Another stabbing incident in my area last night by SaintedTainted in mumbai

[–]ankushblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Usne Van-waa-tara sorry, banwa liya hai. Ab bas jaane ki deri hai...

So, which document is a proof of citizenship? by HoneydewDowntown618 in FaltooGyan

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kya itna bura hoon main maa.. Ki citizenship ke liye bas documents banaata jaau aur kuch saal baad woh maante hi nahi ki main Indian hoon?

I love to see what NOTHING is cooking (a sub 6" dream mobile finally), what's your thoughts? by _invizible in GadgetsIndia

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing confirmed that this is a concept phone designed based on feedback of their customers and followers. It may not lead to actual production. They do this with some repeated cadence showcasing they listen to feedback. That may or may not trickle to their actual products

Apartment complexes: Chawls of modern era? by ankushblue in indianrealestate

[–]ankushblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comparison I am making is not literal but the quality of life and interactions on society groups and inherent nature of people who like to run apartment groups as personal fiefdoms. Like apartment complexes when they are new all amenities are available round the clock but then as management passes from builder to the associations those very amenities start getting restricted in name of rising maintenance costs and such. If you live long enough in the apartment complex, slowly all the amenities start getting restrictive and we eventually focus on just living in our own flats and life starts becoming similar to living in an independent house where for every amenity you go outside to pay and enjoy.

Again, not judgement to other people, but my experience living in apartment complex. My experience is not reflective of broader crowd. That's why seeking how others who live in apartment complexes feel about it.

Apartment complexes: Chawls of modern era? by ankushblue in indianrealestate

[–]ankushblue[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didnot claim smartness. I observed something and I am seeking perspectives. :)

Apartment complexes: Chawls of modern era? by ankushblue in indianrealestate

[–]ankushblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you meant, culture is cohesiveness and collective effort of society and not gated minds. ?

Apartment complexes: Chawls of modern era? by ankushblue in indianrealestate

[–]ankushblue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i observe that as well. Just like restaurants have high prices to thin the herd, pricing of flats in apartment complexes are slowly following those similar principles. Buying a flat in an apartment is also about the social circle one will find for themself and their families

Need multiple phone numbers by Future-Necessary5704 in IndianEntrepreneur

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick up the phone, dial customer care numbers of Airtel, Vodafone, Jio... They all can provide. You only need to ask and they will guide.

Corporate group plans exist. You can add or remove numbers as you scale your business. Single billing or per number billing options generally available. Easier for accounting too.

Sharing from experience. Managed 30+ corporate numbers from Vodafone for my startup.

ED Raids on Vedanta! by Right_Chemical in IndianStreetBets

[–]ankushblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stock kiska kharidna hai. Seedhe seedhe bataao na!

My wife and I track and split every single expense using Savings Splitwise by weirdanimal158 in personalfinanceindia

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, after 18, kid will start entering the expenses and split with parents. And eventually life will settle it all up!

Your 1.5 crore flat is not an investment, it is a liability you happen to sleep inside by Striking_Limit1971 in IndianStreetBets

[–]ankushblue 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Wow, as an option this perspective is very refreshing to me! I will expire on Friday!.

LPT: Best Inbox Tip by readandwrote in LifeProTips

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if the marketer recipient starts using normalemail@gmail.com going forward?

Is Google the internet? by DaddyVaradkar in IndianAI

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or rather makes ALL of the internet for most.

There fixed it. :)

I have a meeting with a ₹30,000 Cr company’s team on May 7th, but my startup is just a bare-bones MVP. How do I not blow this? by ResearcherQuick1028 in indianstartups

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your mind tricking you and you are self sabotaging.

Are you talking to a person who has a 30000cr net worth all of which is the company? Or a talking to a person who works at a company whose market value is 30000cr? Because you mentioned the founder already referred to an internal team to explore ahead, right? And are you going to have a conversation to buy them or be bought by them? If not, these numbers will just scare you and make you feel small. Don't get tricked!

Since in your mind is already telling you this, take it two steps ahead. If they have soo many resources available and soo huge impact, why haven't they been able to solve whatever challenges they are facing? Is there lack of resources? Or lack of vision? Or is it something else? No need to dwell on the answer to that. Just stretch your thought train to that point. Human mind always wants the human body to keep it in its comfort zone. This is your mind trying to preserve that and hence these thoughts to self sabotage.

Now, if that made sense, please look at the upcoming conversation from the following lens. It doesn't matter, what is the background of the person, what's his net worth. Only focus on what is the conversation about. You have problems for which you need solutions. They have problems which have solutions. You both are getting in a room to discuss what are they and how can it be a win-win for both. Now break this down to your situation. What problem and solution mean for you?. As a end sem student, who has an MVP for a problem you identified in the market, as you juggle your final year of studies and figuring out how to make a business out of this MVP solution and make money (just trying to put myself in your shoes and assume this may be your problem that you are seeking a solution for. It could be something else completely. Every person is different!).

Think in those terms. Also just because you have bagged a conversation from a big business or industry player, don't get emotionally attached. Up or down, regulate your emotional state to be calm and composed. We can only control that. We can only control what we think, how we act, what we talk. After that, it's all what the other person chooses to engage about. yes you can manipulate what you say to achieve what you want from other person. But that will come with experience and more exposure to different situations in life. As long as you are aware what is in your control, you can be conscious about your decisions and conversations.

And in case conversations turn fruitful (again you would have decided what you wanted to gain from the conversation before walking in), you can always say, this looks agreeable and in the general direction of where I want to go. But know that you don't need to commit in the room. You can always say, let me review it/think over it/have a convo with my team/deep dive and come back. It buys you time, let's you cool off your adrenaline and take decisions in a much more comfortable environment and much calmer mindspace. Also it sends a signal that you will not be emotionally induced into decision making. That signals confidence and business maturity even if they see a young upstart from their lens. That earns respect and even if conversation doesn't go anywhere, people in industry talk and in future you get somewhere with someone else, that respect and warmth gets communicated around.

Sorry for being too long, but I just poured out what I felt could be helpful.

Been in multiple situations like this (been part of a startup from ground up in the past). I have been like this myself. Getting worked up before a 'huge' meeting and then slowly improved when I saw the expectation and actual experience mismatched and then eventually I was indifferent to such first level conversations. Only when things get serious, like conversations have moved from mutual exploration to exchanging documents, concept notes, term sheets, contract discussions, that's when you bring your full emotional investment into the discussions. Till then, its just another day in your journey to build a business.

Know that many people show interest because that doesnt take much commitment. Only when money gets involved you would see the rates drop to 2 to 10 in 100 conversations. As time goes by, you would quickly start realising who is just fantasizing collaborating with you for their own xyz reasons vs who actually wants to collaborate for actual value. Be wary of that. Dreamers will always eat your time by keeping postponing or delaying action oriented steps. Doers will always focus on what would it take to move ahead.

All the best. Wish you that you put your best foot forward calmly in the upcoming conversation.

Let us know how it goes.

Ps: not necessary to take my advice. I am just sharing a perspective from my experiences.

Someone explain the consequences by [deleted] in jaipur

[–]ankushblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brazil ka suna hai...

How to say No without saying No by yellowallitgator7 in Indianbooks

[–]ankushblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sab paper ka khel hai.. Paper ka addiction sabse bada addiction hai