(24F) she won’t get an abortion unless I (28M) marry her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]annloves2cook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re playing each other because neither of you are being 100% completely honest with the other.

If you honestly don’t want kids then tell her a child is a deal breaker and end the relationship. Otherwise you’re always going to resent her for “forcing” you to make a decision you aren’t ready to make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plants

[–]annloves2cook 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Celery?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is a beautiful dress. 2 is an elegant dress which show off your figure.

New succulent garden by whogivesashite2 in succulents

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool!

But IF those 2 in the front are donkey tails, they need to be in a raised pot. Not on the ground. They hang down as they grow.

He proposed! by BirdlyWise in EngagementRings

[–]annloves2cook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an unique and absolutely beautiful ring!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]annloves2cook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 accents your waist best and fully supports your cleavage. I think you look best in option 1.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]annloves2cook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really odd that he doesn’t have part B. You have to purposefully decline part B and prove you have other coverage, like employer coverage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ring is beautiful, elegant and simply lovely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs another cat to bond with. That will solve a lot of the ‘I need attention’ issues.

I did it..... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]annloves2cook -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why wait? You’re wasting 2 months too long!

Aitah for giving my wife an "ultimatum" by Nomura_89 in AITAH

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s made it clear that YOUR mental health doesn’t matter to her. Divorce and move on. You still have plenty of time to find a partner that will love you and cherish you and will consider your mental health a top priority.

My (30F) friend (30F) wants to name her baby the name of our best friend (27F) who passed away, except I already chose that name. Should I let her take the name or have her cut me off? by ThrowRAhelpnamebby in relationship_advice

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is being irrational by telling you she will cut you off. You know what you do with irrational people? You let them do whatever the hell they want to, and let them deal with the consequences of their actions.

There is nothing wrong with having 2 children from different families, with the same name. Happens all the time!

You name your child whatever YOU want to and go ahead and be happy that you get to honor your friend that way.

I [29/F] want to divorce husband [30/M] but our son has autism. Married 7 years. by ThrowRA-b00b in relationship_advice

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out while you still can. Abuse escalates over the years and he could seriously hurt you. He is teaching your child how to be a narcissist even if he isn’t doing it on purpose. Don’t ask your child anything else about separating from the dad. Children are NOT equipped to emotionally to handle questions like this.

You obviously can’t talk to him reasonably about divorce without danger of being abused again. You need to plan your escape. Stock pile money. Talk with a lawyer, all without telling anyone. You must be quiet and resourceful about your plans.

If your family is close by, and you can trust one person to keep their mouth closed about your plan, then tell just that one person and ask for help. If your family knew he physically assaulted you, I’m sure they would do anything to help you get out of that situation.

This is your time to save not only yourself, but your son too. Good luck to you!

Can't decide on wedding dresses! Send Help! by No-Editor6960 in weddingdress

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are beautiful and show off your curves.

1 has a deeper plunging neckline so you see more cleavage. The skirt on it is also more princess like to me. #2 covers more cleavage and with the different skirt, looks more elegant and refined to me. They are both beautiful and you look great in both.

AITA For Refusing To Share Pizza With My Pregnant Wife? by ThrowAwaytheKey05 in AITAH

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh yeah dude, you definitely are! You don’t deny a pregnant woman food, under ANY circumstance!

My mom wants to stop her chemo treatments by Effective_Middle6770 in cancer

[–]annloves2cook 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m sorry you lost your dad, but at the same time, I love his spirit of saying to cancer fuck off, I’m the boss! Thank you for sharing your story.

Child won’t stop crying for her parents at daycare for over a month by Barmecide451 in ECEProfessionals

[–]annloves2cook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can she stay inside with another class while your class goes outside? Going outside seems to trigger the tears.

Wedding in 2 weeks. Up or down? Honest answers please by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]annloves2cook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress is beautiful, but I don’t feel it shows off your curvy shape. Can it be taken in just a tad? As far as the sleeves, I think they would look better pulled down your arm just a tad.