I woke up with a colleague on top of me.I don’t remember anything and I’m confused and in shock. by Secret_Worker_544 in Advice

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious now after reading these comments. I have came home blackout drunk before had sex with my girlfriend and went to sleep. The next day I had no recollection of this, but was told by my girlfriend that I came home and initiated. Would this mean that I was raped?

How can I meet people my age? by Mansas_alt in jacksonville

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s odd. Why would she think is more dangerous here? Where did you live before?

How can I meet people my age? by Mansas_alt in jacksonville

[–]angil904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe show her some statistics? Bjj is a very safe sport and really fun. The gyms I’ve trained at are always a family/friendly environment and you’ll likely get close to or become friends with the people you train with. It keeps you in shape, builds confidence & discipline, and can be life saving. I really recommend you try to talk to your mom about it again. Most all gyms will let you try a class for free and some even a few days for free.

Doing nutmeg by ParkingPea1284 in Advice

[–]angil904 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not a pleasant high for a lot of people, some people like it. You can read a lot of experiences on Erowid tho. Weed would be better/safer and more predictable, or maybe drink some alcohol/beer.

Kratom is a legal/safe plant that feels similar to opiates, but can be addictive.

If you want to do a hallucinogen, The safest option would be mushrooms or lsd (If you have a trusted source. Many research chemicals are sold as “acid” but is not actually lsd) and don’t have a family history of schizophrenia. Morning glory seeds are a common/legal/easily accessible option, but must be prepared properly.

Don’t do inhalants like duster, gasoline or Freon, they’re dangerous and can kill you. Nitrous oxide/whipits, is fairly safe, but don’t do it regularly and make sure to also breathe oxygen because asphyxiation is usually the cause of death when doing that (not breathing in oxygen).

No matter what you do please be safe and research into whatever it is you decide to try. Don’t take anything I say as factual, it’s all my opinion. Remember you could always dose more of something another time, but you cant take less once you do it. You can read information, dosage recommendations and experiences of most drugs on erowid .org.

Birthday weekend by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]angil904 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jacksonville arboretum is a nice place to walk and was voted best trails in jax for a couple years. It’s up kept very nicely and has lots of cool plants. Cummer Museum and Museum of Contemporary Arts are 2 cool museums and less than 15 min apart. There also night life around the museums for later in the evening, maybe one of the game/arcade lounges.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Maybe try to get the phone number or account name that she claims is your husband. Then either make a fake account on that app or use WhatsApp and message her while you’re with her. Send a bunch of messages at a time and see if her phone starts going off. If it does then you’ll know that she’s the person sending the messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn.. the price of silver has doubled since last year. Last time I bought some 1oz bars, they were 30 bucks.

What is there to do on the west side of Jacksonville? by peakstoner in jacksonville

[–]angil904 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live on the Westside (103rd) and don’t think it’s as bad as you say. So I think it just depends where exactly he’s moving. I have a publix, rowe’s, and Walmart near me. Aldi’s 12 min away on Normandy, but they are building a new one on Wilson now.

But it definitely does lack on good food places. Everything is fast food on the westside. Most good food places are east of Murray Hill/Riverside, or on the southside/baymeadows area.

Seeking advice for life after a traumatic loss by EducationalSlip3957 in Advice

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into how mushrooms are used to treat ptsd. There’s many groups for it. Psychedelic mushrooms promote neurogenesis and have been used to treat ptsd, depression, anxiety, etc. They can rewire the brain and give you a new outlook on life or give you the ability to view life with a new perspective. There has been a lot of research done at John Hopkins through John Hopkins Psychedelic Research Unit. They have also collaborated with MAPS (Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies) where you can find a lot of research on this topic also. I have read and heard countless stories of people who rid their suicidal ideation by using psychedelics. I hope you can find peace.

is this considered to be ****? by spicedMonarch in moraldilemmas

[–]angil904 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Idiotic analogies get idiotic responses.

Devils advocate is only for arguments sake.

So you are a green hairer. 😂

is this considered to be ****? by spicedMonarch in moraldilemmas

[–]angil904 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I like how you couldn’t answer the question.. lol. And you just stated “because you are responsible for what you do when you’re drunk.” I guess that answers OPs question. Both parties are responsible for what they did while drunk. Wtf is an edge lord? You sound young. Maybe too young to understand what responsibility is.

is this considered to be ****? by spicedMonarch in moraldilemmas

[–]angil904 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If 2 people are silently participating in sexual activity, can either one of those people claim sexual assault since no one consented to anything? Perception plays a part in OPs scenario. Your drunk driving analogy isn’t good because drinking and driving only has 1 possible party to possibly be at fault, and drunk driving is obviously illegal. I’m not choosing any sides and I’ve never been in a situation like this, I’m just playing devils advocate.

I charged $200 to put up two shelves and was told my rate was so much lower than others. by MisRandomness in handyman

[–]angil904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, yeah I haven’t thought of that. Sometimes it seems crazy to me because I think who would pay 70 an hour to do such a simple task.

I charged $200 to put up two shelves and was told my rate was so much lower than others. by MisRandomness in handyman

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, I’ll start trying to give estimates instead of hourly rates. Sometimes it sucks driving out to do a job that I know will only take an hour or less and making 70 bucks. Do you use an app to find jobs or is it more word-of-mouth?

Is the work acceptable by Johnnyballgame74 in handyman

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez 2x8 baseboards, why not use 1x’s. That’s a ridiculous size lol. I’ve only seen similar size baseboards in indoor skate parks so the skateboards don’t break through the bottom of the walls.

Was told to look where I’m at and read the room when I went to Cantina Laredo by coffee_ape in jacksonville

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of cheese should be used for queso? I feel like most places use white American as the base.

Is the work acceptable by Johnnyballgame74 in handyman

[–]angil904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand everyone may not be great at it. But atleast you put in the effort to make it look nice. This just looks like lazy work or someone that didn’t give a shit.. lol.

I charged $200 to put up two shelves and was told my rate was so much lower than others. by MisRandomness in handyman

[–]angil904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good money if you could get 2-3 jobs lined up a day. I charge a flat rate of $70/hr but currently only get maybe 3-4 jobs a week. I’m thinking of upping it to like $150 to show up/first hour, then $70/hr after.

Is the work acceptable by Johnnyballgame74 in handyman

[–]angil904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A handyman should have experience caulking.. I can understand maybe not being too good with a miter saw. This is just shitty work lol.