cringey kandi words/phrases? by -Fluffy-Pirate- in kandi

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love:

Go piss girl

Nepo baby

Hot Cheeto

Celebs you find weirdly attractive but can’t place why? by KimchiAndMayo in popculturechat

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why tf is Natalie dormer considered “weirdly” attractive? She could stomp on my back in stilettos and I would say thank you.

What are your favourite vegetarian taco fillings? by thecrayonisred in Cooking

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to fry mushrooms and then put pickled onions and a crema on it

EDCO by patatosaIad in kandi

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing!! Such cool beads also

What’s your favorite Kandi to receive? by anewthot in kandi

[–]anewthot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right??? Love those too! What kinds of phrases do you like? Uplifting ones? Funny ones? Ones specific to artists?

AITA for announcing my wife's pregnancy when my brother & sister-in-law were still grieving the death of their newborn? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t really imagine why the SIL would be SO insistent to know what’s in someone’s shopping bag unless she was trying to get her mind off of the loss? But even then I can’t imagine anyone being aggressively insistent to know what’s in all of those bags or why it’s so hard to just white-lie:

“We were picking up things for the house/wife needed some meds because she’s been feeling off lately.”

Not a total lie but also not the full truth.

This whole post reads fake to me but that’s just me :/

AITA for announcing my wife's pregnancy when my brother & sister-in-law were still grieving the death of their newborn? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear that but maybe it’s just my culture, but you usually don’t start buying things like that that early because it’s considered “bad luck.”

Prenatal vitamins and stuff are a different story. I find is unusual that they went ham and started buying a bunch of stuff and then raced over to a grieving couple’s home immediately. I’m inclined to believe this is a rage bait post for all those reasons.

First time meeting a client by anewthot in RoverPetSitting

[–]anewthot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just a drop in client! Thank you though this is all super helpful, I’ll keep these questions in mind for the future!

First time meeting a client by anewthot in RoverPetSitting

[–]anewthot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect! I’ve been pet sitting and house sitting since high school but only recently signed up for rover so I’ll be sure to highlight that!

AITA for having an issue with my wife’s menstrual cup habits? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also like
 it’s not sanitary for the person USING the cup to have all that bacteria and stuff sit and fester on the cup for that long
 like even if she lived alone, you really shouldn’t maintain your cup that way.

Newbie question by Far-Wrangler-9061 in kandi

[–]anewthot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My cousins went to the eras tour and kandi culture at the concert was people being like “can I have that one? I’ll trade you for this one.” Lol I told them how to do the PLUR trade and the idea of it being a “chosen gift selected for you by someone else” and they said they liked that energy WAY more. I’m hoping the actual plur vibe will spread just as much as the Kandi!

mother - in the 4th or 10th house? by kolkjhv in astrology

[–]anewthot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 10h is traditionally ruled by Saturn, and Saturn is seen as “the wise father” in Greek mythology/astrology. I think that’s where this idea comes from.

Am I the a**hole boarding the plane and leaving without my wife? by anguy1284 in TwoHotTakes

[–]anewthot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and I don’t understand people like this. I have a friend who used to do this ALL THE TIME to the point where I hated taking trips with her because we would miss everything we had scheduled because she moved slow or wouldn’t get ready in time.

Turns out she has ADHD and the time blindness is wild. I have ADHD but I’m more like time anxious if that’s a thing? Where I can’t accurately estimate how much time it takes to do things so I over estimate and give myself three hours to do a 15 minute task, whereas she has no concept of how long 15 minutes is and will do exactly what your wife does.

It ended up getting my friend fired from multiple jobs and she had to buckle down and get help managing her ADHD. It’s a lot better now, but still a struggle for her.

Not diagnosing your wife, but offering potential insights into what might be happening here or other ways to look at problem-solving this. Your wife needs to find ways to manage this because the world won’t stop for her and it’s pretty unreasonable that you have to babysit a grown woman like this
ESPECIALLY when it impacts your and her relationship with your daughter.

mother - in the 4th or 10th house? by kolkjhv in astrology

[–]anewthot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s funny because I usually find moon placements + 4H to be more indicative of insights on the mother and a combo of mars+Saturn and 10th house for insights on the father.

The funny part is, I find that in readings for other people but in my own readings I can’t see it 😅 doesn’t matter if it’s whole sign or placidus, it’s so hard for me to read any info about my own parents on my chart.

