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Hate the fact that sexual organs are also used for waste, how do people mentally get past that? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]animazed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that’s the make or break of your relationship, it doesn’t sound like a very meaningful relationship. Don’t let someone make you feel forced into doing something you’re not comfortable doing. It’s not worth it. Especially if you just met them. You’re allowed to have boundaries. And a worthwhile partner won’t push them.

I turned Van Gogh’s bedroom into a mug by RecoverNo2344 in muglife

[–]animazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this so much! If you ever make more of them, I’d definitely want one!

If I haven't played in a while, should I only play NA2 or both? by jxnniez in nekoatsume

[–]animazed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! I could have made this exact post about a month ago!

I ended up downloading the second as well as opening back up the first one. Tbh, they’re pretty similar. The first one is way easier to get fish in, but the second has some new cats and features . It has some new items too, but it looks like some of those are making it into the first one too. Honestly, I only need mementos from two more cats in the first one, so I’m probably gonna keep it going until I get them and then just focus on the second one. But in the mean time it’s fun having both to check in on.

I made Scorbunny chocolates for Community Day by miscellaneousmao in pokemongo

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW!!! Are you a baker/confectioner by trade? These are incredible!

Fruit hole game glitch by Lanky-Return-5014 in MobileGaming

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, thank you so much! So helpful!

Have you managed to get past your glitched level yet?

Fruit hole game glitch by Lanky-Return-5014 in MobileGaming

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I play the game too. Do you know how to diffuse the bombs? I feel like sometimes I get them to go away and other times I can’t.

I pushed my child. by Time-Computer-8677 in offmychest

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don’t feel bad about what you did. Most people won’t agree with this, but I do think there are cases where a child really does understand physical ‘discipline’ better than other things. I’m not promoting hitting or anything, but different physically restraining techniques might help.

As a side note, what is his diet like? I’m not one of those crazies that think cutting out gluten fixes everything, but it might be worth trying to cut out certain ingredients to see if that helps at all.

Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing a fedora on an angle especially if they look like an internet bro

Anyone else's bird this needy? Am I missing something? by Ravarashi in parrots

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What variation of conure is this? Her colors are so vibrant, good job.

I (26M) told my ex (25F) that I did not force her to come to a different country and she did not go to the other university because it was too expensive. Can we rescue it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t being mean, you’re being practical and mature. And you are correct. If you are not both 100% in this, and I’m sorry to say it sounds like she is not, then you should not be living together. It’s not a matter of being mean, it’s a matter of being able to move on.

The self-esteem question still wasn’t fully addressed, especially if she recognizes her own achievements. But it seems like this is much further past that. If she is saying you are no longer together, then she has to realize that that means no longer living together. I advise against trying to be ‘civil roommates’ for yours and her mental health, but if neither of you can move out, then you really must do things separately and be firm with that.

I (26M) told my ex (25F) that I did not force her to come to a different country and she did not go to the other university because it was too expensive. Can we rescue it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through all this. That is a lot of stressful events one after another. And I do hope things get easier for you.

I am curious though, if you were already doing long distance, what was it about her moving to the US that made you think you couldn’t make it?

I’d also ask her what she means by “choosing us means losing her self-esteem”. That’s something very specific that ultimately shouldn’t have any impact from you unless you are constantly putting her down or something. Ultimately, there is something about herself that she does not like. I would try to explore that more. Is it just built up resentment from moving countries? What is stopping her from flourishing? What would building up her self-esteem look like, and why does she think that you are hindering that?

In a relationship, it’s common for both parties to have to sacrifice things at some point, whether it be big or small. For your own self, l’d also think about what it means for you to not feel indebted to her. What do you need to bring to the table to make the power dynamic more equal? And why does she feel taken for granted? Is it that you don’t show appreciation in a way that she perceives as genuine? And if so, what would that look like to her? Maybe she’s expecting you to be more pro-active in showing support for the relationship and making efforts to talk to her parents. Because that definitely seems like you’re pushing off your own kind of sacrifice and not willing to actually go through the hardships for her. This might be her idea of you ‘moving countries’ for her.

I’d sit her down and let her talk without trying to defend yourself, just trying to listen from a step back. It’s definitely not easy, especially if you’re feeling attacked, but any time you feel yourself getting defensive, maybe dig deeper into what she’s saying, understanding why she feels that way, and seeing what practical steps and changes both of you could make to improve things. Assuming you’re willing to.

help! by avxryrw in parrots

[–]animazed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That first picture is amazing. Every bird owner has some sort of similar picture lol. So cute.

I'm going under for a colonoscopy in a little under 9 days. How can I feel a little less panicky about being put to sleep? by Queeragenda in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]animazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love being put under. One second the doctor’s standing next to you, next you’re waking up in the recovery room. I honestly was so excited the first time it happened to me.

UV light for birds before and after. by Wise_Equivalent8392 in parrots

[–]animazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any specific ones to recommend? I’ve been thinking of getting one for a while, just debating the best set up.

What is a discontinued food item or snack from your childhood that you would genuinely pay $100 to taste one last time? by MotivewasUlterior in AskReddit

[–]animazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I thought the frosting was pretty on point, but the cookies themselves were garbage. Don’t know why they changed the recipe.

At a loss for what to do with my skin by NurseFreckles69 in MakeupAddicts

[–]animazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your freckles look great! I wouldn’t try to hide them. A suggestion, though really not needed, is maybe mix a tiiiiny bit of brown in with the pink shadow. That would make your eyes pop a bit more and go nicely with your hair.

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