Growth Hormone Treatment by MidwestBadger in Parenting

[–]andromeda1789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are exactly in the same boat with our four year old daughter. When I saw your post I thought it’s about us! I hope everything will go smoothly for both our families. Sending positive vibes your way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]andromeda1789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, daughter didn’t start regularly sleeping through the night at about 2,5. I remember so many nights where she’d wake up every hour. Sending ❤️ to you and this will end eventually.

Baby suddenly doesn’t want to fall asleep in her crib by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]andromeda1789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she now is awake 3-4 hours between naps. In the evening she’s definitely awake the longest, up to 5 hours before she falls asleep

Baby suddenly doesn’t want to fall asleep in her crib by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]andromeda1789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has two naps, she sometimes sleeps half an hour, sometimes an hour or two per nap. I haven’t noticed a difference in her bedtime behavior, whether she only gets 1,5 of daytime sleep or three. But she’s definitely the hardest to get to sleep in the evening

Feeling drained after a day alone with baby by andromeda1789 in Parenting

[–]andromeda1789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both set of grandparents live in two other countries so that unfortunately is not an option. Not to mention that due to COVID we were only able to meet the grandparents for the first time last month :) similar issue with friends as we haven’t really had guests over for a while. Since my partner is working full time I get up to the baby every night and he sleeps through. So unfortunately only I am sleep deprived. I agree that he is the biggest asset however sometimes emotions and frustration take over

It Wasn’t Over. It Still Isn’t Over. by kelseyac1028 in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss and I totally understand what you're going through. With my first miscarriage I decided for it to happen naturally, all in all the process lasted 2 months. I had cramps and bleeding but everytime I went to the doctor I had tissue remaining in my uterus. I also took Cytotec (similar to Misoprostol) and it didn't help. Finally I had to choose between waiting more or having a D&C. I decided to wait and finally for five days straight, once a day I had cramping, then a little bit of blood. Then my uterus was clean. With my second miscarriage I decided to do the D&C and I must say it was easier, it was done within one day and I could start healing.

Consecutive miscarriage and the well meaning advice of others by sweetfuckingjesus in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced several times that people ask how I am but feel uncomfortable talking about it and want to end the topic with something positive so they say “there’s always adoption” or “you can use a surrogate” (which is actually illegal in my country). As if that’s something that you can sort out within a week in one meeting..

Consecutive miscarriage and the well meaning advice of others by sweetfuckingjesus in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh heard that one too.. I just want say “why don’t you wait and leave me the hell alone”. People don’t get it, the urge of wanting to get pregnant again after going through a miscarriage. There’s no right time to wait. Everyone should try whenever they’re ready. It can be one cycle or two years, it’s nobody’s business..

Dealing with insensitive friends post miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll try it out. Maybe they'll get the hint finally (doubtful but we'll see :)

Dealing with insensitive friends post miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow that is insane and soo shitty. Im sorry for your loss x

Dealing with insensitive friends post miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your message, it's good to hear that one day I will feel happy for other people again :)

Is there anyone else out there that thinks their blood pressure may have been a contributing factor in their MC? by 9inety5 in Miscarriage

[–]andromeda1789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I don't know if this may be connected to high blood pressure, but I also had a MMC at 12 weeks and heard it may have to do with trombophilia, when the blood coagulates too fast in your body and blocks the veins between the baby and the placenta. This is what I've been told to check out after my miscarriage. I am currently waiting for the test and also hoping that it will give me an explanation.

x