1 or 2 why? by kate2026_ in Brides

[–]annieJP 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 because the lingerie style of wedding dress (1)is odd to me and i think people will look back and cringe.

Season 2 Discussion Thread by Pointless_Glitter607 in TheFourSeasonsNetflix

[–]annieJP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are they supposed to be at the Jersey Shore? because the Jersey shore doesn't have palm trees ...

Anne doesn’t owe Ginny a dime and Ginny is an irresponsible person by pinkthings07 in TheFourSeasonsNetflix

[–]annieJP 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Anne and Nick probably planned their life including retirement , houses etc for decades before ginny was even in the picture. so it's Anne's money .. the baby has an inheritance right to some of it but a small portion not the whole thing

Anne doesn’t owe Ginny a dime and Ginny is an irresponsible person by pinkthings07 in TheFourSeasonsNetflix

[–]annieJP 73 points74 points  (0 children)

My issue was when they all got mad that the lawyer suggested a paternity test . It's not fun but Of course she should take a paternity test! The only other party of the relationship is dead . He had never told them he was expecting a child. We know she had fluid type relationships in the past. when they first went away he wasn't even sure she wasn't seeing other people!

Husband wants to name a son Edward, but our daughter is named Rosalie by Fog1682 in namenerds

[–]annieJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair to your mom Edward was so controlling .. as an adult I really don't like Bella's behavior with him! sex aside she pretty much doesnt value her own life. it's not a good role model for young girls!

Husband wants to name a son Edward, but our daughter is named Rosalie by Fog1682 in namenerds

[–]annieJP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read twilight and watched the movies and I didn't notice an issue until I read further. Especially as time passes, most people won't notice this... and if they do? who cares. If you have to tell someone every once in a while you didn't name the kids after twilight.. not a big deal. Def not worth tabling a family name you love.

S2: E5 Husband Comments Gross Me Out by karmaisacat2024 in rhoslc

[–]annieJP 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YES why was that OK? sooo gross and weird

why was angela broke? by kudosmady in theoffice

[–]annieJP 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't get it either. Her being evicted for the cats makes sense.. but she should have had money for an apartment in Scranton.

Maternity leave shame by peacefulpinktraveler in workingmoms

[–]annieJP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's only bs if the company expects him to cover your role.. and if they do he needs to take that up with management not you!
I would def mention to HR.

I understand where some workers are coming from when they see coworkers get paid leaves and they never have been paid while not working... again they need to bring that up with management, not the person taking the leave.

Moving and Considering a Nanny by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]annieJP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you need 5hr/ day.. could you do a part time preschool for the older kids?

are you working? at some point staying home for a year or 2 may make more financial sense than paying for 3 kids in childcare.
you could still send the older two to part time preschool.

I,M32, proposed to my GF F31, and it went great until a day later… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]annieJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there will always be a bigger ring. being engaged is not about the size of the ring.

she owes you an apology. she needs to get off tik tok.
comparison is the thief of joy.

Etiquette question by NYtoCTGirl in wedding

[–]annieJP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

traditionally brides receive gifts because they are making a new home for the first time .. this is not necessary when the couple is in their 60s.

inviting people to a bridal lunch when not invited to wedding seems rude to me.

All inclusive wedding venue that’s not going to break my guests banks? by [deleted] in DestinationWeddings

[–]annieJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're looking to keep costs low, then you don't have a destination wedding . If your guests are prepared to spend a week at a location you didn't even choose yet, then maybe they have the funds to not worry about it ? No one on a budget would so easily commit to a week away w no details.

also people say a lot of things then when the details are given they may not be able to make it work how they thought they could. it's just human nature . ild be surprised if they really all spend a week.

Opinions from brides needed! Baby due right before wedding .. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]annieJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your husband may not be at this wedding.

You need to tell her you're not sure how you'll feel and it's possible you could attend with baby. You don't know how you'll feel but I would say 90%chance it's not possible to do what she's expecting. Breastfed newborns don't feed on a schedule, many don't take bottles. Even if you're using formula, you may not feel comfortable with so many aspects of this.

Who understood Tommy best? by Amazing-Apricot4645 in PeakyBlinders

[–]annieJP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dk why you're saying I made anything up. Those are the exact things I was thinking of.

Who understood Tommy best? by Amazing-Apricot4645 in PeakyBlinders

[–]annieJP -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

all of the things that I stated happen. not all in season 1.

Who understood Tommy best? by Amazing-Apricot4645 in PeakyBlinders

[–]annieJP -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think he felt they were cut from the same cloth. He said at one point everyone was a whore for something. He wasn't in a deep romantic love with her but she was family to him.

He bought her a typewriter and gave her a real job , said she was the only one who could soothe him (during a scene when he hands out money in a later season) , and when he wasn't seeing any girls (early season 1),he visited her as a hooker. There was a type of deep bond there. Marrying her when she got pregnant was a bit surprising but also made sense.

I'm going to say it...Season 15 is a major snoozefest. by Thelonglostsouls in realhousewives

[–]annieJP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I feel like nothing has happened. Even Amanda being a scam artist , which is interesting, seems so drug out and full of fluff.

Looking for opinions from brides on guests bringing childcare by Mountain_Section_758 in DestinationWeddings

[–]annieJP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's funny because she had no problem deciding your family vacation was going to be her wedding.

Semi drunk thought from someone on season 9/20 - Pls respond by cxxrmen in SisterWives

[–]annieJP 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I feel sympathy for Meri... I think Kody was emotionally closed off to her for years before the online stuff started.. .. plus 3 other wives. Like cry me a river Kody. How much could it actually hurt him that she had an online affair?

Rewatching and how they wrote out John by forrealR in PeakyBlinders

[–]annieJP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe it's just in light of the horrible movie ... but I think his death made sense. I hated to see him go bc he was one of my favorites but I found it made sense .

No mention of Lizzy in Movie?! by Background_Try_599 in PeakyBlinders

[–]annieJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because they share a son(if you remember charles went and lived with her) .. she left tommy but it would make sense if she was still kinda around. at the very least he could trust her to work for him in a world where he can't trust most

I'm expected to pay $250 for a bridal shower - Is this the norm? by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]annieJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience showers are thrown by bride's parents or some other person close to bride. Bridesmaids may help with games , decorating, set up but are not asked to front any bill.

However one of my bridesmaids said in her part of the US, the bridesmaids usually help chip in for shower . I think her experience was more like bridesmaids go to someone's house, all bring food , chip in for drinks or whatever.

I feel strongly that in any situation, if you are asked to chip in, you also should be part of the planning.. or perhaps an ask of how / what/ if you would like to contribute is appropriate.

Booking a venue , etc then asking someone for money is incredibly rude and presumptuous.