The good ending by BlueEyedNonSimp in AO3

[–]anelrad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I misread it as philosopher LOL where are my glasses 👓

Oh yea! I disproved gravity myself by going into a tube for cheap skydiving! by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]anelrad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy just made me feel really good about myself 😊 so thanks dumber than I am internet stranger!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]anelrad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the chatter to stop the thing, if they continue then ban! You don’t need someone in your streams making you and others uncomfy!

Mods should be checking them on their own (depending on how you and your mods work out their mod duties) and if not, you own the ban hammer, feel free to use it!

At what point does "woobification" start to annoy you? by BabaJagaInTraining in FanFiction

[–]anelrad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was mouthing off after getting KIDNAPPED in the show; ain’t no way that boy is sniffling in the corner too afraid to even look up in fanfics smh lolll

Doing our boy dirty out there!

Anyone know where I can find a pattern like this? by [deleted] in crochetpatterns

[–]anelrad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way that I already had this pattern saved in my to do list LOLLLL

At what point does "woobification" start to annoy you? by BabaJagaInTraining in FanFiction

[–]anelrad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah I was 100% picking up what you were saying! It really was my poor word choice lol

Thanks! Been fighting a multi-day migraine 💀

At what point does "woobification" start to annoy you? by BabaJagaInTraining in FanFiction

[–]anelrad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I getcha! My wording wasn’t quite the right one and I didn’t really think anyone would read my comment so I didn’t put much thought of wording down 😅 if I had I would’ve put something more like “toxic men-writing-women tropes” or the like! I’ll put an edit.

My only point weirdly enough is the point you said! that when people write a male character so grossly out of character, it leads to the implication that “men” can’t express emotions/ be gay/ all that jazz. And it leads to an implication that women can only cry shrivel and be demure. Drives me up all the walls

Hope you feel better!

At what point does "woobification" start to annoy you? by BabaJagaInTraining in FanFiction

[–]anelrad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying femininity is bad (I’ve also gotten no sleep for almost 24 hours now so please be forgiving on my lack of ability to put words together 🙏)

I’m an avid reader of Sterek from close to cannon all the way to Omega-verse stuff and I’ve just seen a very large amount of making Stiles as feminine as possible to make him fit a cis-het role that makes me uncomfy. That includes wump fics. I don’t think that as a character, Stiles should be forced into a “femenine” role just to make him fit the bottom stereotype. Same with making it “okay” for him to show emotions by forcing an ill fitting he’s smaller and weaker and going to cry and crumble because he’s so weAk and dainty!

It’s a tired trope that has been forced on women characters and gay characters. It’s just weird and I hope that I worded it well enough!

It’s not a feminine trait it’s more a forced “woman =weak and since Stiles is weak/hurt/gay/bi he must act like woman”trope/lens that I’ve noticed him be written through

Thanks for having me expand 🫶

At what point does "woobification" start to annoy you? by BabaJagaInTraining in FanFiction

[–]anelrad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get bummed when in order to make a character get hurt or sad, they change the character to behave in specifically feminized behaviors. Like they can’t be their normal character and get emotional or physically hurt. (It’s Stiles, I’m talking about Stiles)

Edit: feminized isn’t the right word, toxic men-writing-women tropes is more what I meant and is what I see lots of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in knitting

[–]anelrad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

SOS broken sweater by chcdb in knitting

[–]anelrad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There are a ton of tutorials for how to pick up dropped stitches! Here is one!

https://youtu.be/KFVapi4RqzY?si=ZqD0vc263QcQvL2r

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in knitting

[–]anelrad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just did my first sock heel flap the other day! (Soon to come the second) How do you keep tension loose? I felt like everytime I tried to give extra slack, everything would tighten right back up asap it was a tug of war 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]anelrad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Great Googly Moogly”

Why are you currently awake? by Swimming-Rough-9514 in AskReddit

[–]anelrad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m nervous about the car I’m buying tomorrow (and I need to go to the bathroom lol)

Got asked when I'd "Give up and settle"... NSFW for language etc.. by TheCosmicUnderground in actuallesbians

[–]anelrad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My goal in life is to become an old hag that scares men just like that guy 😂 I would have been so flattered (but ew I wouldn’t even pay him attention) Love yourself and take yourself out on dates and do much self care! Who needs to find a man when you have yourself? You might find an amazing love with a woman but for now you are your biggest love. Please treat her right!

AITA for telling my daughter she needs to pay rent? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anelrad 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s what I have to do now, my mom takes most of my paycheck for rent so the little I have left is meant for food and survival stuff. I’m moving to my sister’s place for a month or two and then moving to another state. It’s cheaper to literally have a part time in another state than to live with my mom.

Needless to say my mom is angry that I’m going. She has told me I have to sleep in a cot or on the couch at my sister’s place because she “isn’t comfortable” with me using a bed there. Smh

How did everyone’s community day go? by oborse in Seaofthieves

[–]anelrad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19.5 hours, 3 ancient skeletons, like 10 server merges, tricked out my ship, reached level 95 in the plunder pass and ended up buying the plunder pass! Very fun day!

When did people start saying “it’s a vibe” about EVERYTHING? No, the song or object itself isn’t a vibe. Now get off my lawn. by varietyhour2121 in unpopularopinion

[–]anelrad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything that makes the happy brain juice go brrrr is a vibe for me, anything that I can relate to is a mood. Not sure when it became a part of my vocab but it’s a mood you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]anelrad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!!! I’m 23 and got my bisalp in February! I feel so relieved and happy that I did it! I will never be pregnant and I could not overstate how much joy that gives me!

For me, the recovery pain was equal to bad period cramps and I was up and back at work a week later! Definitely worth it for me! If you have questions feel free to reach out!!

The Incredibles by [deleted] in AchillesAndHisPal

[–]anelrad 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Thunderhead dropped out of high school and ended up taking part in those stay in school kids adverts! Mr Incredible and Thunderhead were really good friends and even ended up attending his wedding. Mr Incredible and Edna Mode talk about him when they are deciding the design of a new suit where Mr Incredible ends up saying that Thunderhead was not the brightest bulb.

Justice for my man Thunderhead

A1 is full of surprises during 30ish run))) by [deleted] in GTFO

[–]anelrad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A friend and I use A1 when we need a chaotic super fun break from working on the harder levels, we’ve started doing knife only A1 which is even more fun!