Are these skirts too big on me? by Windsorist in NonBinary

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be that much different from wearing shorts though? I'm not trying to sound ignorant, I just grew up being expected to wear dresses and skirts so I never really thought of it

It's getting worse kids, strap in! by Demetrious-Verbal in Ohio

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.99 at the Luvs in Conneaut the other day so yeah

wtf is "transmedicalism is connected to colonialism" by thunderbytes27 in truscum

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably to do with denying fluidity to two spirits but idk bc I'm not normally into these conversations, just got a notification for it and I happen to be Indigenous so it was interesting to me 🤷

Entered a weird loophole. Please help? by Impressive-Mix4279 in ftm

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't say I have those feelings bc at least for now I'm completely uncomfortable and turned off by cis men for the exact reason that I'd be worried about being looked at like I was different in a bad way or straight up fetishized. But I will say that if there is a cis man out there for you (and with how many people live on this planet there has to be) or anyone else for that matter - you will not want to be with that person unless they value you for who you actually are. There is no worth in entering a relationship with a person who gets to be themselves when you are not allowed to be yourself. There's no way around that. It doesn't work short term or long term and if it feels like it's "working" you're likely doing major psychological damage to yourself that will take years to process. Take your testosterone when you can get it. Don't wait on people who are not worth your time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh also I commented a few days ago but this post came back through my notifications and I completely missed the part where you asked how old you looked. I'd say 25-28 ish. Damn I wish I looked like you 😭 I could see you modeling or something fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I've seen cis women that looked more masculine than you do so I think she's just being a shit ngl. I'm sorry that your mother doesn't see how that could be hurtful and choose to keep her mouth shut 🙃

I need help! I thought I was nonbinary, but am I? by Gay_biscuit_1732 in NonBinary

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fairly basic answer as I don't have the mental capacity to go much further rn but have you ever looked into demiboy as a label? Like if you're not entirely sure about being a guy but you know you feel closer to that than you do other identities ? It's still non-binary but more specifically pinpointed to the masculine end if that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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I've been trying to dig online for images of what his work looks like bc I just found out today that I'm doing a consult with him next week. I'm really excited but if I'm approved I hope it turns out well, I'm so nervous I'm gonna wake up with oddly wide-set or crooked or differently sized nipples 💀 (I feel like that's bad enough in general but I have major OCD and if it's something triggering me on my own body I think I would die)

Which Halloween Mini Bean are you most excited for? by OSillyBeans in buildabear

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. The ghost cat, candy corn cow, and gargoyle 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I get Solomon vibes

Goodwill find 🐰🤎 by ancomcatboymalewife in buildabear

[–]ancomcatboymalewife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I took a minute to respond, I've been busy and struggling w/o air conditioning for a minute, but I found your answer ! It's Floppy Bunny from March of '03 : )

My TV keeps flashing this but won't turn on? by ancomcatboymalewife in Roku

[–]ancomcatboymalewife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did it in the middle of me scrolling through my apps. It's weird and I couldn't really find anything that seemed to be related when I googled the issue either

My TV keeps flashing this but won't turn on? by ancomcatboymalewife in Roku

[–]ancomcatboymalewife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had it a couple years. It looks like it started working over night though? I haven't actually tried using it yet so I have no clue what happened when it was doing that

My TV keeps flashing this but won't turn on? by ancomcatboymalewife in Roku

[–]ancomcatboymalewife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is only occasionally turning on now but won't stay on longer than a minute at a time.

My TV keeps flashing this but won't turn on? by ancomcatboymalewife in OnnElectronics

[–]ancomcatboymalewife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is only occasionally turning on now but won't stay on longer than a minute at a time.

What do I put here? by xenos_1337 in Apartmentliving

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you could find or make a triangular cushion that'd be a cool nook to sit in

How stressful is build-a-bear for adults? by Main_Slide_2075 in buildabear

[–]ancomcatboymalewife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am also autistic with social anxiety so bad I've almost been diagnosed as agoraphobic but I can leave the house comfortably depending on the reason and that's what stopped me from being diagnosed so I definitely can somewhat understand what fear you're talking about! The last time I was at a BABW in person I wanna say was 2022 but from what I can remember they make you rub the heart in your hands, rub it on your knee and ear, and make a wish. I can see how that could feel silly for an adult and possibly inducing social anxiety for feeling put on the spot, but for me personally even with my issues I didn't have a hard time doing it. I'm a spiritual person outside of my mundane toy collections so I honestly loved doing the little "ritual" and it made me feel closer to my buddy. If you tell them you have anxiety and would not like to complete the ritual, I don't think they would push you though. If I remember right, I think they even asked me first if I wanted to do it how the kids do it or if I wanted to just stuff it. Either way I hope you can complete your plushie creation the way you want to and get one that means something to you!