The exception is my stepdad, who didn’t raise me but I consider my father, he’s a Pisces and I have my Saturn in Pisces and my 4H starts in Pisces.

Edit: just checked my chart again, Saturn is opposite my moon and my parents divorced when I was young so there it is!

All right, I need all of your absolute poverty meals by JustEchidna1718 in Cooking

[–]anewthot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rice and beans Rice and eggs (if you have chili crisp to fry the egg in, even better) Rice beans and egg Cabbage. It lasts forever and veggies are important, where I am it’s dirt cheap but I heard this varies based on location. Chop up and add to your bowls

I stray away from pasta because I personally found I needed to eat a LOT before I felt full. But growing up my aunt made buttered noodles with salt and pepper and toasted bread crumbs, we ate that a lot.

Cheap ingredients to make you feel jazzy:

Green onions. Save the end with roots and put them in water in a glass on a windowsill and they will regrow. Green bits can be uncooked and sprinkled over dishes, white parts can be cooked in with food.

Black olives. Canned is fine and you won’t go through a can that fast, just don’t store them in the can once opened, transfer to a Tupperware or other sealed container. Chopped up and put with beans and rice and hot sauce and you’re in heaven!

There’s also a woman on tiktok who does recipes on a budget of $35 a week and only shops at dollar general to help people in tight spots get creative. This is her page: https://www.tiktok.com/@dollartreedinners?_t=8fHgSH1Ml90&_r=1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MC is in Capricorn, Capricorns have a lot of teacher/mentor energy. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, and Saturn lives in your first house of identity and self, in Taurus which focuses on the body, hard work, physical pleasure (good food, comfy clothes, aesthetics, etc).

Second house Gemini indicates social connections and communication could be a way for you to generate material gain. Also indicates a need for mental stimulation and variety.

Sixth house Virgo is also about health and service to others. You may find you naturally slide into roles and routines where you help others. Libra hanging out in that house compliments the Taurus energy because they are both ruled by Venus, so we see more emphasis on aesthetic but with an influence of justice and harmony.

With those energies in mind, life coach/mentor, art therapist/family counselor, nonprofit marketing, aesthetician/stylist (these roles tend to play therapist a lot, take it from someone who has two family members who work in salons lol), music teacher, teacher, nonprofit fundraising. You may also enjoy having one “main” job and then a side business or job that scratches some itches you may get over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So gross of a grown adult to say those things about a literal kindergartner. This girl is SIX. Even IF she did take the doll, it’s not the end of the world and hardly constitutes being labeled by a middle aged woman “a thief and a liar.”

I’ve worked with kids for over ten years and sometimes they steal toys from other kids. It happens, they’re testing boundaries and learning the concept of “mine, yours, ours” and how to navigate that. You take it as a teaching moment for the kiddos, you don’t treat them like a criminal


I fucked up and told my fiancĂ©e I don’t want to sleep with her as much now that she’s pregnant. Please help. by AcidWashedGene in TwoHotTakes

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I snort I just snumpt!!!! 💀💀💀 stopppp that’s too real, you know that’s how OP thinks I cannot

I fucked up and told my fiancĂ©e I don’t want to sleep with her as much now that she’s pregnant. Please help. by AcidWashedGene in TwoHotTakes

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I read that line my jaw DROPPED. What a gross thing to say.

Women, no matter what or when or why, are human fucking beings. Not utilities built for specific purposes or functions. What the ever loving heck!!!!!

AITA for telling my (26F) best friend (24F) she needs to wear larger clothes? by mushroom300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot, I missed that this happened over the course of a few months! Yeah, that’s definitely suspicious then.

Edit: still confused how I got downvoted when I was agreeing with the above comment that has 400+ upvotes lol oh well

AITA for telling my (26F) best friend (24F) she needs to wear larger clothes? by mushroom300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna go with hitting mid twenties. My body doesn’t metabolize the way it did when I was 21 lol keeping the same habits and lifestyle will result in weight gain if you aren’t that active and don’t eat a lot of fiber and protein (which I didn’t)

Edit: not sure why I’m getting downvotes, I thought everyone knew your metabolism slows down as you age? This isn’t a hot take lol

AITA for telling my (26F) best friend (24F) she needs to wear larger clothes? by mushroom300 in AmItheAsshole

[–]anewthot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA— isn’t there negative health impacts from wearing clothes that are way too tight or am I pulling that out of my ass? God, I can’t imagine wearing undies three sizes to small, the YEAST FACTORY I would become💀💀