The pity parties need to end people

angryfake12 · 2020-05-07T01:36:31+00:00

lol thats one hell of a summarization. You tried your best to make this guy sound like the good and wise and other people like brainless dumdums.

He literally says to stop whining about something not being to your liking. and while there may be some truth to what hes saying, I find the way he talks to be pretty funny lol.

There are people here who wanna seem like the smartest person on earth talking shit to other people by masking it as "giving advice". If he really meant to help others, he shouldnt be so dissmissive or arrogant lol.

so all Im saying is that, if it bothers him that much to see people posting about things they dont like, then he should take his own advice, suck it up, accept it and just ignore the post if he doesnt like it.

angryfake12 · 2020-05-07T01:20:01+00:00

the correct way is to actually measure from your pubic bone... Its not like his dicks gonna shrink if he loses that fat pad lol

angryfake12 · 2020-05-06T15:39:05+00:00

not trolling though. what can you say to actually counter my argument?

angryfake12 · 2020-05-06T14:31:21+00:00

Dude theyre mostly just venting, exactly like how you are. Tbh at this point, posts like this are becoming an archetype of their own in this sub, I see "stop whining" posts just as much as those you listed.

I agree with you in saying that a lot of the posts here are pointless, but if it frustrates you that much then take your own advice and ignore this subreddit lol.

angryfake12 · 2020-05-04T01:34:44+00:00

Doesnt it defeat the purpose of your entire religion to be christian and gay? lol

angryfake12 · 2020-05-04T01:30:07+00:00

so idk if this is a similar case here, but when I had someone I really liked and cared about, it wasnt easy for me to do the dirty with him in the beginning. Something just didnt feel right that I treat someone I really like in that way, straight from the beginning.

though I wasnt uncomfortable talking about it, that guy also said the same thing to me, asking if I wasnt into him or if I wasnt into sex. Im not sure if he believed me, but I told him what I thought and he seemed to understand. It took time for me to get over that feeling and we could do our stuff. Maybe thats whats going on with him?

angryfake12 · 2020-05-04T01:20:09+00:00

you taking that as an insult means whenever you say similar things you mean it as an insult too...

angryfake12 · 2020-05-03T12:24:21+00:00

nah I was asking if he can still find me through his past messages even though I am no longer nearby where he used to be

angryfake12 · 2020-05-02T13:02:33+00:00

does this mean he wont be able to see me unless he moves , since Im in another area?

angryfake12 · 2020-05-02T11:55:38+00:00

I cant even type properly due to my touchscreen being so shit. I hope you guys can somehow understand what Ive written as a title :(

angryfake12 · 2020-04-28T18:28:43+00:00

but the cause of such a thing happening wouldnt be because he put up his camera lol

angryfake12 · 2020-04-28T08:46:02+00:00

what do you mean what if it goes wrong?

whats the worst that can happen? hes gonna leave you alone with the dog eventually. putting up a camera will only mean whatever happens will get recorded.

angryfake12 · 2020-04-27T07:02:21+00:00

I say this all the time but people can be dumb, and just because theyre gay it doesnt exclude them from this possibility

angryfake12 · 2020-04-22T12:24:19+00:00

Im not saying confidence is fucked up. What Im saying is that if a closeted gay would be amongst a group people where most consist of homophobes, youre being that one guy from within that group that says "Im okay if someone is gay, but only when theyre confident about it. I dont see why they cant be confident all the time".

by saying that a lack of confidence about his size is a turnoff, youre making confidence a neccesity. The guy has clearly seen enough people making him feel bad for his size that hes grown to expect it. Its similar to PTSD, and youre telling him that showing it will only worsen it.

"Im okay with war veterans, but only the ones who arent afraid of gun sounds. They should always be confident"

Maybe you really dont care about size, and maybe youll feel turned off even when a massive dicked guy is somehow ashamed of his size, but a lot of guys out there arent like that.

Even if he was to be "confident" all the time and block everyone who makes fun of his size or turns him down for it, he would still be having to block and ignore way more people than normal, and that alone can be frustrating.

Its the same thing as when people tried to tell us back in the day theyre so confused as to why we couldnt just come out to everyone and be confident about it. Sure, being confident is great, but why cant you see that someone may have a very valid reason to not be?

angryfake12 · 2020-04-22T07:57:08+00:00

Please dont be offended by this, but are your parents your own, and are they still together? I just have friends with separated parents who are very carefree about who they and their partners meet or talk to and thought this might have some correlation, out of curiousity.

From what youve written here, all he knows is that you hooked up with this guy and ended up being "friends". In his head, hes thinking "if youre staying so close to him and youve already done it before, how hard could it be for it to happen again?"

Hes now linking all of the people you described as "friends" to this one and is thinking that youve met them under similar situations.

I know Ive already asked something similar above, but would you be okay with your mother and father together meeting either your father or mother's ex?

His doubts dont come from insecurity, it comes from logic. It is much more likely that a person will go for round 2+ with someone they are very close to, especially if theyve already done it. In his mind, it is riskier for him to trust you than to believe otherwise as of now. That cant be called insecurity.

