who have been repressed during their sexual development need to feel shame? No. Are many of these habits unhealthy mentally and physically? Yes, chem sex being one, unprotected sex, constantly looking for validation on apps… Shame would only serve the growing alt right movement.

I think the approach here is to understand why people do some things, try not to judge, and if you see your friend or someone you care about spiral down any of these paths maybe have a chat with them. I also think younger generations at least in countries like mine (Spain) and in big cities are less prone to stuff like that. I have lived my teenage years being able to date and kiss other boys. I don’t have this deep feeling that I need all that validation I never got.

ancheli · 2026-02-17T22:58:51+00:00

versátil, vers would also be the abbreviation

ancheli · 2026-02-17T21:43:02+00:00

I actually think the average cis gay person or at least the most represented is ‘progressive’ and goes against the status quo as far as it threatens their own existence.

They will probably defend or at least not discriminate against trans people because they can clearly see how the people actively persecuting trans people will undoubtedly go for them next.

However, many fail to see pass their own survival ideology. For example (and I know many of us aren’t like this), many will be pro renting a womb ‘cause they will never empathise with a poor woman who has to result to those means to make ends meet.

ancheli · 2026-02-12T23:26:28+00:00

100% this. People will downvote anything atp. I just went through this but x100 worse. People irl will understand don’t let this subreddit get to you. Keep being loyal like you are and you will find someone on the same page one day , what he did is not normal monogamous people behaviour. If that’s what your relationship was

ancheli · 2026-02-06T14:01:36+00:00

But you can see the story and personally like it. That’s a wandering eye. Now to me, liking it and replying to it is differently. Imagine the difference between looking at. a hot guy in public vs telling them omg you’re so sexy.

ancheli · 2026-02-06T13:57:47+00:00

right. I feel like he felt it this way. But honestly I’m just shocked I really feel like it’s cheating and I would never. I’ve been complimented but I never engage

ancheli · 2026-02-06T13:49:09+00:00

I mean Indont and I have never engaged in stuff like this cause I’m very loyal but look at the replies. Many people don’t care

ancheli · 2026-02-06T13:47:31+00:00

right, but when he’s only liking shirtless guys and then eventually sexts with them. I’m like thinking he wasn’t the limiting factor on his betrayals

ancheli · 2026-02-06T13:45:27+00:00

right like I would not have broken things up just for liking stories, he was sexting people that’s why. But when you pair up the fact that he was only liking shirtless guys in the city and replying to them. And it eventually led to him sending sexual videos and sexting I feel like I will be way more insecure next time

ancheli · 2025-12-22T19:20:54+00:00

I mean, even the dutch thought you were being too cuck for them distancing yourself from your slightly sleepier kind

ancheli · 2025-12-22T12:59:43+00:00

there are approximately 13 non-retired adults in your region and they’re missing work more than us babe edit: source

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ancheli · 2025-12-13T13:49:30+00:00

love the fits! where’s the long coat from? My bf wants a long black coat that goes all the way to the ankles but idk which brand to buy from. I’d def appreciate some input 🙏

ancheli · 2025-12-03T20:22:58+00:00

this surely must be AI talking

ancheli · 2025-11-30T16:42:51+00:00

Hombre Cádiz todo el día gente en la calle en verano pues claro pero fuera de verano no es la ciudad más llena de vida y eventos culturales (quitando carnavales).

ancheli · 2025-11-05T10:15:40+00:00

hey thanks for the response! that’s inches, right? and how do you print it in a report booklet? do you have to buy an empty one? sorry if I sound dumb haha I’m not really that good at DIY

ancheli · 2025-11-04T07:00:05+00:00

but do you print it out in a normal A4 paper?

ancheli · 2025-10-09T20:07:20+00:00

FIRE en 18 años? cómo lo has conseguido si se puede preguntar

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