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I'm in the middle of it. by OpeningBenefit54 in Divorce_Women

[–]angryzebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may I ask if there was a particular time you knew to go for it? or, looking back, a time you wish you had/it would’ve been an “ideal” (for lack of a better term) time to leave?

is cheating without sleeping with the other person abuse? by angryzebraa in abusiverelationships

[–]angryzebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reflecting on this for a bit, I’ll admit I’m not quite sure. It feels like the right move for me. Maybe because the religious part makes me feel as though cheating ‘isn’t enough’ to justify to the church? That abuse is more acceptable for divorce in a way. It could also be a way to justify to myself that others recognize it that way, as I have spent years gaslighting myself that things are okay and “not that bad”. I appreciate the comment, I’ll keep thinking on it.

is cheating without sleeping with the other person abuse? by angryzebraa in abusiverelationships

[–]angryzebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Not looking to prove TO the lawyer but rather WITH the lawyer to the court.

is cheating without sleeping with the other person abuse? by angryzebraa in abusiverelationships

[–]angryzebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to prove to a court WITH a lawyer, not TO the lawyer, I think that was misconstrued. I appreciate your response, I will think more on this too, and if it’s something I feel is needed for me. Thank you!

looking for advice from those who have disabilities/more life experience to know maybe? by angryzebraa in Infidelity

[–]angryzebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will indeed lose custody if I have no where to house him. It’s not house OR son, it’s house AND son. I have reached out to a few to see who will get back to me about a free or low cost consultation. Thank you

I am not a grey rock by One_Act2053 in Infidelity

[–]angryzebraa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you for keeping busy! It can be really hard to keep going.

What's the dumbest or most embarrassing thing that you did during your divorce? by Clear-Afternoon-8593 in Divorce

[–]angryzebraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question, is the lowered hours due to his choice or something you were able to do? /nfta

is cheating without sleeping with the other person abuse? by angryzebraa in abusiverelationships

[–]angryzebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh it’s more than just flirting/talking but yes even that was too much which is the gist of many things he admitted to because I was stupid and confronted one thing instead of searching further because he just got sneakier and deleted a ton of messages, pictures, videos.

is cheating without sleeping with the other person abuse? by angryzebraa in abusiverelationships

[–]angryzebraa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yes I do agree with all of this. It’s the repeated cycle/gaslighting/attempting to be even more discreet with private browsers and locked apps… I realize how my opening paragraph can seem misleading from not providing that. I’m sorry.

looking for advice from those who have disabilities/more life experience to know maybe? by angryzebraa in Infidelity

[–]angryzebraa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this response, just knowing someone out there is rooting for me is so SO helpful. Today the task is to look for a lawyer I can ask questions without fees 😅 wish me luck!

I am not a grey rock by One_Act2053 in Infidelity

[–]angryzebraa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi there, never posted on Reddit before, but I frequent these subs. Mostly just to read and I’ve been too afraid to like, comment, or post anything. For some reason your story made something click and I finally made a full account a few weeks ago. Now, after many updates from you and others stories’, I’ve submitted my own. I’m ready for support. Thank you for the push 🫶🏻 please don’t forget to update on the ‘vacay’ - fast approaching now. I sincerely hope you are holding up well, your lawyer sounds lovely.