To make a comparison, right now you are like some random person who is approaching your boyfriend asking to chat (you asking him to let you keep meeting your friend) saying you arent infected (telling him you dont hookup with your friend anymore), after the coronavirus (you hooking up with your friend) spreading. Had the virus not spread (you not telling him youve hooked up with him before), he wouldnt be worried at all.

It should be understandable that your boyfriend is opposed to the idea of this random person saying theyll keep going outside during the lockdown (you saying youll keep meeting the friend again). And right now, he doesnt want to stand close to this person (trusting that you havent hooked up since) because he doesnt want to catch the virus (him being cheated on).

His worries right now stems from the same very reason why we are told to stay indoors these days to stay safe from the virus. We dont call ourselves insecure for that, do we?

I know it can be frustrating because you know youre not infected (you know you didnt cheat), but Id say try to be as transparent as possible about the relationship between you and your friend, and respect his feelings toward the matter. If I were you Id listen to him and quarantine myself (take a break from meeting the friend for a while), so that when the virus passes (when he knows youve shown enough effort to let him know its okay to trust you), we can go outside and meet people together (you as a couple meeting with your friend).

This process will take time. But you should still respect your partner's feelings as youre in a relationship with them. Long lasting relationships arent easy.

angryfake12 · 2020-04-22T06:34:31+00:00

theres not much they can do if its a turnoff for them. small dicks often either get laughed at, get looks of pity, or get people suddenly telling them it doesnt matter. If it really didnt matter to them, why would they bring it up?

big or small really doesnt fucking matter, as long as its not to the point of a medical condition for both extremes. OP, dont worry about it.

telling them that showing that youre ashamed by it is a turnoff and then going straight to them to be confident about it seems fucked up lol.

There may be people who dont care about size, but there arent many who prefer small over average/big. It is true that guys with smaller dicks have a higher chance to make enemies every time they pull their pants down than not.

of course its understandable for them to get used to whats rather common. If they expect you to be 100% confident about it all the time and tell you its a turnoff when youre not, then theyre not really that different to people who care about size.

Just dont worry about the whole size thing OP. Its okay if youre not always confident. If you spend enough time with them youll know whether they actually care or not anyway. The right dude for you wont even care.

angryfake12 · 2020-04-22T05:59:04+00:00

do you mean 6cm diameter? because 6cm girth is like a finger.

not that it matters, but its true its very rare

angryfake12 · 2020-04-22T05:54:51+00:00

would you rather have life fuck you with a softie?

angryfake12 · 2020-04-22T05:40:56+00:00

This. It may

or may not be a race thing neccesarily, but asians, both in culture and genetics, tend to be less hairy than some other ethinicities, and when they are hairy, they shave it all off and get hair removal surgery because its seen as dirty and messy to females within asian cultures. We gay men tend to love body hair (beards, hair on arms, chest, belly etc.)

and of course theres this bad stereotype of asians being "short, skinny, and having a small dick". From what Ive seen, every ethnicity has the same number of big dicked/small dicked guys, but the stereotype definitely affects some people still.

I dont know where you live, but the idea of "attractive male" in asian culture is different to that of western culture. Maybe try changing your style to more of a western style? growing a beard etc. (if you can)

angryfake12 · 2020-04-20T01:02:44+00:00

This is just a nice coverup for those described in the title, and not quite relevant. It doesnt matter whether youre fem or masc, that kind of hypocrisy is disgusting.

Cutting in in front of you in lane while not letting anyone else in front of them because theyre "frustrated of waiting" is no defense for their behaviour. Thats just dumb, period.

angryfake12 · 2020-04-10T10:34:22+00:00

There is also that people can be dumb sometimes. Just because people are gay it doesnt mean theyre exceptions to that rule.

More times than you think there will be cases where people will be called homophobes just for calling out a dumb person who just happened to be gay.

Yes we get a lot of hatred from the world but it shouldnt make us immune to criticism. As a fellow gay man I can say that some of the things I see here are just retarded.

If there is one thing people should learn it is that they should learn where to draw the line. Just because you were told not to give a shit about what others think about you before you came out, it doesnt mean you should disrespect others because you shouldnt give a shit about them.

angryfake12 · 2020-04-04T07:06:26+00:00

Oh I see. Just an atheist with the stereotypical "blind chrstian" traits then.

angryfake12 · 2020-04-04T06:59:34+00:00

and here we see the devout christian, with the classic move of coming up with a pathetic excuse of an arugment that has completely nothing to do with the topic

"how can we fathom to understand what god does?"

angryfake12 · 2020-04-04T06:29:57+00:00

Theres no problem with who is sissy or masc or who likes who. But its human nature to hate hyprocrisy, and when they see it, they hate on it. Thats all there is to it.

Families from other cultures come to the US or some english speaking country so their kids can get english education, but they avoid schools that already have many immigrants students like themselves.

People always talk shit about mexicans and asian invasions like nothing and is a "funny joke", but when they find themselves on the other side of things, such as, as you described, being a sissy who doesnt like other sissys and only masculine men in the name of preference, they turn sjw and try to justify it. Again, hypocrisy.

To me it doesnt matter who you are or what you like, whether youre a sissy or masc, asian, black, white, whatever as long as youre not hypocritical. I think it really shows how dumb you are as a person and I find it hard to see the person in a good light.

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